CALLING DEATH?

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@Kandae11 (54986)
August 29, 2017 9:08am CST
Are you scared to make a will?. Some people feel they will be 'calling death' on themselves when they do so. I have heard about so many people from middle class to the rich and famous who passed on without leaving a will. Resulting in siblings and other family members enduring court battles trying to decide who gets what. Are you afraid of making your will ? And what are some of the other reasons why people do not make wills?
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• United States
29 Aug 17
I have my will all made out so that everyone will know my intentions when I leave this earth
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@marlina (154131)
• Canada
30 Aug 17
@Marilynda1225 , Same here, done.
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@Kandae11 (54986)
29 Aug 17
Good move.
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@vandana7 (100257)
• India
29 Aug 17
My father hesitated to do that. He was unwilling. I am the only heir, and even so, I asked for it so that cousins don't land on me to ensure that everything is not spent away or given randomly. Relatives told him that she will kill you once you write it. Almost six years since he executed the will. He is fine! And happy too. lol
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@vandana7 (100257)
• India
29 Aug 17
@Kandae11 .. In this case, I established the properties on his name. They are rightfully mine. Relatives want those. lol
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@Kandae11 (54986)
29 Aug 17
I saw many movies and read many novels about murder occurring after the will is made. A greedy and impatient family member might not want to wait for the testator or testatrix to die naturally.
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@Kandae11 (54986)
29 Aug 17
@vandana7 They are indeed yours, but if no will was left, you would experience big problems with the relatives.
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@shaggin (72125)
• United States
30 Aug 17
At this age with having two kids anything I had would be left to my kids and my parents I guess to decide who gets what and to take care of my kids. I do not think I need a will get and don't like thinking how if something happens to me my kids will be orphans.
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@shaggin (72125)
• United States
5 Sep 17
@Kandae11 That's true! I think since my kids only have one parent left it makes me worry more then other parents might.
@1creekgirl (41394)
• United States
13 Sep 17
A will would spell out your wishes that your parents would take care of your children. I've known where other family members petition the courts for custody just to get whatever money was there.
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@Kandae11 (54986)
30 Aug 17
I don't think any caring parent would like the idea of leaving their kids.
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@amadeo (111938)
• United States
29 Aug 17
Our will have been made a long time ago.Along with the living will.No plugs.Unplug. Why should they be afraid?we all die when our time is up.We cannot live forever. We are all set and have our lawyers taking care of this.
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@vandana7 (100257)
• India
29 Aug 17
Actually, people are scared. Once they write the will, the heir might get impatient and try to kill them.
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@amadeo (111938)
• United States
29 Aug 17
@vandana7 not here that sounds too morbid for me there.
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@DianneN (247186)
• United States
29 Aug 17
Have made out two wills, one early in our marriage, and one more recently. Also have a living will and trust funds.
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@Kandae11 (54986)
29 Aug 17
Excellent planning.
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@DianneN (247186)
• United States
30 Aug 17
@Kandae11 For the kids. Not for us. . Thank you!
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@JudyEv (339612)
• Rockingham, Australia
29 Aug 17
We have made wills. If we don't (in Australia) the government takes over and makes sure it gets a substantial amount.
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@vandana7 (100257)
• India
29 Aug 17
I wish that law was here in My country..
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@1creekgirl (41394)
• United States
13 Sep 17
It can be that way here in the US also. Why give the government part of what you want your family to have?
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@Kandae11 (54986)
29 Aug 17
Gosh!
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• Preston, England
29 Aug 17
not afraid to leave a will, just don't have anything to leave anyone @Kandae11
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• Preston, England
30 Aug 17
@Kandae11 yes though few if any are too valuable financially
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@Kandae11 (54986)
29 Aug 17
I am sure you must have a nice collection of books - don't you?
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• United States
30 Aug 17
I have nothing to will. I am not afraid of most things in life Kandase. I will however make some notes for my only son for when I pass on.
