I COULDN'T WATCH

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@Kandae11 (54986)
September 20, 2017 4:20pm CST
I could never sit and watch my husband make love to another woman - and that is the reason why I would never marry an actor. Hats off to those husbands and wives of actors who are comfortable - or appear to be comfortable with it. They attend the premiere of their spouse's latest movie - and sit through very romantic love scenes involving that spouse in living color on the big screen. I couldn't do it. Would you feel comfortable being married to an actor?.
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@marguicha (222797)
• Chile
20 Sep 17
I never thought about it. But I agree with you.
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@Kandae11 (54986)
20 Sep 17
It would be okay with some - but me, I am a bit possessive.
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@marguicha (222797)
• Chile
20 Sep 17
@Kandae11 Me too. Always was.
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@much2say (55516)
• Los Angeles, California
21 Sep 17
That wouldn't be for me either. But I do know people who are married to actors . . . but they don't have a problem with it because their spouses don't get those kinds of roles .
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@much2say (55516)
• Los Angeles, California
21 Sep 17
@Kandae11 There's one couple that I know - the husband is the actor . . . the couple as individuals are very different from each other as the wife is very conservative. Quite frankly I don't know how she is comfortable being married to such an obnoxious guy , but I don't know how she'd feel if he ever got a role to play a romantic part!
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@Kandae11 (54986)
21 Sep 17
You are perfectly right, not all actors would get those roles, but most do have some kind of involvement - even action stars.
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@Kandae11 (54986)
21 Sep 17
@much2say Did they marry before he became an actor?
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@jstory07 (139508)
• Roseburg, Oregon
21 Sep 17
If my husband brought home lots of money it would not brother me at all.
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@Kandae11 (54986)
21 Sep 17
Of course it won't bother some . - but there are others who would prefer the husband over the money.
@amadeo (111938)
• United States
21 Sep 17
I am married to an actor
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@amadeo (111938)
• United States
22 Sep 17
@Kandae11 No just kidding around.I am better one than he
@Kandae11 (54986)
21 Sep 17
Really? Mike is an actor?
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@ilocosboy (45156)
• Philippines
20 Sep 17
Naybe this is the reason an actor marry an actress because they are in the same thinking. Or maybe, the reason you stated is the reason why these actors and actresses always split up.
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@ilocosboy (45156)
• Philippines
20 Sep 17
@peachpurple and because they can't control their emotions, they break up
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@Kandae11 (54986)
20 Sep 17
They say it is only acting, but there is also some chemistry. After all- they are only human.
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@peachpurple (13962)
• Malaysia
20 Sep 17
they know they are acting but sometimes emotiins just get out of hands
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@peachpurple (13962)
• Malaysia
20 Sep 17
Nope, jealousy is bound to rise and conflict too
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@Kandae11 (54986)
20 Sep 17
So many Hollywood marriages end in divorce because of the actor falling for his or her love interest in the movie.
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@1hopefulman (45120)
• Canada
21 Sep 17
I wouldn't mind if they were an actress on Sesame Street or something like that and so you know my answer.
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@1hopefulman (45120)
• Canada
21 Sep 17
@Kandae11 I do the same!
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@Kandae11 (54986)
21 Sep 17
No problem with Sesame street at all.
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@Kandae11 (54986)
21 Sep 17
@1hopefulman I usually fast forward with my handy remote. That is one reason I choose carefully which movies I watch in a cinema - can't fast forward there.
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@BelleStarr (61102)
• United States
21 Sep 17
Probably not especially since so many of them go off screen as well
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@Kandae11 (54986)
21 Sep 17
Exactly. On screen is only the beginning.
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@LeaPea2417 (37350)
• Toccoa, Georgia
21 Sep 17
No, I would not be comfortable at all.
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@Kandae11 (54986)
21 Sep 17
Same here,
• Eugene, Oregon
21 Sep 17
I agree that would be difficult.
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@Kandae11 (54986)
21 Sep 17
Have you ever had romantic roles?
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• Eugene, Oregon
21 Sep 17
@Kandae11 I was thinking about that and I guess I was too old when I started to be cast that way.
