The pressure of marriage
By guoshanshan
@cancergirl (918)
Beijing, China
July 27, 2017 3:44am CST
Last night I was told by my parents to let me get married earlier when I got home ,I was 25 years old and I felt too young to get married, but in the concept of my parents, when a child becomes an adult, it's time to get married and have a baby.
Now the young people think that when they get married, they will no longer be free and the pressure will be greater. so, more and more young people are afraid of getting married. Being asked to get married as soon as possible by their parents has become a Chinese national condition.
what is your country's view of marriage? Do you think the sooner you get married, the better?
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8 responses
@cancergirl (918)
• Beijing, China
27 Jul 17
Yes, so I think it's not the best time to get married. we should be responsible for our future life
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@gilggg (2538)
• Israel
27 Jul 17
@cancergirl Yes, but if it is important for you to have children, there is a limit to the age of a woman to succeed in becoming pregnant, and to being an adult parent for children is very difficult ...
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@cancergirl (918)
• Beijing, China
27 Jul 17
@gilggg Yes, many friends have said this to me, this is the biggest problem to every young parent
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@Shavkat (140119)
• Philippines
27 Jul 17
@cancergirl I think you are in a big city. Most young women are not traditional.
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@yanzalong (18987)
• Indonesia
27 Jul 17
Parents think of future generation. They have experienced it. If you are married late, you will have problem in the future because you are already old but you still have small children. If you get married young enough, say, at the age of 27, then at the age of 50, your children are already adults. They can manage their life, so you will have no burden of taking care of them.
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@yanzalong (18987)
• Indonesia
27 Jul 17
@cancergirl You can marry someone you love but do not wait for too long. That's what I mean.
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@cancergirl (918)
• Beijing, China
27 Jul 17
Yes, the idea is right, but if you don't meet the right partner, you can't get married in a hurry, which is not responsible for your future
@cancergirl (918)
• Beijing, China
27 Jul 17
@yanzalong ,yeah, I will be,but it's few chance to have a ture love
@Nawsheen (28643)
• Mauritius
27 Jul 17
@cancergirl Exactly. This is what I think. What is the use of a marriage which only makes you feel miserable
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@cancergirl (918)
• Beijing, China
27 Jul 17
@Nawsheen We have the same idea in many ways. It's wonderful
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@cancergirl (918)
• Beijing, China
27 Jul 17
I also think, the happiness of life is the most important, if the marriage is not happy, it is better not to marry1 person likes this
@cancergirl (918)
• Beijing, China
27 Jul 17
They always replied me:It is unrealistic not to get married
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@kingspride (128)
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27 Jul 17
in my country Nigeria,marriage is base on different cultural background
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@cancergirl (918)
• Beijing, China
27 Jul 17
@kingspride If the cultural background is different, it will be difficult to get along
@cancergirl (918)
• Beijing, China
27 Jul 17
Our marriage is based on the same cultural background, and if the cultural background is different parents will not agree
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@cancergirl (918)
• Beijing, China
27 Jul 17
Maybe some countries have the same problem 
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@Freelanzer (10743)
• Canada
27 Jul 17
You should get married when you are ready and when you find the right person. Parents shouldn't tell you when to get married. While parents don't tell you when to get married here, they do encourage their children to marry with comments and hints
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@cancergirl (918)
• Beijing, China
27 Jul 17
Yeah,that's my plan, I don't want pressed by my parents,every person have their own idea,shouldn't be influenced
