“Do you think making fun of somebody or someone is a form of bullying?”

@Shavkat (139937)
Philippines
July 10, 2017 2:57am CST
There are times that some people love to make fun of others. It wasn’t just making a joke out of them but to push them down without any limitations. We can experience this not only in our circle of friends but even from the family members. "Is it a form of bullying someone or somebody?” “Is it good to make fun of other people?” Image Credit: pixabay.com
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@prashu228 (37524)
• India
10 Jul 17
If both sides are happy and having fun, then there is no problem. It should not be hurting
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@vandana7 (100302)
• India
10 Jul 17
Yes, and if a person has forewarned that this is not ok with me, the request should be followed. If somebody is hurt, apology should follow...not "I was only joking" or "it was only a joke". Nobody is a fool, trying to treat them as fools is only going to lose us some good friends...not the loss of the person who is hurt but the person who is hurting, wittingly, or unwittingly.
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@Shavkat (139937)
• Philippines
10 Jul 17
I agree. It shouldn't be hurtful jokes. Life is not also good with the lack of laughter.
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@vandana7 (100302)
• India
10 Jul 17
Over a period, I have realized there are issues that don't go down well with me. I have time and again emphasized them. But if a person deliberately ignores those because it does not match with their thinking, and then hurts, and then tries to cover with up with a lie "I was only joking .haven't you come across such jokes in your family circle"...like hell, I ain't a fool. If you are not sensitive enough to have figured out why it is hurting, you are not sensitive enough to be in my circle of friends, and not sensitive enough to be hurt by me so I am going to hurt you as much till you cry in pain. I don't feel obliged to be good enough with those who knowingly hurt others and are not apologetic about it.
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@vandana7 (100302)
• India
10 Jul 17
@Shavkat ... Exactly, it is that arrogance I go hammer and tongs at.
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@Shavkat (139937)
• Philippines
10 Jul 17
@vandana7 It was so bad to deal with people like this.
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@Shavkat (139937)
• Philippines
10 Jul 17
At some occasions, people tend to be so insensitive in hurting others. The worst part, they can't even apologize for hurting other people. It means that they are so arrogant and in denial for the wrongdoings.
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• United States
10 Jul 17
Yes I do and to do it so cruelly is even worse.
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@Shavkat (139937)
• Philippines
11 Jul 17
I can understand why you said this. If the jokes are provoking, I will definitely fight back, too.
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@Shavkat (139937)
• Philippines
11 Jul 17
@TiarasOceanView We will contact Kung Fu Panda for reinforcement.lol
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• United States
11 Jul 17
@Shavkat We will ninja them.
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@BelleStarr (61102)
• United States
11 Jul 17
It is a form of bullying for sure and it is unkind as well.
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@Shavkat (139937)
• Philippines
11 Jul 17
I think it is not good to make fun others, especially for children. It would be scared their soul forever.
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@Bodyandbrain (13797)
• Gurgaon, India
11 Jul 17
I don't find it any good to make fun of anyone. It is really bullying.
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@Shavkat (139937)
• Philippines
15 Jul 17
@Shavkat (139937)
• Philippines
11 Jul 17
I do think so, my friend. Some people cannot realize this.
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• Gurgaon, India
11 Jul 17
@Shavkat yes, people don't realise this and hurt emotions of the person they are making fun of.
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@vsai2008 (11796)
• India
10 Jul 17
Yes, it is a form of bullying If both the people involved are enjoying, then that's a separate issue
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@Shavkat (139937)
• Philippines
10 Jul 17
I do think it is a form of bullying. There are times that people need to know when or how to make fun with others.
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@Shavkat (139937)
• Philippines
11 Jul 17
@vsai2008 I agree. It should be stopped.
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@vsai2008 (11796)
• India
10 Jul 17
@Shavkat Yes, if making fun is harming someone, then its no good.
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@kiran8 (15348)
• Mangalore, India
10 Jul 17
If t is clean fun enjoyed by both , it is ok. But when it is ridiculing and insulting another person, it is definitely not right ..
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@Shavkat (139937)
• Philippines
10 Jul 17
I agree. Some people don't set boundaries. If it is beyond that, then that would be a bad thing to do.
