Why Do You Ignore Me?
@BelleStarr (61102)
United States
June 25, 2017 8:03am CST
Seriously, why don't you respond to my comments on your post? Have you ever asked yourself this? I have. There are some members who will not respond to my comments no matter what. It seems I must have offended them at some point, how ? I have no idea.
I find it very annoying to be ignored, maybe that is why they do it lol I know, I know, why do I let it get to me? I guess I just like everyone to like me even though I know it is impossible.
I stay away from controversy, don't talk politics, am a loyal mylotter who always responds to comments and reads lots of posts every day. Sigh, but still you ignore me.
I am going off now to sulk a bit and then I will be back later after we get back from church. Happy Sunday.
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@BelleStarr (61102)
• United States
25 Jun 17
Sometimes older posts get responses and I might miss those for weeks but for a day or two I usually check back in repeatedly with my posts. This particular case is blatant.
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@BelleStarr (61102)
• United States
25 Jun 17
@TheHorse lol you always respond it just may take a while and I appreciate that.
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@1hopefulman (45120)
• Canada
25 Jun 17
I don't know why some are like that but I don't worry about it. I never ignore anyone that comments on my discussions. Even Jesus was not liked by everyone. Have a great day! 
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@BelleStarr (61102)
• United States
26 Jun 17
Thank you, yes I think we forget that sometimes, we must love but liking isn't a requirement.
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@rebelann (112873)
• El Paso, Texas
26 Jun 17
I've only come across one or two responses left unanswered because I also had an exchange with another lotter on that same discussion @BelleStarr well, I went ahead and commented on my response, I don't think it's illegal, is it?
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@BelleStarr (61102)
• United States
26 Jun 17
@rebelann I don't think so sometimes we just need to add a second comment that can't be added onto a previous one.
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@BelleStarr (61102)
• United States
26 Jun 17
I suspected this was happening so I tested it, otherwise, I seldom realize whether or not people respond.
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@BelleStarr (61102)
• United States
26 Jun 17
Yes, I am with you on that one, I will be skipping this one forever now.
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@BelleStarr (61102)
• United States
25 Jun 17
No this is not about an occasional missed comment, this is repeated ignoring of comments. I could stand up in the comment and dance and get ignored. lol
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@LovingMyBabies (85288)
• Valdosta, Georgia
25 Jun 17
I try to respond to every comment I get on my posts. At times I get busy offline and come back a day after the fact to respond, but I usually always do. If I have missed yours please let me know! =) No one likes being ignored and I want everyone to like me too-Lol. 
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@BelleStarr (61102)
• United States
26 Jun 17
No you always respond and I look forward to hearing from you daily. You are one of the sweetest people on this site.
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@hereandthere (45645)
• Philippines
25 Jun 17
when i find myself puzzling and pondering about someone, i pause and remind myself that i do it to others, too.
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@BelleStarr (61102)
• United States
26 Jun 17
No not this I don't , I never single out a member to not respond to. I either respond to all or if I am busy none.
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@DWDavis (25805)
• United States
25 Jun 17
If I've ignored your comments about my responses to your discussions I assure you it was not intentional.
Squirrel.
You see, I am very easily distracted.
Leaf.
And sometimes I don't comment on all the comments and responses. But I do
Car.
Try to "like" them to show I've seen them, even if I don't type a comment.
What were we talking about?
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@BelleStarr (61102)
• United States
26 Jun 17
lol You always making very entertaining comments that I look forward to reading lol ADD eh?
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@DWDavis (25805)
• United States
26 Jun 17
@BelleStarr When I think back on all those comments on my report cards growing up about how I daydreamed in class, jumped from one subject to another, and had trouble paying attention, I'm just glad they weren't handing out Ritalin like candy back then the way they do today.
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@AbbyGreenhill (45494)
• United States
25 Jun 17
Not everyone responds....But it's their be loss in reality.
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@BelleStarr (61102)
• United States
25 Jun 17
Yes but when you respond to just a few chosen ones it is rather rude is it not?
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@AbbyGreenhill (45494)
• United States
25 Jun 17
@BelleStarr Well, I guess that would be a way to describe it. I try to respond to every comment I get and. I only have control over what I do.
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@RasmaSandra (79929)
• Daytona Beach, Florida
25 Jun 17
Well I too read as much as I can and interact as much as possible. There are times when I wonder why I get no responses or very little. One unfortunate thing is that each time I get on here and do what I can I never seem to be able to read posts from some people because they must post at different times and I cannot find their posts. Anyway I do the very best I can and the is the only thing I can do.
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@BelleStarr (61102)
• United States
26 Jun 17
Given how many times zones the members live in, it is not surprising that there are never more than a few people online at the same time but even if there is a lapse of time a response is a response.
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@BelleStarr (61102)
• United States
26 Jun 17
Yes I guess but ignoring is rude!! lol
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@andriaperry (116936)
• Anniston, Alabama
25 Jun 17
I do try my best to get back to everyone that comments on my discussions, however sometimes I tend to get caught up in reading others discussions and I ignore mine.
I am sorry if I have made you feel ignored it was not on purpose.
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@BelleStarr (61102)
• United States
26 Jun 17
lol You, my dear, never make me feel ignored, as a matter of fact, we interact pretty much daily and even more often some days
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@JohnRoberts (109846)
• Los Angeles, California
25 Jun 17
Are you speaking of comments you make on other's posts? I give all comments to my posts a like which is an earnings method. I rarely comment on a comment because I have nothing to add that is constructive or interesting. So by giving a "like" I am not ignoring a comment.
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@BelleStarr (61102)
• United States
26 Jun 17
You comment back to me when I comment on you, it is what gets the conversation going. I like getting conversations going.
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@BelleStarr (61102)
• United States
26 Jun 17
@TheHorse me too, I rarely if ever catch up.
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@GardenGerty (160708)
• United States
25 Jun 17
Oh, come on back and play. I do not really notice when I am ignored, but I am puszzled why someone would choose to do it. I try to never ignore someone who takes the time to respond to my posts.
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@BelleStarr (61102)
• United States
25 Jun 17
lol I will play but I am going to forget that I ever knew this other person and will not be lured into reading and commenting again.
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@Debscrochet (1947)
• United States
26 Jun 17
Maybe it's because some are new, or have gotten way behind. I had just recently came back to this site after 1 year. I just forgot about it.
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@Debscrochet (1947)
• United States
26 Jun 17
@BelleStarr Oh i see. Thank you, it's nice to be back.
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@BelleStarr (61102)
• United States
26 Jun 17
No this is a regular who evidently has just decided not to like me, I will somehow get over it lol Glad you are back by the way.
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@LeaPea2417 (37355)
• Toccoa, Georgia
26 Jun 17
I don't intentionally ignore people on here. I try to answer as many posts as I can.
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@BelleStarr (61102)
• United States
26 Jun 17
I do know that, you respond to all my comments.
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@Tampa_girl7 (50272)
• United States
26 Jun 17
The thing that bothers me are the ones that never visit my discussions. They only interact with me when I go to theirs.
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@BelleStarr (61102)
• United States
26 Jun 17
Well that is where they earn money, yes it is al labout them isn't it.
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@BelleStarr (61102)
• United States
26 Jun 17
No, Thelma, you are always good about responding to comments when you are available.
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