Which way should graves face? Or doesn't it matter?

@JudyEv (341954)
Rockingham, Australia
August 29, 2017 11:35am CST
We left our campsite a bit later than usual this morning and only made a couple of short stops. One of these was at a small cemetery with a little chapel in the centre. It seemed that maybe the local authorities had made an effort to restore the gravestones or encourage families to erect new headstones. You could see that many graves had a very old stone base but had big, relatively new marble slabs and fancy headstones. A custom in France seems to be to put small plaques on top of the slab. In Australia, I think these would be stolen or broken but the idea is nice. Some older stone bases had signs saying the ‘occupant’ was unknown and if anyone knew the occupants’ name could they please contact the local authorities. It is sad when a grave becomes so old there is no one left to care for it. Another interesting feature is that one line of graves faced one way and the next line faced the opposite way. In Australia it was mostly the custom for the deceased to be laid with his/her head to the west ie facing the eat. Do graves in your cemeteries all face the same way?
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@HazySue (39268)
• Gouverneur, New York
29 Aug 17
I don't really know. I never thought about it. I will have to look next time I am in a cemetery. It is sad when there is no one left to care.
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@JudyEv (341954)
• Rockingham, Australia
30 Aug 17
@HazySue That's true. We've been trying to work out where best for us to be buried but I can't see anyone bothering to visit too often. Both sons are miles away.
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@JudyEv (341954)
• Rockingham, Australia
29 Aug 17
I also feel sad when you can't read the inscriptions on headstones too.
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@HazySue (39268)
• Gouverneur, New York
29 Aug 17
@JudyEv . They seems to be a lot of them out there with no one to remember them.
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@1creekgirl (41722)
• United States
29 Aug 17
All the graves here face the east in anticipation of Christ's return.
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@JudyEv (341954)
• Rockingham, Australia
29 Aug 17
Yes, that was my understanding too but in this cemetery every second row faces the opposite direction - unless they've just put the headstones facing the other way.
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@JudyEv (341954)
• Rockingham, Australia
30 Aug 17
@Raelove Maybe there is a Bible reference? I don't know either.
@JudyEv (341954)
• Rockingham, Australia
31 Aug 17
@Raelove There seems quite a few pagan superstitions that have been incorporated into various faiths.
@marguicha (223720)
• Chile
29 Aug 17
I hadn´t thought of it. I´ll check.
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@marguicha (223720)
• Chile
29 Aug 17
@JudyEv Interesting! Any reason?
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@JudyEv (341954)
• Rockingham, Australia
29 Aug 17
In Australia, in any cemetery I've been in, the graves all face the same way.
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@JudyEv (341954)
• Rockingham, Australia
30 Aug 17
@marguicha I have no idea. Maybe it made designing graveyards easier.
@LadyDuck (472041)
• Switzerland
30 Aug 17
Here in Switzerland they do, in the two big cemeteries in Milan (Italy) they do not, but there you can find incredibly beautiful graves. The photo gives you an idea of what I mean. This is the Monumentale Cemetery in Milano.
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@LadyDuck (472041)
• Switzerland
31 Aug 17
@JudyEv The Monumentale is known for the abundance of artistic tombs and monuments. Many of the tombs belong to famous industrialist dynasties. This cemetery also has a special section for those who are not Catholic religion and also has a Jewish section. Many tourists visit this place.
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@JudyEv (341954)
• Rockingham, Australia
31 Aug 17
@LadyDuck I can understand why it is a tourist attraction.
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@JudyEv (341954)
• Rockingham, Australia
30 Aug 17
Gosh, that really is beautiful. I've never seen anything like that even over here.
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@franxav (13849)
• India
29 Aug 17
Most graves in our Christian cemetery have "heads" to the west.
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@JudyEv (341954)
• Rockingham, Australia
29 Aug 17
That's how most of our cemeteries are too.