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@kiran8 (15348)
• Mangalore, India
10 Jul 17
@Shavkat True , sometimes out of frustration and helplessness , people do pass hurtful comments , hitting below the belt , so that they can get back at the person which may seem rude and unnecessary to others ..
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@Shavkat (139937)
• Philippines
11 Jul 17
@kiran8 These people need to be cautious and take limitations. The most important thing is to take the responsibility for their actions.
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@UmiNoor (4523)
• Malaysia
17 Jul 17
I guess there's a limit to it. Friends and family normally joke around and make fun of one another but there should be a limit to it.
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@UmiNoor (4523)
• Malaysia
17 Jul 17
@Shavkat There has to be limits to everything. And making fun of others might become hurtful if it's done with malice.
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@Shavkat (139937)
• Philippines
17 Jul 17
@UmiNoor I hope people will know this. We don't want to create a bad experience for them especially children.
@Shavkat (139937)
• Philippines
17 Jul 17
In making fun of others, we really need to set limitations.
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@averygirl72 (37845)
• Philippines
26 Nov 17
Yes it's a form of bullying but some do not see them that way. They think they are just joking and having some fun of other people. I think bullies prey on weak people. I hate people that make fun of me. It hurts my feelings
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@averygirl72 (37845)
• Philippines
26 Nov 17
@Shavkat Yeah there are many bullies in my high school days too
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@Shavkat (139937)
• Philippines
26 Nov 17
@averygirl72 Now, I can see what's going on in their lives. It is the other around, they should be bullied of what they had become right now.
@Shavkat (139937)
• Philippines
26 Nov 17
When I was in high school, I was being bullied. In the long run, I learned how to fight them back.
@shshiju (10342)
• Cochin, India
10 Jul 17
Making jokes and making fun of others is different. I don't like to hurt anybody or hurt myself. I will avoid such situations.
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@Shavkat (139937)
• Philippines
11 Jul 17
If the joke is not appropriate, I will definitely stay away from them.It is not healthy to be passive on this.
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@Shavkat (139937)
• Philippines
11 Jul 17
@shshiju It wasn't an entertainment venue to make fun of others. It is not like watching a stand-up comedian.
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@shshiju (10342)
• Cochin, India
11 Jul 17
@Shavkat Yes that is count on making fun of others and it hurts.
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@dianadee (1778)
• South Africa
10 Jul 17
Someone who speaks down and ignores people, often have unresolved issues of their own! Way of diverting attention to someone else, so people don't focus on them.Boarding school was full of bullies!
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@Shavkat (139937)
• Philippines
11 Jul 17
There are some places that bullying existence as you had mentioned. In reality, some people have personal issues and tried to pass on their frustrations to others.
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@Shavkat (139937)
• Philippines
15 Jul 17
@dianadee I totally agree.
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@dianadee (1778)
• South Africa
11 Jul 17
@Shavkat It is a common thing ..people offloading onto others.
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@ridingbet (66854)
• Philippines
11 Jul 17
i bully my students constructively.
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@Shavkat (139937)
• Philippines
11 Jul 17
I used to do that, too. Now, I am doing it to my online students.
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@Shavkat (139937)
• Philippines
11 Jul 17
@ridingbet I do that sometime.lol That's our secret.lol
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@ridingbet (66854)
• Philippines
11 Jul 17
@Shavkat yes, you can bully them, anyway, they are online students only. hahaha!
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@Hannihar (130218)
• Israel
20 Nov 17
Yes that is a form of bullying. That can also leave a scar. I hate bullies. They find someone and think it is ok to pick on them.
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@Shavkat (139937)
• Philippines
21 Nov 17
I agree. I feel bad for those people who are victims of bullying. They don't have the courage to fightback.
@Hannihar (130218)
• Israel
21 Nov 17
@Shavkat I have been bullied and when I was younger and had a couple that lived above me for two years and nobody else in the building but me heard them. They were horrible. They trashed my porch and they would make noise whenever they wanted to. I did not think they would ever leave. They finally did and now there is one person up there and he also makes noise.
