Being nice and losing yourself

@SanyoSan (501)
Sri Lanka
July 27, 2017 3:17am CST
We tend to be nice to others not to hurt them. But sometimes we have to face some clingy people who want us to believe what they believe. They just force too much. If we say you're not respecting my right, they just don't care but they want us to be what they want us to be not to lose us. Should we still be nice or stand on our grounds? The image tells it clear;)
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@Sreekala (34312)
• India
27 Jul 17
Never expect nice behaviour from people, if so you will be disappointed. All may say that if you behave nicely to some one then you will get back the same, don't believe this, time and people are changed a lot. Every one is selfish.
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@Shavkat (140129)
• Philippines
27 Jul 17
I think it is better to stay away from these people.
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@jstory07 (139996)
• Roseburg, Oregon
15 Aug 17
Treat people the way that you want to be treated. If they do not treat you nice to. Time to ignore them.
@SanyoSan (501)
• Sri Lanka
15 Aug 17
There is also a saying treat others for who you are (how good you are) not for who they are (how bad they are). But of course we have to maintain a distance from some for our own sake and that's not being rude.
@Shiva49 (26779)
• Singapore
14 Aug 17
I have met some like those but now I draw a line. No question of emotional blackmail to have their way. Thus far and no more is the best way - draw a line - siva
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@dgobucks226 (35762)
24 Aug 17
Here is a quote from Taylor Swift of all people that actually makes sense-from brainy quotes. Basically it says we have a right to our own beliefs.
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@SanyoSan (501)
• Sri Lanka
25 Aug 17
The discussion is about when the other party doesn't pay respect to you
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@dgobucks226 (35762)
25 Aug 17
@SanyoSan Exactly, show this to your friend. I agree with you. All people should respect each other.
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@dollaboy (6048)
27 Jul 17
If they are special to us, like if they are our friends / Girlfriend than we should manage things
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