I signed all the consent forms today
By Laurel (L_B)
@Happy2BeMe (99380)
Canada
June 20, 2017 7:03pm CST
I cried when I did but I know it has to be done. I feel great now but if I don't get it done the next heart attack will be fatal. It is just a matter of time. Scary to think that this is my only option at a chance to live long life. A week ago I never imagined I would be facing a double bypass.
The surgeon will be in within the next few days to set the date and answer any questions I have. My only question is will I make it throught the surgery? But of course they can't answer that. Nobody really knows.
They said it was heredity and stress related. I would have to figure out how to make my life less stressful but there isn't much I can do about my genes.
So now it is just a waiting came. Today my grand daughter came for a visit. It was nice to see her. My daughter, son, my fiance and a friend I use to work with all came to visit today. It helped pass the day.
How was your day?
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@Nawsheen (28643)
• Mauritius
21 Jun 17
@Happy2BeMe Yes today he is perfectly fine. You will be okay too. Just be strong
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@Happy2BeMe (99380)
• Canada
21 Jun 17
Thanks for sharing that. It brings me comfort. Glad he is doing well.
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@TiarasOceanView (70022)
• United States
21 Jun 17
And you will be in hospital no doubt until they operate right Laurel?
Yes this is sad that this has happened but I am happy you caught this in time.
I am glad everyone is there about you Laurel.
Bless you..it must be a drag to be in there when you want to be home.
How long after surgery do you know that you may have to stay in and recover in the hospital?
I guess it all depends on how it goes.
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@TiarasOceanView (70022)
• United States
21 Jun 17
@Happy2BeMe Yes I thought they may keep you even longer after surgery. Yes you will take quite a while to heal there Laurel because of the bone. I am glad you are in there as to go home would be lethal for you. Do let us know the date of surgery please so we can hold vigil for you.
Do let us know the date of surgery please so we can hold vigil for you.3 people like this
@Happy2BeMe (99380)
• Canada
21 Jun 17
@TiarasOceanView yes I will let you know as soon as I know. I appreciated that.
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@TiarasOceanView (70022)
• United States
21 Jun 17
@Happy2BeMe Alright thanks ever Laurel..on the day I will hold a vigil for you of prayer.
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@SIMPLYD (90722)
• Philippines
21 Jun 17
@Happy2BeMe Welcome. I pray that everything will go on smoothly with your operation.
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@Happy2BeMe (99380)
• Canada
21 Jun 17
That is great and comforting to hear. Thanks
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@BelleStarr (61102)
• United States
21 Jun 17
Do you take a statin? Have you had your cholesterol checked? I am just curious, I take a statin and I hope it will protect me from this eventuality.
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@BelleStarr (61102)
• United States
21 Jun 17
@Happy2BeMe I think I am very grateful that my young doctor talked me into them about 7 years ago. I was reluctant to take a daily medication but I hope it is keeping my arteries clear. I am sending you a hug!!
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@Happy2BeMe (99380)
• Canada
21 Jun 17
@BelleStarr that is great. I wish I had been on them sooner.
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@Courtlynn (67086)
• United States
21 Jun 17
Like April, I've been thinking about you all day. And my mom is keeping you in her prayers.
I'm glad your family and friend stopped in today.
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@Happy2BeMe (99380)
• Canada
21 Jun 17
Thank you and thank your mom for me. I appreciate that.
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@GardenGerty (160488)
• United States
21 Jun 17
I am consistently doing the same thing. Taking hubby to work and waiting and yes, spending money. He did get his Occupational Therapist eval for driving, but then the notes have to be dictated, sent to the doctor and he has to release Bob to drive. Hang in there. Learn to stress less. Anxiety is a killer.
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@Happy2BeMe (99380)
• Canada
21 Jun 17
Yes it sure is. I've learned that. I won't be able to drive for 6 weeks that will be difficult.
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@Tina30219 (81834)
• Onaway, Michigan
21 Jun 17
My day was spdnt outside while my man cut grass then after dinner I had a little spot of grasz to rake then took a shower and relaxed and did more mylotting. Hopefully this time next week it will all be over and you will be recuperating. That was nice you got to see your granddaughter daughter son and fiance today. At least you can still get some mylotting in and it is relaxing. Did they say anything about changing your diet at all? I knos my mom and uncle had to after theirs
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@Tina30219 (81834)
• Onaway, Michigan
22 Jun 17
@Happy2BeMe It will be hard at first but you can do it.
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@LovingMyBabies (85288)
• Valdosta, Georgia
21 Jun 17
I'm so sorry your going through this. =( I have been praying that the surgery goes well. I hope this is all a distant memory for you soon.
I'm so glad you had family with you today.
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@Happy2BeMe (99380)
• Canada
21 Jun 17
Thanks Jennifer. I find comfort in your prayers.
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@Happy2BeMe (99380)
• Canada
24 Jun 17
Yes because it is too life threatening to send me home
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@JamesHxstatic (29413)
• Eugene, Oregon
21 Jun 17
I am sure the waiting is nerve wracking, but that kind of major surgery is almost routine today. I would feel the same way though if I were facing it. I am glad the problem was discovered in time to save you.
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@Yadah04 (3363)
• Philippines
22 Jun 17
@Happy2BeMe it is a good thing you family and friends are with you all the way. You must feel all the love and that is a good thing to fight for life.
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@Happy2BeMe (99380)
• Canada
21 Jun 17
Thanks..I will feel better once I meet the surgeon and know more
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@divalounger (6065)
• United States
21 Jun 17
Hugs to you! They can do amazing things these days--healing thoughts to you!
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@carebear29 (31962)
• Wausau, Wisconsin
21 Jun 17
you will be good. prayers and more to you.
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@Tampa_girl7 (50080)
• United States
21 Jun 17
Hopefully they can get you scheduled soon. I am continuing prayers
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@nanette64 (20364)
• Fairfield, Texas
21 Jun 17
I'm glad you had some company @Happy2BeMe ; it helps to relieve the boredom and the stress.
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@aninditasen (16329)
• Raurkela, India
21 Jun 17
Wish you a quick recovery after the double bypass.
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