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@abcdmm That's nice to hear that the love of your life won't be lost and you can make a plan to be together. My family always used to joke that they would not even get one goat for me...

@Rhombus nice, thank you.

Thankyou so much, you are very close to Lesotho and hope you will come. Some families do negotiate the price , at times they will reduce the scale, so that you pay less. There is a saying in Sesotho MONYALA KA PELI O NYALA OA HAE meaning that, even if you pay slowly, slowly untill you finish the payment , the wife is yours.

I am black in Africa, so I am reffering to ,may be white, brown or even some of the blacks. I just want to know if its only BASOTHO who do that.

@abcdmm Unless you explain further members who are not from Africa would hardly know what is BASOTHO.

@Kandae11 ok