THE WAY TO A MAN'S HEART?
By Kandase
@Kandae11 (55164)
June 24, 2017 8:23am CST
How important in a relationship is the woman's ability to prepare delicious meals? They say that - the way to a man's heart is through his stomach - Is that really true? especially in these modern times?
If a man had to choose between two women for marriage - one can cook and the other is a disaster in the kitchen , who do you think will be his choice? Do you think being able to cook well will keep a husband happy? And men, what do you look for in a woman ?
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@BelleStarr (61101)
• United States
24 Jun 17
Well all I can say is my both sons married women who barely cook and my son in law married my daughter who doesn't cook much either. All of these men are very good cooks themselves. My hubs on the other hand, doesn't cook much so he wanted a woman who could, Me lol but I think at the end of the day, chemistry between two people wins.
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@BelleStarr (61101)
• United States
25 Jun 17
@JudyEv These days one can get great prepared meals so he will never have to sufffer!! lol
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@just4him (317238)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
24 Jun 17
It's always interesting what draws a man to a woman, but in many cases, not all, it's the ability to cook. I'm a good cook. Though I can say it wasn't my cooking that brought my late X and me together. It was what we had in common.
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@annierose (21571)
• Philippines
24 Jun 17
I am not sure about it. I do not know how to cook.
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@annierose (21571)
• Philippines
25 Jun 17
@Kandae11 Yes, and I hope someday I can cook too.
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@Freelanzer (10743)
• Canada
24 Jun 17
All I know is that on our first date my now husband made me dinner and I think that is what stole my heart. We have always shared the cooking even though I think he prefers my cooking. And I do all the baking. I have several relatives male, who are married to women who can't cook and they seem happy.
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@JohnRoberts (109846)
• Los Angeles, California
24 Jun 17
Some men place greater emphasis on a woman's looks and other "skills."
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@librarygeek1980 (3137)
• United States
25 Jun 17
Hahahaha! I can attest to that! Us librarians have got the skillz..... lol
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@Nawsheen (28643)
• Mauritius
25 Jun 17
I know some men who likes it when their wives prepare food for them. But however if a wife is a good cook this does not really mean that she will be able to keep her husband happy. There are many other things which are important in a relationship too.
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@jaiho2009 (39141)
• Philippines
24 Jun 17
I don't think being a good cook is the thing that matters.
I agree that the way to a man's heart is through his stomach- but, I guess this can be applicable to men who are good in cooking, or else, how can he say that the prepared/cooked food are tasty
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@jaiho2009 (39141)
• Philippines
24 Jun 17
@Kandae11 yah, a good comparison
I prefer a man who knows how to cook
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@LadyDuck (472077)
• Switzerland
25 Jun 17
@sabtraversa What my brother could not tolerate was the fact she did not even try to learn so that he was not obliged to cool all the time. As he works (he is a doctor) and his ex wife did nothing all the day, I can understand.
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@CookieMonster46 (13454)
• United States
25 Jun 17
Well we were discussing a movie at work.. i don't remember which one ,but it came up if a woman cooks would it be enough to get him..The men said she has to be good to look at and other thing... cooking was the last thing they cared about.
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@ridingbet (66854)
• Philippines
25 Jun 17
as long as love reigns supreme, i think it won't matter if the woman cannot cook well.
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@ridingbet (66854)
• Philippines
26 Jun 17
@Kandae11 yes indeed, LOVE IS BLIND THAT LOVERS CANNOT HEAR! hahaha!
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@andriaperry (117146)
• Anniston, Alabama
24 Jun 17
I am a good cook but I think I will pretend not to know how when I go husband hunting.
Maybe you should ask men what they think about what they look for in a woman.
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@kaka135 (14931)
• Malaysia
24 Jun 17
I don't think this applies to the modern world now or at least to some men. I have heard some men who enjoy cooking and do most of the cooking at home while the wife doesn't really cook.
My husband does most of the cooking now too, though I also cook sometimes, he knew I am not good at cooking and housework too.
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@allknowing (137815)
• India
25 Jun 17
It is matter of permutations and combinations. I suppose a man will prefer a woman who does not cook but is great in bed and such permutations one needs to work on.
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@Kandae11 (55164)
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25 Jun 17
Isn't it? and there is a story about it. I usually get my ideas about what to write in the early morning hours. So I got this idea about 3a.m. and made some quick notes so I wouldn't forget later. Then instead of going back to sleep, I thought I would look up pixabay to find a picture to go with it - and I thought I found the perfect one. However , later in the morning when I was about to do my post, I found that the picture wasn't saved after all - so I typed in "man eating" again in Pixabay hoping to find it - and the picture which I used in my post showed up, which I think was perfect. Pictured here is the picture which I found previously.
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