Thoughts
By Piyaya
@piyaya30 (137)
London, England
August 5, 2017 10:59am CST
Last time, I had some catching up to do with my friends and it was good tho, and she told me about the cause of their break up. Of course being in a relationship with a person whose culture is not same as you are, definitely, problems will arise, misunderstanding may happen and the saddest part is break up.
Being in a multi-cultural relationship, its not easy, it takes a lot of courage, responsibility, patience, love, understanding, should have a BIG RESPECT and of course acceptance. I got scared, after me and my friend talked about her biggest break up and suddenly, I have thoughts that "what if he do that and what if he will change and he will be the person whom I don't know anymore?" I was so scared thinking he will change and will leave me".
As person who experienced bad breakup should always remember that men in that culture could be mean to me. And I just hope that he won't hurt me and abuse me verbally and emotionally or else I WILL LEAVE and WILL NEVER! EVER! COME BACK!
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2 responses
@JeeyanDee (2692)
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6 Aug 17
I agree with you. If a guy starts abusing you in any way, it is time to leave girl! No excuses whatsoever.
@dollaboy (6048)
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5 Aug 17
Yeah you're right it's pretty challenging when both partners are from different cultures