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• United States
30 Aug 17
@Kandae11 Understand Kandase
@Kandae11 (54986)
30 Aug 17
I also have an only son - and what I have for him isn't terribly much.
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@Fleura (30352)
• United Kingdom
31 Aug 17
That's ridiculous. But yes I know many people who have not made a will and I keep telling them that they are making life so difficult for those still alive! One of the biggest difficulties though is finding witnesses to sign. Of course if you go to a solicitor then they can ask some staff member to be a witness, but otherwise it is hard to find anyone since a family member cannot be the witness, neither can anyone named in the will, and strangers are wary of signing anything!
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@Kandae11 (54986)
31 Aug 17
It is ridiculous yes. You make the will - then relax and get on with life.
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@poehere (15123)
• French Polynesia
30 Aug 17
I only have one child and she will get whatever I have left. I am not sure why, but I haven't put it in writing as of yet. It wouldn't take long to do and would be so quick and simple to make. Might need to do this soon.
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@poehere (15123)
• French Polynesia
31 Aug 17
@Kandae11 You're right. I live in a French Country and my daughter is now living in the US. So I guess it is better I get it done now.
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@Kandae11 (54986)
31 Aug 17
Best to make it a done deal.
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@Lucky15 (37374)
• Philippines
29 Aug 17
nope for me, but then...do i leave anything behind? ;/
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@Lucky15 (37374)
• Philippines
30 Aug 17
@Kandae11 my laptop and my phone. Hahaha
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@Kandae11 (54986)
29 Aug 17
You should have some possessions.
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• United States
30 Aug 17
I've made mine. It's easy and I expect the kids will be like my sisters and I. A four way equal split...no fighting.
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@1creekgirl (41394)
• United States
13 Sep 17
We like to believe our children will divide everything equally, but what about future mates or people who may be greedy, unlike your kids? It's always better to have things spelled out in a will.
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• United States
30 Aug 17
@Kandae11 Yes. I'm not even promising anything. Let them choose what they need when the time comes. We found out that many items we had hoped for earlier were not fitting into today's lifestyle.
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@Kandae11 (54986)
30 Aug 17
It is so much simpler for all concerned when there is a will.
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@ilocosboy (45156)
• Philippines
29 Aug 17
that's the good thing for us who have no tangible and intangible assets to left to children but only love and caring.
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@Kandae11 (54986)
29 Aug 17
Well in those cases, there won't be much to quarrel or fight about.
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@vandana7 (100257)
• India
29 Aug 17
You never know what is there...
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@Happy2BeMe (99380)
• Canada
30 Aug 17
I never really gave it much thought until I had my heart attack. Now I am in the process of getting everything together because you never really know where it can all come to an end. It can happen quickly.
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@Happy2BeMe (99380)
• Canada
30 Aug 17
@Kandae11 it is better to plan ahead.
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@marlina (154131)
• Canada
30 Aug 17
Our wills are done.
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@Kandae11 (54986)
30 Aug 17
Great!
@just4him (317040)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
29 Aug 17
I haven't done so yet, but right now I have nothing to pass on.
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@Kandae11 (54986)
29 Aug 17
Well in that case.....
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@andriaperry (116936)
• Anniston, Alabama
30 Aug 17
No I am not scared I made my will 12- 15 years ago.
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@Kandae11 (54986)
30 Aug 17
The way to go.
@spaceseed (2843)
• India
30 Aug 17
I think nowadays it is utmost importanr tohave a will. not necessary that every body should knowabout it, but only trustworthy should be aware of it.
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@Kandae11 (54986)
30 Aug 17
Most definitely.
@YrNemo (20255)
30 Aug 17
I have had a few wills done so far. Situation changed, forced me to change the will again and again.
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@Kandae11 (54986)
30 Aug 17
Yes, situations do change sometimes.
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@resukill22 (25050)
• Las Pinas City, Philippines
30 Aug 17
i think it because they dont want their love ones fighting about money and property!
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@Kandae11 (54986)
30 Aug 17
That is the reason why it is best to make a will.