@Hannihar (130218)
• Israel
21 Nov 17
@Shavkat Or they cannot fight back because they do not have the means or anyone to listen to them that will back them up.
@shaynas (5487)
• India
10 Jul 17
Yes it is, either done by family or friends. We should never ever make fun of anyone, everyone has some unique qualities and no one gives us any right to treat anyone bad.
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@Shavkat (139937)
• Philippines
10 Jul 17
In the family, it is not good to make fun of the member. Parents should monitor this kind of behavior among their children.
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@Shavkat (139937)
• Philippines
11 Jul 17
@shaynas Whatever the children do, it reflects how the parents raise them.
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@shaynas (5487)
• India
10 Jul 17
@Shavkat yeah, they must.
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@owlwings (43910)
• Cambridge, England
10 Jul 17
It all depends on the circumstances, what the intention of the person who is making fun of the other person is and how the object of ridicule is going to react. You cannot say that, just because the person being made fun of is likely to feel hurt, that the 'attack' is unjustified or 'bullying'. There are plenty of occasions when making someone feel small or foolish can be a good and constructive thing. Nobody likes being 'taken down a peg', of course, but if a person is perceived by his/her friends or colleagues as stepping outside acceptable social conventions (perhaps by being loud mouthed or being 'too big for his boots') then a little humour at that person's expense can shame him/her into behaving more acceptably. It is only when making fun of a person is done persistently and unkindly and without any purpose except to belittle them that it can be called bullying.
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@owlwings (43910)
• Cambridge, England
10 Jul 17
@Shavkat Sadly, that is very often true and I suppose that, in those cases, it amounts to a kind of harassment.
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@Shavkat (139937)
• Philippines
11 Jul 17
@owlwings It is most likely to fall into harassment issue.
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@Shavkat (139937)
• Philippines
10 Jul 17
I do think that making fun of others depend on different situations. Some people have their own personal agendas to belittle others. In fact, it is the result of being insecure. Making fun of others are associated with insecurities of oneself. It is their way to cover up themselves.
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@Sreekala (34312)
• India
12 Jul 17
I agree with Prashu, if it is ok for both sides then nothing harm. If it hurt any other side then it won't be nice.
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@Shavkat (139937)
• Philippines
13 Jul 17
I do think it is fine. If we offended someone, then we can be apologetic.
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• Philippines
11 Jul 17
It was NEVER funny to me. It can really hurt you specially if they are not your close friends, Back in highschool it was terrible since I wasn't doing anything to them.
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@Shavkat (139937)
• Philippines
11 Jul 17
I was also a victim being bullied in high school days. But I just do my own business and study hard.There is one incident that I need them to stop. I reported directly to the principal.
@LadyDuck (471459)
• Switzerland
10 Jul 17
It depends, not every time that you make fun of a person you are bullying such person. If it is a sort of joke among friends and everybody is laughing there is nothing wrong. If someone feels offended, the best is to apologize and stop.
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@Shavkat (139937)
• Philippines
11 Jul 17
I do agree that the person needs to learn to be apologetic. It doesn't make a person less for saying "sorry" if offending others.
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@Shavkat (139937)
• Philippines
11 Jul 17
@LadyDuck I hope people will adapt this quality.
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@LadyDuck (471459)
• Switzerland
11 Jul 17
@Shavkat I fully agree, you must understand if you are offending someone.
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@MarsGirl (288)
• Chennai, India
10 Jul 17
As you said there is a limitation of making fun on someone as it hurts them a lot. People should not play with others feelings :)
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@Shavkat (139937)
• Philippines
11 Jul 17
I can't agree more with your opinion about it. I don't like being played my emotions over something.
@Shavkat (139937)
• Philippines
11 Jul 17
@MarsGirl I didn't misinterpret your opinion. I do agree with it.
@MarsGirl (288)
• Chennai, India
11 Jul 17
@Shavkat i dont mean you. I mentioned about the people who intend to hurt others.
• Boston, Massachusetts
20 Oct 17
Intention and perception are important
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@Shavkat (139937)
• Philippines
21 Oct 17
You have a point, my friend.
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