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@Kandae11 (54986)
21 Sep 17
@JamesHxstatic There are actors your age playing romantic roles
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@DianneN (247186)
• United States
21 Sep 17
Johnny Depp left his wife over something like that. I couldn't take it!
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@DianneN (247186)
• United States
21 Sep 17
@Kandae11 That's very true. Paul Newman and Joanne Woodward lived in my brother's town, not far from us. They were very giving and nice people.
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@Kandae11 (54986)
21 Sep 17
It happens so often - but there are a few lasting ones like Kurt Russel and Goldie Hawn - even though they never married - and Paul Newman and his wife - who was also an actress.
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@Kind4321 (826)
• Nairobi, Kenya
21 Sep 17
I can't stand it to
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@acelawrites (19272)
• Philippines
20 Sep 17
I could not too! But if he is an actor, maybe give him that opportunity and be jealous later!
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@Kandae11 (54986)
20 Sep 17
I would hope he is only acting - but things can go wrong.
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@thelme55 (76890)
• Germany
21 Sep 17
I think I would get jealous. I have never thought of that though.
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@Kandae11 (54986)
21 Sep 17
I used to spend a lot of time looking at entertainment reports on afternoon TV. I would see happy looking actors and wives or actresses and husbands attending movie premieres - starring one or the other . Movies in which these actors or actresses are involved in passionate love scenes with a co star - and I have often wondered how their spouses could feel comfortable watching.
• Nairobi, Kenya
21 Sep 17
I would be okay marrying an actor but never comfortable to see him touching another woman
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@Kandae11 (54986)
21 Sep 17
Of course it won't be a real problem for some people - long as the actor is rich and famous.
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• Nairobi, Kenya
21 Sep 17
@Kandae11 Very true. Some women support it because they are okay with having his money and not him.
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@Mudege (42)
21 Sep 17
@Kandae11 its not all about riches and being famous. I dont think anyone can be comfortable with not unless the only feelings they have is love for money
@LadyDuck (471294)
• Switzerland
21 Sep 17
I am like you, this is not something I would like to watch. I am possessive and also a bit jealous.
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@Kandae11 (54986)
21 Sep 17
Same here.
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@Tampa_girl7 (50188)
• United States
21 Sep 17
It would definitely bother me
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@Kandae11 (54986)
21 Sep 17
He might say he loves me, but he is human and could get 'carried away'.
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@just4him (317040)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
21 Sep 17
I never thought about it. It would probably be difficult.
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@just4him (317040)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
21 Sep 17
@Kandae11 I think you need to know and trust the person you're married to enough to be able to handle that kind of scene. A person who lacks confidence isn't going to be comfortable, but jealousy will rage out of control.
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@Kandae11 (54986)
21 Sep 17
It would be for me.
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@Kandae11 (54986)
21 Sep 17
@just4him Its not that I lack confidence, I just won't feel comfortable with it, and that is why I would prefer not to marry an actor.
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@Lucky15 (37374)
• Philippines
20 Sep 17
I am thinking those too, how they can see their husband or wife having some intimate scenes on a movie or drama ;/
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@Kandae11 (54986)
20 Sep 17
Many Hollywood marriages didn't stand the test.
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@RubyHawk (99405)
• Atlanta, Georgia
22 Sep 17
No, I couldn't do it. That's way to much to ask of anyone.
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@RubyHawk (99405)
• Atlanta, Georgia
22 Sep 17
@Kandae11 Maybe they become immune to it.
@Kandae11 (54986)
22 Sep 17
Maybe quite a number of them don't watch those movies involving their husbands or wives.
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@Kind4321 (826)
• Nairobi, Kenya
21 Sep 17
Nope.I am the jealous type.It would finish me and its like stubbing my heart.Imagining another woman experiencing my husband's touches...I cant.I will just pass on when i meet an actor.
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@Kandae11 (54986)
21 Sep 17
I would too.
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@Kind4321 (826)
• Nairobi, Kenya
22 Sep 17
@Kandae11 I believe we are normal.I salute those people with such strength. Another instance is a musician who goes all out engaging with his dancers and female fans.