Don't know what to think...
By Heart2017
@HeartBM (302)
Philippines
June 25, 2017 8:58pm CST
I'm always lost for words....but theres so much in my mind!! I want to express it in words but too afraid to do so. I don't like offending people....and it gets so tiring sometimes....i mean pleasing people. Is it normal to think yhis way? As a Christian been taught to always feel positive about things and don't get tired doing the right thing....but sometimes i just wanna be a little bit bad! I mean like yesterday my sister yelled at my daughter for being too noisy, just wanna shout at her and tell her that its normal for kids to be noisy! But instead I told my daughter to just understand her cause shes having difficulty in taking care of her newly born baby. But is that even right? I just don't know anymore what to think....
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7 responses
@1hopefulman (45120)
• Canada
26 Jun 17
Did yelling make things better? She just added to the noise. She could have used a better approach. Were you visiting your sister or do you live together?
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@1hopefulman (45120)
• Canada
26 Jun 17
@HeartBM A peaceful resolution to any situation is always best. All the best!
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@HeartBM (302)
• Philippines
26 Jun 17
@1hopefulman yap i believe so too. Peace is good??
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@annierose (21583)
• Philippines
26 Jun 17
I think you did the right thing. But I think your sister shouldn't yelled at her niece. She can talk to her niece in a nice way. Not necessarily yelling at her.
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@HeartBM (302)
• Philippines
26 Jun 17
@annierose yah I think so too. But there is this quote which goes like this, "nobody's perfect, Im a nobody therefore Im perfect" ??. But its true. Even geniuses makes mistakes once in a while
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@Courtlynn (67083)
• United States
26 Jun 17
Not bad to say something to your sister.
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@Courtlynn (67083)
• United States
26 Jun 17
@HeartBM just tell her, kids are loud. And its your child you'll tell her when to quiet down if she needs to.
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@HeartBM (302)
• Philippines
26 Jun 17
@Courtlynn i hope i have the guts to do that. But Im working it out right now.
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@shivamani10 (11035)
• Hyderabad, India
26 Jun 17
You can make others listen by force. They will learn by experience.
@Megaflame37 (114)
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26 Jun 17
You're only human and everyone has their limits. Sometimes you need to yell and be a bit stern at times to get your point across.
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@HeartBM (302)
• Philippines
27 Jun 17
@Megaflame37 yap I'm practicing right now hahaha. I mean even though I'm not sure if my efforts for making conversations are being appreciated I still try to do it
@Megaflame37 (114)
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27 Jun 17
@HeartBM You shouldn't hate yourself or be so timid. Just try to be a bit more open.
@jaiho2009 (39141)
• Philippines
26 Jun 17
You should talk with your sister too.
She's your sister and I am sure she will understand your feeling especially that she is also a mother.
Soon, she will realized that kids are kids- just make her understand in a nice way.