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@JohnRoberts (109846)
• Los Angeles, California
29 Aug 17
Headstones are passe in the US. All are flat on the ground because it is cheaper to maintain grounds as the lawn mover just goes up and down. Cemeteries can be pretty big here and which direction graves face depend on inclines and angles and location.
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@JudyEv (341954)
• Rockingham, Australia
29 Aug 17
Thanks for that. Our big cemeteries are much like that too. All flat and able to be mown over.
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@JudyEv (341954)
• Rockingham, Australia
30 Aug 17
@Raelove We passed many cemeteries where there seems to be a certain 'fashion' which is followed. Or maybe it depends where the nearest monumental mason is.
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@JudyEv (341954)
• Rockingham, Australia
31 Aug 17
@Raelove That seems a bit radical. I can't remember seeing a grave where the headstone wasn't at the ... well, head!
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@topffer (42156)
• France
29 Aug 17
It is an interesting question. A text of the 13th C tells that people should be buried with the feet to the East, but it was something recent, and there is no rule in Christian cemeteries before the Middle-Age for graves. Before that the W-E orientation was only for churches. And for France, a law from 1881 says that faith-based divisions are forbidden in cemeteries. It is why you can find any kind of orientation today.
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@topffer (42156)
• France
30 Aug 17
@JudyEv I never read "Kalathumpian" before. I guess it is from Greek Kalathos, waste bin. I think it was a wild boars beat. They are considered harmful and can be hunted all the year. They can do a lot of damages in maize fields. You should have seen or heard a few dogs too, to make the boars moving.
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@JudyEv (341954)
• Rockingham, Australia
30 Aug 17
Thanks for that. In my home town, the sections are faith-based but they'd need a big section now for Kalathumpians (a good Aussie word meaning 'those of no particular, if any, faith). And I wanted to ask you - two days ago we came across a dozen or so men lined up along the road at about 30m intervals all with shotguns. A guy each end had a hunting-type horn. So I was wondering what were they hunting? Were they going to try to flush out pheasants or grouse or what? They were on the RH side facing across the road to a field of maize. I didn't see any dogs. It's good having a person to direct all my 'French' questions too!
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@JudyEv (341954)
• Rockingham, Australia
31 Aug 17
@topffer I usually say I'm a Kalathumpain although I always fully supported Vince when he was still attending Mass. It was fairly common to convert to Catholicism during the time we married but it didn't really sit right with me although to all intents and purposes I might as well have converted. Maybe the dogs were behind the field and were going to drive the boars towards the hunters. That would explain why I didn't see any dogs. And our motor-home is too noisy to hear too much else.
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@averygirl72 (37845)
• Philippines
30 Aug 17
It's face in different directions depending on what row it follows. I didn't know that the head should be the west facing the east
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@JudyEv (341954)
• Rockingham, Australia
30 Aug 17
It seems there is quite a bit of difference around the countries.
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@amadeo (111938)
• United States
29 Aug 17
Yes most of them do.That is sort of weird there.
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@amadeo (111938)
• United States
30 Aug 17
@JudyEv now you wonder why.any answer from anyone around
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@JudyEv (341954)
• Rockingham, Australia
30 Aug 17
I haven't seen each row facing a different way before so I was a bit intrigued.
@sueznewz2 (10409)
• Alicante, Spain
30 Aug 17
most of the graves face east in the uk... but withsome exceptions... .but.., I do not know if thats because of religeous beliefs or full use of available space...
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@sueznewz2 (10409)
• Alicante, Spain
30 Aug 17
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@JudyEv (341954)
• Rockingham, Australia
30 Aug 17
I was wondering if it just made planning easier too.
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@andriaperry (117141)
• Anniston, Alabama
30 Aug 17
Yes all face east.
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@JudyEv (341954)
• Rockingham, Australia
30 Aug 17
There seems to be a strong case for facing east. Or at least a precedent.
@Happy2BeMe (99380)
• Canada
30 Aug 17
Most cemeteries I have been too they alwys face east but there is one by here that I walk in often and there are many different sectionstyles and each section faces a different way.
