Got called in to work at my friend's preschool today!

@TheHorse (220275)
Walnut Creek, California
July 27, 2017 9:51am CST
Of my main three jobs, working at my friend's preschool is my favorite. Littlies always put me in a good mood. I get lots of hugs, and actually enjoy building stacky towers and getting served chocolate cake make out of sand and water. Hopefully my expressive aphasic buddy will be there. He's started using some two-word utterances, and is still a delight to be around. Of course, I have a question: When you're feeling a tad blue (which I do now and then) do happy people and happy songs "pick you up"? Or do they just irritate you? I like to listen to sad songs when I'm sad, and I prefer heavy conversation to happy conversation when I'm sad. My chronically depressed friends get irritated by happy people. Conversely, some MyLotters have said they prefer happy songs to sad songs when they feel sad and blue. But happy kids always seem to pick me up. Maybe it's because it gives my life meaning to think that I'm contributing to their development. I'm not sure. Off I go!
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@andriaperry (117146)
• Anniston, Alabama
27 Jul 17
Yes, being around happy little , laughing kids makes you feel useful. And that picks up your spirit. The only time I do not want happy and all that is when I am going to sleep or in serious need of sleep.... I listen to sad music and happy music and happy will make me feel better but I am also singing along so both arent that bad on my moods.
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@TheHorse (220275)
• Walnut Creek, California
28 Jul 17
I feel more inspired to write things like short stories when I'm sad or angry. Same with songs, I think. But I do have a happy song I wrote that I'm going to record soon. It's not "Pollyannaish," but it's generally happy. For some reason, I really identify with a lot of James McMurtry's songs. I'll attach one, in case you don't know his music.
Beautiful piece of prose from a master Singer-Songwriter.
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@TheHorse (220275)
• Walnut Creek, California
28 Jul 17
@Adam211 That does not work for me.
27 Jul 17
Yeah its good idea that when you get sad listen also happy song that can also make you happy.
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@teamfreak16 (43418)
• Denver, Colorado
27 Jul 17
I listen to a lot of dark music, but it does help a little.
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@TheHorse (220275)
• Walnut Creek, California
27 Jul 17
My favorite "folkies," like John Prine, Greg Brown and James McMurtry (more of a rocker) tend to be dark.
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@TheHorse (220275)
• Walnut Creek, California
28 Jul 17
@Adam211 Feel the dark music?
27 Jul 17
If you try to feel it then it will help you more.
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@celticeagle (168334)
• Boise, Idaho
27 Jul 17
It depends. If I am real depressed nothing makes me very happy. If just in a down mood I can usually be brought around and like to watch a funny movie or see children playing and laughing. Laughter can be so contagious and that is one thing I like to catch.
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@celticeagle (168334)
• Boise, Idaho
27 Jul 17
@TheHorse ......Love to laugh.
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@TheHorse (220275)
• Walnut Creek, California
28 Jul 17
@celticeagle I like dark humor as well, though. Movies like Pulp Fiction and TV shows like Breaking Bad tend to make me roll on the floor laughing.
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@TheHorse (220275)
• Walnut Creek, California
27 Jul 17
Laughter can be contagious--very true!
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@LadyDuck (472078)
• Switzerland
27 Jul 17
It's not all the time the same, most of the time if I am sad I prefer sad songs and silent people. Happy people who cannot understand that I am not in the mood irritate me.
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@TheHorse (220275)
• Walnut Creek, California
27 Jul 17
I definitely prefer sad songs. Actually, I like sad songs even when I'm not sad. People who talk too much irritate me in general.
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@LadyDuck (472078)
• Switzerland
28 Jul 17
@TheHorse Sad songs are also my favorite, I also like Classic music. People who talk too much, usually also have nothing to say and they are extremely irritating.
@just4him (317238)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
27 Jul 17
When I'm feeling out of sorts, like right this moment, I like something that will pick me up, not put me further into a funk.
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@TheHorse (220275)
• Walnut Creek, California
28 Jul 17
What made you feel out of sorts?
