Life Circle

@fly802 (1383)
September 23, 2017 5:41am CST
How strange the life circle is!Today while watching my mother-in-law, I was thinking about that.A few years ago she ruled her family.But today she is in that states which is unexpected.She`ve forgotten many things.She tries to run away.My husband & sister-in-laws are unable to control her.Her medical report says there is no problem.We don`t know what to do.She is 60.She behaves like a child. It seems to me that life circle makes us child again in the last phase of life.What do you think?
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Silvermist
@silvermist (19702)
• India
5 Oct 17
As @LadyDuck said 60 is not an old age.It is very unfortunate about her present condition.
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Anna
@LadyDuck (471356)
• Switzerland
5 Oct 17
Even in the past 60 was not an old age, in our days you are not even retired yet.
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Blue Butter Fly
@fly802 (1383)
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5 Oct 17
I've nothing to say.My sisters-in-laws are also confused.
Bush Stan
@Kosgey (1706)
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23 Sep 17
And thats is nature
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Blue Butter Fly
@fly802 (1383)
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23 Sep 17
How powerful nature is!
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Bush Stan
@Kosgey (1706)
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23 Sep 17
@fly802 that one day you will be grown up and later years you will behave like a baby when you grow older.
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Blue Butter Fly
@fly802 (1383)
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24 Sep 17
@Kosgey I`m also thinking so.
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Oshy
@TiarasOceanView (70022)
• United States
8 Oct 17
Maybe she is getting the Alzheimer, though I would not wish it on her. Yes it is strange the life circle.
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Oshy
@TiarasOceanView (70022)
• United States
9 Oct 17
@fly802 Yes May God protect her.
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Blue Butter Fly
@fly802 (1383)
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9 Oct 17
Maybe.May God protect her from any danger.
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Belle Starr (Iz)
@BelleStarr (61102)
• United States
19 Dec 17
It sounds like she has dementia and it is a disease that takes away reason and changes people.
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Blue Butter Fly
@fly802 (1383)
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20 Dec 17
We are also thinking so now.Hope God will save her from any big danger.
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DianneN
@DianneN (247186)
• United States
14 Oct 17
Wow! In this day and age, 60 is still considered young. I wonder if she has dementia?
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DianneN
@DianneN (247186)
• United States
14 Oct 17
@fly802 Either that or early onset Alzheimer's. I'd get a second opinion. Your poor mother in law. Hugs!
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Blue Butter Fly
@fly802 (1383)
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14 Oct 17
Maybe.We are also thinking that now.
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Judy Evans
@JudyEv (339591)
• Rockingham, Australia
13 Oct 17
It sounds like she now has dementia. All these behaviours are typical of Alzheimer's disease. I've very sorry for you all. It will be a tough road ahead.
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Blue Butter Fly
@fly802 (1383)
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14 Oct 17
Yes, we are very tensed for that.Don`t know what to do.
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Shellyann36
@Shellyann36 (11384)
• United States
13 Oct 17
So sorry to hear this. Sounds like possible stages of dementia. Prayers for you and the family.
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Blue Butter Fly
@fly802 (1383)
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13 Oct 17
Thanks She makes all of us scared.
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Shellyann36
@Shellyann36 (11384)
• United States
14 Oct 17
@fly802 I hope that the doctors will be able to diagnose her so that your family is not in the dark and can get educated about what is happening will happen and how to prepare for it.
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Blue Butter Fly
@fly802 (1383)
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14 Oct 17
@Shellyann36 I also hope so.Don`t know when she will be better again.We`re praying to God.
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Judy Story
@jstory07 (139579)
• Roseburg, Oregon
24 Sep 17
Not everyone gets old and acts like a child again.
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Blue Butter Fly
@fly802 (1383)
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24 Sep 17
Yes, it happens sometimes.
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Anna
@LadyDuck (471356)
• Switzerland
3 Oct 17
This is very sad, also because 60 is not an old age in our days. My Mother is 96 and she still rules her house.
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Blue Butter Fly
@fly802 (1383)
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3 Oct 17
Yes, it`s really sad.
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Jabo
@jaboUK (64354)
• United Kingdom
19 Oct 17
That's a difficult situation for your family. It sounds like dementia, but 60 is pretty young for that.
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Shiva
@Shiva49 (26669)
• Singapore
18 Jan 18
That is sad. I know people at ninety as fit as a fiddle - siva
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Blue Butter Fly
@fly802 (1383)
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19 Jan 18
I also thought that but I watch my mother in law I get confused.Hope she will be ok.
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Faye
@FayeHazel (40243)
• United States
14 Nov 17
I think you're right. I know I have friends who are dealing with aging parents too - I have noticed with my dad too -- childish behaviors, unreasonableness, temper tantrums.... happy to say my mom is alright
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Blue Butter Fly
@fly802 (1383)
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15 Nov 17
The more shocking news is to me that my mom is also behaving like my mother in law.She just tells and not ready to hear anything.Don`t know why this happens to me.
Kandase
@Kandae11 (54986)
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1 Nov 17
I think she is in the early stages of dementia. Not all elderly will get that condition.
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Blue Butter Fly
@fly802 (1383)
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2 Nov 17
We`re also thinking so.But it`s really shocking.She addresses me as her sister in law.
Darcy Nemo
@YrNemo (20255)
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27 Sep 17
Serious, only 60 and already faced that problem. OMG! Now you scare me. I thought people only face that when they were in their late 70s.
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Blue Butter Fly
@fly802 (1383)
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27 Sep 17
I`m also scared.Because the doctor has told that she has no problem.Every medical report is ok.I don`t know what to do.
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Blue Butter Fly
@fly802 (1383)
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28 Sep 17
@YrNemo No, she is not wealthy.
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Darcy Nemo
@YrNemo (20255)
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29 Sep 17
@fly802 I thought more about this case while walking to the doctor yesterday. Some blood tests or special tests could pinpoint if her body needs special hormones or chemical treatment.
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Cahaya
@cahaya1983 (11116)
• Malaysia
2 Oct 17
60 is quite young to be in such a state, if she really doesn't have any health problem like what you said. Did she ever say why she wants to run away?
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Blue Butter Fly
@fly802 (1383)
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2 Oct 17
When we ask her something she just laughs.
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Aurelia Katheu
@Akatheu (387)
• Nairobi, Kenya
24 Sep 17
Yea it's true when people grow very old, they seem to behave like little babies. Have seen this happen to my granny
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