“Do you think making fun of somebody or someone is a form of bullying?”
By Shavkat
@Shavkat (139937)
Philippines
July 10, 2017 2:57am CST
There are times that some people love to make fun of others. It wasn’t just making a joke out of them but to push them down without any limitations. We can experience this not only in our circle of friends but even from the family members.
"Is it a form of bullying someone or somebody?”
“Is it good to make fun of other people?”
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35 responses
@prashu228 (37524)
• India
10 Jul 17
If both sides are happy and having fun, then there is no problem. It should not be hurting
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@vandana7 (100302)
• India
10 Jul 17
Yes, and if a person has forewarned that this is not ok with me, the request should be followed. If somebody is hurt, apology should follow...not "I was only joking" or "it was only a joke". Nobody is a fool, trying to treat them as fools is only going to lose us some good friends...not the loss of the person who is hurt but the person who is hurting, wittingly, or unwittingly.
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@vandana7 (100302)
• India
10 Jul 17
Over a period, I have realized there are issues that don't go down well with me. I have time and again emphasized them. But if a person deliberately ignores those because it does not match with their thinking, and then hurts, and then tries to cover with up with a lie "I was only joking .haven't you come across such jokes in your family circle"...like hell, I ain't a fool. If you are not sensitive enough to have figured out why it is hurting, you are not sensitive enough to be in my circle of friends, and not sensitive enough to be hurt by me so I am going to hurt you as much till you cry in pain. I don't feel obliged to be good enough with those who knowingly hurt others and are not apologetic about it.
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@TiarasOceanView (70022)
• United States
10 Jul 17
Yes I do and to do it so cruelly is even worse.
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@Shavkat (139937)
• Philippines
11 Jul 17
@TiarasOceanView We will contact Kung Fu Panda for reinforcement.lol
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@BelleStarr (61102)
• United States
11 Jul 17
It is a form of bullying for sure and it is unkind as well.
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@Bodyandbrain (13797)
• Gurgaon, India
11 Jul 17
I don't find it any good to make fun of anyone. It is really bullying.
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@Bodyandbrain (13797)
• Gurgaon, India
11 Jul 17
@Shavkat yes, people don't realise this and hurt emotions of the person they are making fun of.
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@averygirl72 (37845)
• Philippines
26 Nov 17
Yes it's a form of bullying but some do not see them that way. They think they are just joking and having some fun of other people. I think bullies prey on weak people. I hate people that make fun of me. It hurts my feelings
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@averygirl72 (37845)
• Philippines
26 Nov 17
@Shavkat Yeah there are many bullies in my high school days too
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@Shavkat (139937)
• Philippines
26 Nov 17
@averygirl72 Now, I can see what's going on in their lives. It is the other around, they should be bullied of what they had become right now.
@dianadee (1778)
• South Africa
10 Jul 17
Someone who speaks down and ignores people, often have unresolved issues of their own! Way of diverting attention to someone else, so people don't focus on them.Boarding school was full of bullies!
@Shavkat (139937)
• Philippines
11 Jul 17
@ridingbet I do that sometime.lol That's our secret.lol
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@ridingbet (66854)
• Philippines
11 Jul 17
@Shavkat yes, you can bully them, anyway, they are online students only. hahaha!
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@Hannihar (130218)
• Israel
21 Nov 17
@Shavkat
I have been bullied and when I was younger and had a couple that lived above me for two years and nobody else in the building but me heard them. They were horrible. They trashed my porch and they would make noise whenever they wanted to. I did not think they would ever leave. They finally did and now there is one person up there and he also makes noise.
@owlwings (43910)
• Cambridge, England
10 Jul 17
It all depends on the circumstances, what the intention of the person who is making fun of the other person is and how the object of ridicule is going to react. You cannot say that, just because the person being made fun of is likely to feel hurt, that the 'attack' is unjustified or 'bullying'. There are plenty of occasions when making someone feel small or foolish can be a good and constructive thing. Nobody likes being 'taken down a peg', of course, but if a person is perceived by his/her friends or colleagues as stepping outside acceptable social conventions (perhaps by being loud mouthed or being 'too big for his boots') then a little humour at that person's expense can shame him/her into behaving more acceptably.
It is only when making fun of a person is done persistently and unkindly and without any purpose except to belittle them that it can be called bullying.
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@Shavkat (139937)
• Philippines
10 Jul 17
I do think that making fun of others depend on different situations. Some people have their own personal agendas to belittle others. In fact, it is the result of being insecure. Making fun of others are associated with insecurities of oneself. It is their way to cover up themselves.
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@Letranknight2015 (51969)
• Philippines
11 Jul 17
It was NEVER funny to me. It can really hurt you specially if they are not your close friends, Back in highschool it was terrible since I wasn't doing anything to them.
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