Do you believe in reciprocating?
By dpk262006
@dpk262006 (58676)
Delhi, India
June 9, 2017 2:21am CST
When we are here we keep responding to different posts started by our those whom we follow and other users. Some of the users make sure that when we start our own posts, they do not fail to respond to our posts, which actually feels good and shows that they know how to reciprocate.
Are you the one one believe in reciprocating or you respond randomly, without bothering which users are particular in responding to your posts?
Image is by me.
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@dpk262006 (58676)
• Delhi, India
9 Jun 17
I know it very well that you do not fail to reciprocate. Hats off to you for your approach.
You are right that when there is no discussion by our followers/to whom we follow, to be responded, then we check other kinds of discussion.
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@dpk262006 (58676)
• Delhi, India
19 Jun 17
@Nawsheen Yes, you are very right that interacting with new members, broadens our vision.
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@Nawsheen (28643)
• Mauritius
9 Jun 17
@dpk262006 yes. I always want to meet new people. There is so much to learn from others.
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@dpk262006 (58676)
• Delhi, India
19 Jun 17
I know that you generally reciprocate. Of course, it is very necessary that you could relate to a post (stated by your follower/to whom you follow) then only you could respond.
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@dpk262006 (58676)
• Delhi, India
20 Jun 17
@LadyDuck Yes, I know that you try to respond to posts of those users, whom you follow and who also join you in your discussions.
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@LadyDuck (471459)
• Switzerland
19 Jun 17
@dpk262006 I usually read most of the discussions written by those I follow. I only skip a few that I do not judge interesting.
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@allknowing (136541)
• India
10 Jun 17
I am a diligent and responsible user here (lol)
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@dpk262006 (58676)
• Delhi, India
19 Jun 17
Yes, you are responsible user here, no doubt about it.
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@dpk262006 (58676)
• Delhi, India
19 Jun 17
@allknowing I was completely away for the last week from mylot due to some personal reasons. Whenever, I get time I do log into mylot.
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@allknowing (136541)
• India
19 Jun 17
@dpk262006 I have observed lately many of my regulars are nowhere to be seen and my discussions are totally neglected. I am losing interest here.
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@SIMPLYD (90722)
• Philippines
27 Jun 17
I firmly believe in reciprocating. When someone commented in my posts, I would comment back and also find something from his posts that might interest me.
My motto in life is "Do Unto Others As You would Like Others Do Unto You" , that's why.
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@dpk262006 (58676)
• Delhi, India
27 Jun 17
You have wonderful motto in your life that - "we should behave with others, as we would like them to behave with us".
I know that you do not fail to reciprocate and you respond to those, who join you in your discussions.
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@dpk262006 (58676)
• Delhi, India
27 Jun 17
@SIMPLYD I know that you always ensure that you do not skip to make any comment on the responses received from other mylotters. I can understand that you were busy during weekend with offline commitments, so was I.
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@SIMPLYD (90722)
• Philippines
27 Jun 17
@dpk262006 And that's what I am doing now, trying to comments back on all those who commented in my latest post because I wasn't able to do so during the weekends and yesterday, Monday, a holiday. Busy with family.
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@TiarasOceanView (70022)
• United States
9 Jun 17
Yes it is very important to me to do so dpk.
It is common courtesy.
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@dpk262006 (58676)
• Delhi, India
19 Jun 17
Some of the users do not believe in this kind of common courtesy, like you.
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@dpk262006 (58676)
• Delhi, India
20 Jun 17
@TiarasOceanView You are courteous and nice.
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@Bodyandbrain (13797)
• Gurgaon, India
10 Jun 17
Yes I try to respond to the discussions of the people who responded on mine but honestly sometimes I don't understand some posts and sometimes I don't have time to read long posts so I give it a miss. I always check the posts of the people I am following and if have more time then new posts as well.
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@dpk262006 (58676)
• Delhi, India
19 Jun 17
I know that you do not fail to reciprocate to those who come and respond to your discussions. Yes, it is primary thing that you should relate to a post, then only you could respond to it.
PS - Sorry for the late comments.
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@dpk262006 (58676)
• Delhi, India
20 Jun 17
@Bodyandbrain What is keeping you busy?
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@Bodyandbrain (13797)
• Gurgaon, India
19 Jun 17
@dpk262006 but now a days I am not getting much time to spend on mylot, so I have missed to read many discussions.
Where were you busy?
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@dpk262006 (58676)
• Delhi, India
9 Jun 17
I am aware that normally you believe in reciprocating as and where possible and you do not fail to do so.
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@prashu228 (37524)
• India
9 Jun 17
I follow recent discussions, and my notifications..
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@cmoneyspinner (9219)
• Austin, Texas
10 Jun 17
I respond like I'm having a conversation. I don't think in terms of "reciprocation". It's just chit chat. I'm talking to friends.