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@TheHorse (220275)
• Walnut Creek, California
28 Jul 17
@just4him Glad you're doing better. Too many cooks... It's good to iron out inconsistencies, but other than that, different people will like/dislike different things. I don't have the attention span/patience to write a novel. Most of my short stories, songs, etc., were done in the span of a few days.
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@just4him (317238)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
28 Jul 17
@TheHorse I got an e-mail from my editor who also sent the full copy of my manuscript to his father to read and he came back with even more things for me to look at. I don't know why, but I was at boiling point about it, and when I looked at what he thought there was a problem with, I was completely at a loss as to the problem. I could understand why the red flags a week ago and the need to fix the story near the end, at which place I am right now in the revision, but I was really at a loss and told him so. As I'm going through this final edit and necessary revision, I'm also not very happy with my friend who proofed it for me. There is so much wrong with it, my head is spinning. Freedom's Cry took a long time for me to write, and it's obvious I forgot what I had already written when I picked it up again with all the inconsistencies in it. So I'm repairing that damage and making it consistent and then to have that little bit of news it was more than I could handle. It really made me depressed for the day and added to the stress I'm under with it, which also took it's toll on my back. Which put me in the recliner with the massage chair pad until I could get back to my book and work it out. Okay, there you have it. I'm doing much better today.
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@kobesbuddy (78871)
• East Tawas, Michigan
29 Jul 17
There's nothing more uplifting for me, than a sincere hug from a little child!:( And when I'm depressed, sad music is always what I'd rather listen to. Also, I prefer being alone, which helps me sort out my thoughts and to rest my over-active mind. When I do this, little by little things eventually start improving. I've had others say, go visit a friend, get a part-time job, have peppy conversation with a jubilant, upbeat person! All these ideas don't work, for this lady:( I actually feel worse around other people. Kids are real, they don't pretend to like us!:( This photo is adorable!
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@TheHorse (220275)
• Walnut Creek, California
29 Jul 17
Good point! Kids are real. If they're giving you a big hug, or telling you their life story, they really like you.
@TheHorse (220275)
• Walnut Creek, California
29 Jul 17
And yea, no "perky" people please, unless they know how to drop the perkiness and really engage.
@Nawsheen (28643)
• Mauritius
28 Jul 17
The giggles of a little one always makes me happy. If I am sad then I try to listen to meditating music
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@Nawsheen (28643)
• Mauritius
31 Jul 17
@TheHorse OK. I don't think that I have ever listened to this song. Music is good to listen too. They make us feel so relaxed
@TheHorse (220275)
• Walnut Creek, California
29 Jul 17
For me that would be old Windham Hill Records.
Provided to YouTube by Sony Music Entertainment Causeway · Alex de Grassi / ???????? A Windham Hill Retrospective ? 1979 Windham Hill Records, a unit of the ...
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@vandana7 (100604)
• India
27 Jul 17
Ok...so you are looking at a serious answer. It pretty much depends upon the nature of sadness I think. If a loved one was in hospital, or no more, I would hate happy songs even though those would be my normal choice if say I failed at something, or work did not move, or somebody was nasty to me, or even if I hurt me etc. As far as littlies are concerned, they are god given cure for all kind of sadness I feel. You sure are lucky.
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@TheHorse (220275)
• Walnut Creek, California
27 Jul 17
Yeah, they made me smile again today.
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@kobesbuddy (78871)
• East Tawas, Michigan
29 Jul 17
I agree with what Vanny said, children are God given gifts, to help us walk through life!:)
@much2say (56087)
• Los Angeles, California
27 Jul 17
I'm more for the sad, gut-wrenching emotional songs. Happy songs have their place - but I don't want to hear them when I'm not feeling it. As far as happy people . . . I don't mind them being perky . . . but I do get irritated when they get overly happy thinking that would distract me from my emotions.
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@much2say (56087)
• Los Angeles, California
28 Jul 17
@TheHorse (220275)
• Walnut Creek, California
28 Jul 17
Exactly. There's a time for being happy. There's also a time for good listening, and shared pathos.
