BAREFACED.

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@Kandae11 (55174)
October 18, 2017 8:20am CST
Heard about this woman who fell out of love with her husband when she saw him barefaced (without his moustache) for the first time . According to her - he seemed like a stranger. During their eleven years of marriage, and before, she had never seen him without his well kept moustache -fortunately, her feelings gradually returned after he grew it back. Hard to imagine really - I mean, he is the same person she married . Obviously she was in love with his appearance - and his money. Would it upset you if your husband or long-time boyfriend shaved off his moustache? Do you think a moustache adds something to a man or detracts from his looks?
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• Valdosta, Georgia
18 Oct 17
I think it is the same person no matter how they look on the outside. Feel bad for their marriage when he gets gray hair or gains some weight as they age. None of the outer appearance matters to me, I'm in love with my husband no matter how he looks.
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@Kandae11 (55174)
18 Oct 17
You are right. What happens if he becomes overweight or some unexpected occurrence takes away his looks? Outward appearance is important yes - but it should never be the main attraction in any relationship.
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• Valdosta, Georgia
18 Oct 17
@Kandae11 After 11 years of marriage she should be over the looks aspect really. It's not like they are just starting out. My husband has part of a finger missing, he's gained 75 pounds since we married, he has some gray hair and I am more in love with him now than ever before.
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@Kandae11 (55174)
18 Oct 17
@LovingMyBabies That is true love.
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@kobesbuddy (78871)
• East Tawas, Michigan
9 Mar 18
Jay had a mustache before I married him. After we were together a while, he shaved it off and looked totally different. Of course, I didn't stop loving him, it was still Jay, except the mustache was gone!
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@kobesbuddy (78871)
• East Tawas, Michigan
9 Mar 18
@Kandae11 Then, he grew it back, which was no big deal:)
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@Kandae11 (55174)
9 Mar 18
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@Kandae11 (55174)
9 Mar 18
Yes indeed. It's the same Jay after the mustache is removed even though his appearance nay change a bit..
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@marguicha (223819)
• Chile
18 Oct 17
I remember a time when my husband tried to grow a moustache. I laughed at him, he looked so funny. He had fun with it during a vacation and then shaved it off.
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@Kandae11 (55174)
18 Oct 17
You met him and loved him before the moustache - something new or different can be a shock at first.
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@marguicha (223819)
• Chile
18 Oct 17
@Kandae11 I loved my husband´s generosity, among other things. That does not change.
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@Kandae11 (55174)
18 Oct 17
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• Eugene, Oregon
7 Feb 18
Hmm, not sure, but I have had mustache for many years. I shaved it once (before Anne) many years ago, and the space between my nose and upper lip looked like about five acres. My then small daughter did not like the look at all. I looked in the mirror a few times and started growing it back.
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• Eugene, Oregon
7 Feb 18
@Kandae11 Nor was I when I saw the exagerrated space on my lip.
@Kandae11 (55174)
7 Feb 18
Your daughter was not pleasantly surprised.
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@just4him (317245)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
18 Oct 17
Mine shaved his a month before we decided to get a divorce, but that wasn't why we divorced. It did take some getting used to seeing him without one when he vowed never to shave it off, and I had never, not even before we were married, seen him without it.
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@just4him (317245)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
18 Oct 17
@Kandae11 With. No, that wasn't his hope. He was getting ready for a changed lifestyle.
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@Kandae11 (55174)
18 Oct 17
Maybe he hoped that a change would result in an improved relationship . Do you think he looked better with or without?
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@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
18 Oct 17
I always like it when the boyfriend shaved his head and his mustache. I mean only the appearance changed but not the person exactly. It's weird why the woman fell out of love just like that.
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@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
18 Oct 17
@Kandae11 I guess so. You are right.
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@Kandae11 (55174)
18 Oct 17
There had to be anther reason - or she wasn't really in love in the first place.
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@SinfulRose (3527)
• Davao, Philippines
21 Oct 17
I wouldn't know how to answer that but if that woman felt that way, I wouldn't go straight to judging her. It's natural that she'd feel her husband seemed to be a stranger when she wasn't even used to seeing him without his mustache even before they married and there's a possibility that she had a strict code embedded within her subconsciousness that she can't love anyone but the man she married. She eventually fell back in love with him after the husband grew back his mustache, right? Then I guess her subconscious had recognized her husband in the man.
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@Kandae11 (55174)
25 Oct 17
The relationship was very strained after he grew it back - things were not exactly the same as before,
• Preston, England
18 Oct 17
seems a bizarre reason to go off anyone
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@Kandae11 (55174)
18 Oct 17
I totally agree.
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@LeaPea2417 (37381)
• Toccoa, Georgia
18 Oct 17
That is superficial love and doesn't seem like genuine love for her spouse.
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@Kandae11 (55174)
18 Oct 17
I doubt it. She cares only about outward appearances.
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@bluesa (15022)
• Johannesburg, South Africa
19 Oct 17
It depends, some men can look handsome with a beard or mustache, but some can look awful. I do prefer a clean shaven face though.
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@Kandae11 (55174)
25 Oct 17
You are right - it all depends on the person.
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@DianneN (247184)
• United States
19 Oct 17
My husband had a moustache when I met him and kept it for 25 years. I used to have nightmares of how he'd look without it. Once it was gone, I thought he looked much better and younger. Personally, I prefer clean shaven, but love how my two sons look with the new hair on face look.
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@Kandae11 (55174)
25 Oct 17
Your nightmares didn't materialise - great. Since you met him with the moustache it is understandable your apprehension about how he would look if he decided to shave it off.
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@ilocosboy (45156)
• Philippines
18 Oct 17
Is it the look that made the woman change her feelings or something more than that Well, we cannot deny some really change the look when mustache and beard is gone, so maybe the man can do it slowly and not drastically.
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@ilocosboy (45156)
• Philippines
18 Oct 17
yeah, and that is what we don't know
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@Kandae11 (55174)
18 Oct 17
It would have to be something else - in combination with his changed appearance.
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@responsiveme (22926)
• India
25 Oct 17
Ha-ha....This strikes home...When my hubby shaved off his mustache because grey hairs started showing...I kept on saying he looked like a stranger...Of course I didn't stop loving him...anywZy now the moustache is back
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@Kandae11 (55174)
25 Oct 17
It does make a difference.
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@nangayo (2290)
• Nairobi, Kenya
19 Oct 17
A mustache does not change anything. May be a hairy beard would change ones looks.
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@Kandae11 (55174)
19 Oct 17
A moustache depending on how large it is covers the top part of the upper lip - it would make a difference when removed.
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@amadeo (111938)
• United States
18 Oct 17
Mike had his beard for so long.I do not think he would look good now with it off. I do not want him to shaved it?
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@Kandae11 (55174)
18 Oct 17
Suppose he decides to?
@andriaperry (117146)
• Anniston, Alabama
18 Oct 17
My ex had a mustache , after he shaved it he was not as handsome and he grew it back.
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@Kandae11 (55174)
18 Oct 17
It would be easier if you knew him before he had it.