Why people hate introverts?

@deorahul (228)
July 21, 2017 12:43am CST
Good morning everyone.Hope you all are doing well and everything is fine.Take care. I don't know why introverts like to be alone and quiet.I am also an introvert and most of the time I say this to myself "why are you like this Rahul".Really I feel like no one understands me.I don't hate my friends,I just love being alone and talk to myself.No I am not rude,I am not shy,I am just different from others.Now I don't care who loves me and who hates me I can't change myself for the sake of others.If I did I will lose myself.
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@prashu228 (37524)
• India
21 Jul 17
I don't think they hate, but they definitely misunderstood.
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@deorahul (228)
21 Jul 17
Maybe you are right.
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@shaynas (5487)
• India
21 Jul 17
When you are an introvert, you really don't need people and care about it! I am an introvert and i never say to myself, why am i like this.In fact i love being like this, because this is what i am and this is how i want to be. This is something you are born with, changing it will be difficult but not impossible. If you really want to change, try it
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@deorahul (228)
21 Jul 17
I tried and I failed so now I just want to be me.
• Beijing, China
21 Jul 17
Insist on being yourself, my friend, the introvert is not your fault, everyone's character is different, we do not need to be difficult for ourselves because of others, I like the introverted person, enjoy yourself, dear friend
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@deorahul (228)
21 Jul 17
Yeah I know and it's good to hear that you like introverted people.
@deorahul (228)
22 Jul 17
@cancergirl Thanks and same to you.Take care.
• Beijing, China
22 Jul 17
@deorahul have a good time dear friend
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@shikharava (1838)
21 Jul 17
Yeah, it's better to have our own identity, then those identities that are thrust upon us by the society. It's better to take it slow, if you want it. Otherwise I don't see any problem why being an introvert will hurt anyone. As long as it doesn't hurt you and you're fine being alone and not conversing with people, I guess that's fine! You should cherish and spend more time with yourself to understand yourself a little better, and with this understanding along with a sound reasoning you may eventually break your bounds and be free. It doesn't mean you'll become extrovert. But that you'll be free and happy that you have attained such freedom. Wishing you a great day ahead.
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@deorahul (228)
21 Jul 17
I am doing the same from few days and that's why I have learnt a lot about myself.Thanks I had a great day.Good night.Take care.
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@deorahul (228)
21 Jul 17
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21 Jul 17
@deorahul take care, dude. And don't let anyone make you feel inferior, cause you're not. Good night and sweet dreams. :)
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• United States
21 Jul 17
I don't hate introverts. I just hate it when they say that something's bothering them and when ask what's wrong, they just say "never mind". Besides that, I don't mind them. I'm half introverted and half extroverted.
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@deorahul (228)
21 Jul 17
Introverts like to keep their thoughts to myself that's why they say "never mind". You are an ambivert and for you it's easy to deal with any kind of people.
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• United States
21 Jul 17
@deorahul I see
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@dollaboy (6048)
21 Jul 17
Love Introverts , they are special
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@deorahul (228)
21 Jul 17
Yeah I am special and I love myself.
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@deorahul (228)
22 Jul 17
@dollaboy thank you and same to you.
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@dollaboy (6048)
22 Jul 17
@deorahul happy day
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@kiran8 (15348)
• Mangalore, India
1 Nov 17
People are different and we have to accept that and our personality traits ranges in degrees from extrovert to introvert . Introverts are normally intelligent and by using this intelligence they can come out of their shell and socialise a bit which is good for an all round personally development , what do you say ?
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@kiran8 (15348)
• Mangalore, India
2 Nov 17
@deorahul it can happen to others too ... personally speaking it is nicer to listen to those speak less rather than to those who like the sound of their own voice ..
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@deorahul (228)
2 Nov 17
Agree that's why I try to do so but don't know what happens to me when I try to present myself in group.When number increases from 3 to 4,5 I can't talk don't know why.
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@deorahul (228)
2 Nov 17
@kiran8 Got it.
@Shavkat (139937)
• Philippines
21 Jul 17
I don't hate introverts. I am an introvert but I can be a flexible person. I can deal with different sets of people.
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@Shavkat (139937)
• Philippines
22 Jul 17
@deorahul I need to step up, my friend. It is not good to be introvert all the time. I need to break free to work efficiently.
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@deorahul (228)
22 Jul 17
@Shavkat Agree.I will try to do same.Have a nice day take care.
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@deorahul (228)
21 Jul 17
That's great but for me it's impossible.I can deal with them one by one but not when in groups.
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• United States
21 Jul 17
I am not sure if I could be called an introvert..I don't think so but I no longer socialise. I do not hate introverts. I understand it.
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• United States
21 Jul 17
@deorahul It is easy on here..but in real nope no way
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@deorahul (228)
22 Jul 17
@TiarasOceanView Same happens with me.
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@deorahul (228)
21 Jul 17
Fine.I don't know why you hate socialising but you must do as you are doing here online.
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@shshiju (10342)
• Cochin, India
26 Jul 17
Every people is introvert to some kind. If we do not share with our friends. They will not share with us. Friendship is like a give and take policy.I think you have many virtual friends in MyLot.
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@shshiju (10342)
• Cochin, India
31 Jul 17
@deorahul That's great Rahul
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@deorahul (228)
30 Jul 17
Friendship for me is sharing of love,stupidity,problems and much more.Ya I have lots of friends here.
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@JohnRoberts (109846)
• Los Angeles, California
21 Jul 17
I have always been introverted preferring my own company and little interest in people.
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@deorahul (228)
21 Jul 17
That's good.Being alone is also a talent,it helps us to figure out a lot of things.
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