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• Valdosta, Georgia
28 Jul 17
Honestly, hearing about how peachy some people's lives are when things are horrible for us makes me a little bitter. However, being around little ones does help to make me happier. =)
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@TheHorse (220275)
• Walnut Creek, California
29 Jul 17
On Facebook, everyone seems to make "I'm having a better time that you" posts, or "My kids are cuter/more successful than yours are" posts. It gets tiresome.
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• United States
28 Jul 17
Kids in any shape or form don't pick me up . I am not a kid person, never had the motherly instinct and didn't want kids.
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• United States
28 Jul 17
@TheHorse At least I knew how to make the best decision for me.
@TheHorse (220275)
• Walnut Creek, California
28 Jul 17
I've known other people like that. Heh. One was a kid (about eleven)!
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@nanette64 (20364)
• Fairfield, Texas
27 Jul 17
If I'm sad, all it takes is a commercial to come on that has music in the background and I'm dancin' around @TheHorse . Music and dancing have always been a plus for me.
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@TheHorse (220275)
• Walnut Creek, California
27 Jul 17
Heh. Commercials generally irritate me, as I know they're trying to manipulate us.
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@Kandae11 (55164)
28 Jul 17
When I feel sad, I reflect on events in the past that made me happy or listen to music from my earlier care free days.
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@dollaboy (6048)
28 Jul 17
We all like the company of happy kids as they are so adorable and makes us laugh with there Naughtiness
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@TheHorse (220275)
• Walnut Creek, California
28 Jul 17
I know. They think they're being SO naughty when they make up nonsense words that sound like "poop." etc.
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@GardenGerty (160978)
• United States
27 Jul 17
Working with young kids is great, most of the time. Even if they have some behavior problems, they intrigue me. I want to know what makes them tick. Happy adults--sometimes are annoying because they cannot consider that others are not always happy. Music, I like praise and worship songs or things from the hymnal that I can sing along with. I think the patterned breathing of singing is good for your health and your mood.
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@TheHorse (220275)
• Walnut Creek, California
28 Jul 17
I always like gospel music, whether it's Hank Williams Sr. or Bach. I revere those who revere with sincerity.
@Jackalyn (7558)
• Oxford, England
27 Jul 17
Working in Pre-School is the best. I was a childcare tutor for years and really missed being hands on. Just now I have been thinking that I would like to go back and just be an assistant somewhere.
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@TheHorse (220275)
• Walnut Creek, California
27 Jul 17
I enjoy being around that "energy."
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@RasmaSandra (80783)
• Daytona Beach, Florida
27 Jul 17
hope you enjoy your day. When I'm blue some of my upbeat oldie songs make me feel better. At times I like sad song because i need a good cry. You reminded me of this happy song from my kindergarten days.
If You're Happy and You Know It Clap Your Hands (song with lyrics) - Animated Nursery Rhymes & Children's Favorite Songs by EFlashApps Check out our top rank...
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@TheHorse (220275)
• Walnut Creek, California
28 Jul 17
I do sing this one with the kids occasionally.
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@Lucky15 (37374)
• Philippines
27 Jul 17
I listen to upbeat songs when I am sad. when people are happy, i will be happier for them. and the kids loved you that they knew what is up :D
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@TheHorse (220275)
• Walnut Creek, California
28 Jul 17
Eh, I feel jealous of them. Or I think they're in denial.
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@Courtlynn (67080)
• United States
27 Jul 17
Sad songs are better when I'm sad as i can normally "connect" to those at the moment which makes me not feel so alone. Happy kids help though
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@TheHorse (220275)
• Walnut Creek, California
27 Jul 17
I agree with you! Here's one of my favorites for when I'm missing smeone who has moved on.
Music video by Vince Gill performing Go Rest High On That Mountain. (C) 1995 MCA Nashville
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@Adam211 (38)
27 Jul 17
When ever i get upset i just wanna go to beach or any sea side where i can sit alone on that time i dont preffer sad songs or whatever i just want that no body should talk me.
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@TheHorse (220275)
• Walnut Creek, California
27 Jul 17
Ifi the ocean soothing, no matter what kind of a mood I'm in.