Do you lend money to yours frineds

Well, that's the situation i want to say. How this situations can be handled ? You know, you cann't say no in some cases, but still you can not say yes. A little bit complicated situation..

I really meant to say that friends are meant for to be helped and to help. But in case you lost your friend due to money matter, it would be grate loss. wfhen amounts are less, it may not matter but if it is big, there's a chance of loosing both your money and friend though some consideration is there..

Good idea.. if you will not lend money to your friends, they may upset with for a short time, but after that every thing will be normal. But if you lend & he did not refund, I can guarantee you that you will loose your friend.

Finical condition does not allow to look good or bad friends. Good friends may turned into bad friends even without your notice due to this lending/borrowing matters..

Finical condition does not allow to look good or bad friends. Good friends may turned into bad friends even without your notice due to this lending/borrowing matters..

But be aware of the situations..

But be aware of the situations..

Well you are so lucky that you have good payers, however it generally does not happens with all. Best of luck and thanks for your helping mind..

I agree but some cases you may not avoid like medical expenses etc

I am really sorry that i could not reply you earlier. You are absolutely right. Would you let us know what is that skill or how to deny friends.. i think it is very hard to deny a friend in practical. Anyway thanks for responding.

I am not talking about what you have but what you will do if you have money ? Will you lend it a Freind or not ? Thanks for responding..

Thanks for responding to such a old posting. You are right. Another evidence happened with me with this new year, 3-4 friends asked me for 04 tickets of a star hotel party on 31st Dec. As i was given them, but when after 15 days asked for money what he had told you would not believe & i am wirting this because, trust me, they all are very close to me & vanished over one night for matter of Few Thousand Rupees & i have spent 30 years with them to establish or maintain a relationship. If i would have deny for the tickets at that moment, they may be angry with me for the moments, but i would not have lost them. So now i lost money with my friends.

You are the real one. If this happens with ourselves then why it can not be with our friends. Thanks for replying..

Well friend, i think in these cases only prevention is better than cure.. Anyway we have to be very careful while giving money to others, because some cases we have to consider & we cann't say direct NO..

If you are going to take the donation, then it hardly matters. But if you are giving some money keeping in mind that you have to get it back and it fails, you could imagine the situation. There is a chance of loosing money & friend both.

I understand the gravity of money as well as best friends. This discussion i have started before two years i think, not exactly remebered. It already happend with me, till date i have to loose my one of the best friends by giving or taking money(not prefer to say what exactly). The result is our relation ruined. Later we can recover our money from any sources but never a best friend. Any thanks for replying.

I appreciate your friendlyness but when it comes to finincial term, it may be tough to handle..

Have not you feel that when it is time for them to return, they just do the opposite (may be due to their problem), causing troubles for yourself ?

You are quite OK i think.

Yaa, that's the right decission, but you really does not know how the things get changed when it comes to any financial issues. Just prevention is better than cure.

Good enough..

But never be sure that you will get all your money back. I am not most concerned about the money you will be get back or not, you may lost your friend also