Young man who are in love with older women

September 30, 2017 9:56pm CST
Is it a good or bad thing ? Why do younger men find older women so A tractive ? Is it because we come with more Experience in bed ? lol I just don't get it Also should age really matter when it comes to love ? Just asking
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@weevee18 (2065)
• Philippines
1 Oct 17
Then for those men age doesn't matter. They rely more on what they feel rather than minding what other people may tell about them dating older women
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1 Oct 17
Thank you
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@redurnet (1798)
• United Kingdom
1 Oct 17
Maybe some older ladies have more intelligence, grace and more spiritual wisdom. I've seen it happen a few times to friends but not as often as older men with younger women.
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1 Oct 17
Thanks I really need to hear that you where a big help
@OneOfMany (12150)
• United States
1 Oct 17
Why do older men date young women? One could ask that too, because that certainly happens a lot. In this world, diversity is a common occurrence. As for your question, it's probably a remainder of the sensations from school aged years. After all, if there was an attractive woman teacher, all the boys would be fantasizing about her!
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@Daljinder (23236)
• Bangalore, India
1 Oct 17
Experience is one of the factor. Not just in bed but life, relationships in general. When young girls date old guys , they say they have "daddy issues" Maybe they have "mommy issues"? In any case, whatever be the reason, as long as they are happy...... *Shrug*
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@ilocosboy (45156)
• Philippines
1 Oct 17
the reason what you mentioned could be one of the factor why young men find older women attractive. But there are other factors why this is happening. Of course number one is Love.
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• Calgary, Alberta
28 Nov 17
@ilocosboy I dated an 18 year old woman and I felt like I have a daughter. Too high maintenance and she have a terrible taste on music.
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@ilocosboy (45156)
• Philippines
11 Oct 17
He he, should I say its from experience?
@ilocosboy (45156)
• Philippines
29 Nov 17
@CaptAlbertWhisker he he, too high in maintenance...
@aureliah (24316)
• Kenya
1 Oct 17
Only them can explain. we all have preferences.
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@Shavkat (139702)
• Philippines
1 Oct 17
I am not sure. But I think some men think older women are mature enough to handle the relationship.
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@Shavkat (139702)
• Philippines
2 Oct 17
@Chrisv1 One of my uncles got married to a woman older than him. I think he was happy.
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1 Oct 17
That what he said !!!! Thanks
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• Bournemouth, England
2 Oct 17
For over 30 years I have been with a partner much older than me. She has always had a much younger outlook on the world than mine.
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2 Oct 17
What is the age difference if you don't mind
3 Oct 17
Well it really depends what their motives is. But some really do fall inlove wihout thinking about age nor gender sometimes right.
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3 Oct 17
Thanks that is really helpful
@Lizirazo (2390)
• United States
1 Oct 17
Age doesn't matter when it comes to love, age is just a number.
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• United Kingdom
1 Oct 17
I don't think age means a thing. My taste in music, film etc is all from the 60s and 70s, so I get on very well with men in their 50s/60s. Guys my own age I have little in common with. Once you reach a certain age, age doesn't matter. So long as you are both adults.
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1 Oct 17
Ohhh yes I know what you mean you got what around 22 yound handsome guys missing you ... I am not in the list aunt
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1 Oct 17
Ha ha very funny but it's only about one of them ??
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2 Oct 17
@Chrisv1 ya ya I know...but just think how much heartbroken would be the rest 21 guys
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@A_loves_B (1608)
• Indonesia
1 Oct 17
Nice topic. Unfortunately I also don't get it. Anyway, is it based on your true story? Lol
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1 Oct 17
lol yes I get asked out a lot by younger men and don't know if I should say yes !!!
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@A_loves_B (1608)
• Indonesia
1 Oct 17
@Chrisv1 Lol. But I think it's not a problem at all if both of you really love each other.
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@MALUSE (69373)
• Germany
1 Oct 17
@Chrisv1 You wouldn't offend anyone if you did, would you? So, why don't you follow your feelings?
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@TangoMik (12)
• Kenya
2 Oct 17
haha maybe some are bored with their agemates and want someone senior whom they believe will understand them better
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@pumpkinjam (8754)
• United Kingdom
2 Oct 17
I don't think it's good or bad. Some men prefer older ladies, I assume, for the experience but, for me, it doesn't matter. My partner is 10 years older than me but I have been asked if he's my son because he looks so young! Our ages were irrelevant. If the couple have things in common, that's going to draw them together more than specifically seeking out someone of a certain age on the assumption they will be a certain way.
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@kiran8 (15348)
• Mangalore, India
2 Oct 17
In my own family we have several instances where younger men have married older women. In fact in our Hindu mythology too , such instances have been mentioned . Personally I feel that we get conditioned by the society to make certain choices and anything that seems out of the way gets criticized.
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@SHOHANA (16093)
• Bangladesh
2 Oct 17
well this is not something make me surprised as I often heard this kind news, when people in love age is just a number.
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@khalif85 (351)
• Petaling Jaya, Malaysia
2 Oct 17
It is not wrong at all. Ut is not only the experience that we seek but the maturity as well.
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@amit00 (90)
• Shimla, India
1 Oct 17
Age doesn't matter in love.
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• Bekasi, Indonesia
8 Dec 18
f they have loved each other, it can't be helped that certainly will happen