Cousin blocks me on Facebook.
By Bhem
@JustBhem (70555)
Davao, Philippines
October 7, 2017 11:00am CST
I just found out that one of my closest cousin blocks me on Facebook and I don't know why. The last time we have a conversation is when she asked me to have her phone connected to my Wifi which I told her to bring her phone down so that I will be the one to enter my password. But I also told her that refrain from youtube because it will slow down my connection especially when I am having my work. But she never went to me.
Since then she never talks to me, if we see each other she won't approach me.
I wonder really why in what ways she was upset.
Then I noticed just recently, I can no longer see her in my friend's list.
But If I use the boyfriend's account I can see her account.
That means she blocks me.
Her Father is my Mother's Brother so we are the first cousin and they live upstairs.
Now she is in Hong Kong now.
Do you experience this kind with your cousin or someone close to you?
Photo grab from Google.com.
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21 responses
@dragon54u (31634)
• United States
7 Oct 17
Maybe she was upset that you would not trust her with your password. People get upset about the smallest things these days! I hope your relationship gets back to normal!
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@allen0187 (58582)
• Philippines
7 Oct 17
Perhaps she blocked you by accident. Best to have this sorted out and talk to her when she gets back from Hong Kong.
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@allen0187 (58582)
• Philippines
8 Oct 17
@JustBhem really up to you if you still want to ask here about it or if you just want to drop the matter altogether.
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@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
8 Oct 17
@allen0187
I will probably leave it that way. One thing I know I didn't do anything for her.
I know one day she will talk to me. But for the meantime, I will let her have the freedom to do that.
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@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
8 Oct 17
But she knows about it.
That time I have a job, I worked as a Lead Agent and my time of work is from 9 pm to 3 am.
And I know she used her phone for her kids to watch youtube. That will surely slow down my connection.
She knows about it.
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@CaptAlbertWhisker (32691)
• Calgary, Alberta
7 Oct 17
I blocked a cousin for being the social justice warrior trying to fight the existence of snuff films by showing them to everyone. The thumb nails is enough to traumatize you. I do not want to see actual murder footage on my timeline.
I also blocked a cousin for being a fantard of a politician.
A cousin never blocked me 
The only people who blocked me at Facebook are the women I had one night stand with from Tinder
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@CaptAlbertWhisker (32691)
• Calgary, Alberta
7 Oct 17
@JustBhem I am sure you will block a cousin too if you will see a severed head on a thumbnail of a video they commented on.
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@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
7 Oct 17
@CaptAlbertWhisker
Haha, and I haven't seen yet, maybe later. Lol.
I never block people on Facebook no matter who they are, I let them the one who block me.
@carebear29 (31962)
• Wausau, Wisconsin
7 Oct 17
i know the feeling my family did the same thing but i consider it their loss
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@Cristi_Ichim (3743)
• Bucharest, Romania
8 Oct 17
I think this is weird indeed. I also had a colleague in college that was a good friend of mine but since we ended college and part ways, he stopped any kind of connection with me and stopped replying to me on facebook.
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@Cristi_Ichim (3743)
• Bucharest, Romania
8 Oct 17
@JustBhem no, he was still active on facebook but he did not want to reply to my messages anymore.
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@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
9 Oct 17
@Cristi_Ichim
Do you have a heated arguments before?
@ridingbet (66854)
• Philippines
8 Oct 17
it is her loss for blocking a good cousin like you. but since you are family, maybe some other day, she will talk to you again
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@ridingbet (66854)
• Philippines
8 Oct 17
@JustBhem in time, maybe the damage will be repaired.
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@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
8 Oct 17
@ridingbet
Yes, of course. In time.
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@Courtlynn (67085)
• United States
8 Oct 17
@JustBhem lots of times, we don't know why people do things. Just brush it off and not worry about it. She obviously doesnt care. Why should you.
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@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
8 Oct 17
@Courtlynn
I think you are right about it.
She doesn't care at all about how I will feel about it.
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@thelme55 (76876)
• Germany
7 Oct 17
Yes, I have experienced that. My niece had blocked me many times. One reason she blocked me was when I told her to ask permission if she wanted to use my photos and make it her own in fb. Every time she blocked me, I didn't know that until she was adding me as a friend in fb again. Many times I have accepted her friends request but last time, I didn't. It suites her.
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@Chibi05 (60)
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7 Oct 17
Never faced a block, but I have blocked many people on Facebook. When people are not relevant in your life and they still pester you to be visible online as friends, I just block them. :D
But yeah, I had my bro's friend's wife unfriend me and the reason being, her husband and my bro had a conflict. That was lame and like everyone else said, it's her loss and not mine. :D
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@parpande (1515)
• Bangalore, India
8 Oct 17
@JustBhem I had blocked one of my 1st cousin for the reason I could not resist. While I got married ,after a few days on my behalf my wife attended a family function where she acquainted this cousin. The guy told her abt me a few words as if he is jealous of me ( even I dont know why) . This really made me angry and decided to block that fellow , it`s been 2 years now I had not seen him.
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@Powermike (8)
• Abuja, Nigeria
8 Oct 17
Yes. I have a cousin in UK. His father and mine are of the same father, Ie ,we are first cousins. He did not phone me once in twelve years. I searsed his name on facebook and we were connected briefly. I gave him my phone number but he did not call me one day. He hid his number. We only chat on facebook. Later, I can not connect with him again. He later blocked me on facebook . I have gave up chatting with him .