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@dpk262006 (58676)
• Delhi, India
19 Jun 17
It is good that you believe in conversing with other users.
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@AbbyGreenhill (45494)
• United States
9 Jun 17
A lot of times it depends on how much time I have!
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@dpk262006 (58676)
• Delhi, India
19 Jun 17
Yes, time is very important for mylotting.
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@AbbyGreenhill (45494)
• United States
19 Jun 17
@dpk262006 It sure is, for many of us.
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@Tierkreisze (1609)
• Philippines
10 Jun 17
I mostly respond based on what piques my interest. But when there's nothing good out there, then it's about time that I checked my follow list.
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@dpk262006 (58676)
• Delhi, India
19 Jun 17
It is understandable that you would respond to those posts, with whom you could relate to.
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@dpk262006 (58676)
• Delhi, India
9 Jun 17
Yes, no one is obligated to reciprocate and if you do not feel like reciprocating, it is your choice and no one has any say in it.
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@dpk262006 (58676)
• Delhi, India
19 Jun 17
I have observed that you reciprocate, at least in my case.
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@dpk262006 (58676)
• Delhi, India
9 Jun 17
Welcome to mylot family. You seem to be new to the site?
It is good that you post comments to responses received in response to your discussions. However, do you reciprocate to the users who have responded to you?
PS - I have noticed that you have joined mylot today and you have started as many as 21 new discussions in a day. We are hopeful that you would able to do justice with all of your discussions.
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@m_audrey6788 (58472)
• Germany
9 Jun 17
I usually responds to discussion that got my attention especially when I can share some experience on my own..It helps me to participate. Have a nice day
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@dpk262006 (58676)
• Delhi, India
9 Jun 17
It is understandable that you respond to those discussions which draw your attention and where you could share something. However, do you make sure that users who respond to your discussions, you go and and check their discussions and respond accordingly.
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@m_audrey6788 (58472)
• Germany
9 Jun 17
@dpk262006 ..Yes..I usually check but I only respond to discussions that got my attention
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@dpk262006 (58676)
• Delhi, India
9 Jun 17
@m_audrey6788 Of course you would only respond to those discussions, which attract your attention, you could not respond to all the posts of a user.
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@much2say (55664)
• Los Angeles, California
7 Jul 17
I guess everyone has their "methods" here. I have no method . I have to be honest and say I do things randomly here . . . and most of us "random" folks have that understanding. I wouldn't say I don't bother with who responds . . . I do take mental notes on who I communicate with. But I don't want a relationship here to be robotic with anyone . . . we just communicate when we do. And then there are friends who I will always come back to . . . even if it is very late .
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@dpk262006 (58676)
• Delhi, India
11 Jul 17
Yes, random selection could be made for responding to the posts. When a user regularly responds to our discussions we surely keep a mental note about him/her and we try our best that we could reciprocate by responding to his posts.
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@dpk262006 (58676)
• Delhi, India
9 Jun 17
It means it is purely random in our case and you just respond to a post because you could relate to the post and could contribute something on it.
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@sishy7 (27167)
• Australia
9 Jun 17
@dpk262006 Yes, and also I just happen to see the posts...
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@Ceerios (4698)
• Goodfellow, Texas
30 Jun 17
@dpk262006 - I surely do appreciate the opportunity you provide me to see such wonderful photos. Thank you. -Gus-
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@dpk262006 (58676)
• Delhi, India
3 Jul 17
It is my pleasure dear. I am glad that you like my pictures.
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@lookatdesktop (27134)
• Dallas, Texas
10 Jun 17
I like the pic. I respond to posts that are meaningful to me. I also respond to posts by those who have not had a response, and sometimes I go to the new comers posts and respond to them to help encourage their future participation. Sometimes I can't keep up with all the very interesting discussions here at myLot.
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@dpk262006 (58676)
• Delhi, India
19 Jun 17
You are the only one who not not only noticed my picture but appreciated it. Many thanks for it.
Basically, you check those posts, which do not have any response and you respond accordingly, so as to encourage the user. It is great on your part.
We all cannot keep pace with each category of discussions due to lack of time and other reasons.
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@ShifaLk (17817)
• India
21 Jun 17
I always respond back to the people who have commented on my post and even sometimes I also comment on those peoples post who have not commented on mine but just because I want to be friends with them ...
But yes nowadays I am very busy that I missed my notifications but I am back now..
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@dpk262006 (58676)
• Delhi, India
22 Jun 17
It is good to hear that you make it a point to respond to those, who participate in your discussions. We can understand that your present job is keeping you busy, however, you could join us, when you have time.
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@ShifaLk (17817)
• India
23 Jun 17
@dpk262006 yes sure. .
and thank you for understanding :)
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