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@JudyEv (341954)
• Rockingham, Australia
30 Aug 17
So that's interesting. I wonder why.
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@Happy2BeMe (99380)
• Canada
31 Aug 17
@JudyEv I am not really sure. I never thought of it until I read your post.
@spaceseed (2843)
• India
30 Aug 17
it should face the sky
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@JudyEv (341954)
• Rockingham, Australia
30 Aug 17
Haha. Well done and or course you're absolutely right!
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@spaceseed (2843)
• India
31 Aug 17
@JudyEv Thank you !!
@Kandae11 (55164)
29 Aug 17
I haven't really paid much attention, but that cemetery does look neat, but crowded.
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@JudyEv (341954)
• Rockingham, Australia
29 Aug 17
It was very crowded indeed. In many places, you couldn't walk between the graves.
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@valmnz (17097)
• New Zealand
29 Aug 17
I'm ashamed to say I don't really know what the custom is here. But we do have a local statue of a Maori Chief that is facing the rising sun.
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@JudyEv (341954)
• Rockingham, Australia
30 Aug 17
It seems most face east but it isn't universal by any means.
@Fleura (30541)
• United Kingdom
30 Aug 17
It is traditional for Christians to be buried so that if (when?) they stand up they will be facing east. And yes in our local cemetery they all face this way. In some older ones though, old headstones have been removed from the graves and instead placed around the cemetery walls, so as to make maintenance easier and reduce the risk of old gravestones falling on someone. But the actual graves are still in the same place under the grass.
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@Fleura (30541)
• United Kingdom
30 Aug 17
@JudyEv I think it's another instance of Christian tradition taking over pre-existing traditions, along with Yes trees around churches, Christmas in the middle of winter (when Jesus was most likely born in September) and various other things.
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@JudyEv (341954)
• Rockingham, Australia
31 Aug 17
@Fleura There seems to be a lot of pagan customs that have been incorporated.
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@JudyEv (341954)
• Rockingham, Australia
30 Aug 17
Does it say in the Bible they should face east perhaps? Or just to face the rising sun?
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• Eugene, Oregon
29 Aug 17
I have no idea. I guess I thought it was up to the people who ran it to decide. I don't know if there is such a custom in the US or not.
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• Eugene, Oregon
30 Aug 17
@JudyEv No worries really, but it is odd to think about if there is any order to these places.
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@JudyEv (341954)
• Rockingham, Australia
30 Aug 17
It's one of the things you don't really worry about until someone mentions it.
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@DianneN (247186)
• United States
30 Aug 17
Interesting. I really don't know about other cemeteries, but the one my parents are in all face the same direction.
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@JudyEv (341954)
• Rockingham, Australia
30 Aug 17
I know there was a bit of a fuss years ago in a small country cemetery when someone was interred the 'wrong' way. But I don't really know what the right way is.
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@teamfreak16 (43418)
• Denver, Colorado
29 Aug 17
I've honestly never noticed if the graves face a certain way, to tell the truth.
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@JudyEv (341954)
• Rockingham, Australia
31 Aug 17
@teamfreak16 It was only wrong in the eyes of the locals. They weren't really into 'different'.
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@JudyEv (341954)
• Rockingham, Australia
30 Aug 17
I know in a small country cemetery a guy was buried the 'wrong' way but I don't know what the reason is for having a right and wrong. Mostly one takes no notice of stuff like this I guess.
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@teamfreak16 (43418)
• Denver, Colorado
30 Aug 17
@JudyEv - It never occurred to me that a grave could be facing the wrong way.
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• Kisumu, Kenya
30 Aug 17
in my community it matters a lot
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@JudyEv (341954)
• Rockingham, Australia
31 Aug 17
So what is the custom in your country?
@JudyEv (341954)
• Rockingham, Australia
31 Aug 17
@charlesudo That's interesting. Thanks for sharing your customs.
• Kisumu, Kenya
31 Aug 17
@JudyEv the head must face the gate in case you are being buried in your home and on the right hand side of the main house
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