PEOPLE - THE LIKABLE AND NOT SO LIKABLE
By Kandase
@Kandae11 (55172)
October 24, 2017 8:50am CST
I like people, it's in my nature - but some people are very unlikable or hard to like.
Here is my short list of the kind of people I find hard to like and those I find likable .
Hard to like: (1) People who willfully commit criminal acts .
(2) Snobs and bigots
(3) People who show cruelty - mental and physically to others.
(4) People who penny-pinch even though they are enormously rich.
Those I find likable: (1) People with a sense of humor
(2) People with a positive outlook and who are also good listeners.
(3) Caring, sharing and tolerant.
(4) Those who show respect for their parents.
(5) Easygoing and slow to anger.
There is no perfect person of course, but just two or three of the above would go a long way. Do you have anything to add? Who do you find likable or unlikable.?
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28 responses
@andriaperry (117177)
• Anniston, Alabama
24 Oct 17
I like people who do not panic because of a mall problem.I really enjoy people who have common sense.
I do not like people who are jealous of what others have. I do not people who flaunt their education, its like if they have a degree and you do not, they try to make you feel stupid.
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@Bluedoll (16773)
• Canada
25 Oct 17
As it applies to social media specially on this site do you see that kind of thing going on where people are made to feel stupid. I've been called a moron does that count? I think that might not be the same as you meant Andria.
Short list Kadase 
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@snowy22315 (182462)
• United States
24 Oct 17
I like people who are pleasant to be around and are interesting. I don't like people who constantly use bad language and are coarse in their speech patterns.
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@snowy22315 (182462)
• United States
24 Oct 17
@Kandae11 It's disrespectful, especially if the other person doesn't like it.
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@crossbones27 (49721)
• Mojave, California
25 Oct 17
I think you half like me and half dislike me according to that list. Well, probably like more than dislike. 7 out of 9 is not bad. I am passable. 
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@crossbones27 (49721)
• Mojave, California
25 Oct 17
@Kandae11 I could tell you, or you can guess. You decide.
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@Kandae11 (55172)
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25 Oct 17
@crossbones27 Okay lets see. (1) You are not slow to anger (2) Your outlook isn't positive and you are not a good listener - I hope I guessed right.
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@1creekgirl (41785)
• United States
24 Oct 17
I also like people who are real, they don't brag or try to appear richer, smarter, or more talented than others. Your list pretty much sums up my feelings Thanks!
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@ilocosboy (45156)
• Philippines
24 Oct 17
Unlikable people are those who make gossips, likable people are those influence you to do better. Likable people are giving away money and goods, unlikable are people who don't care other people.
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@ilocosboy (45156)
• Philippines
24 Oct 17
and because of that they are one of the unlikable people
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@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
24 Oct 17
I cannot say I like the person right away, of course, it needs to be done like two to three times of being together or at least surrounded by other people. The first time will be my observing time and the second will be the getting along time. I like people who can accept me.
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@Bluedoll (16773)
• Canada
25 Oct 17
Nicely written. 
It made me think though who would ever say, oh, I like people that commit crime? Another criminal? I've know people who penny pinch and think to myself that is why they are rich? I'm not sure if that is true? What do you think, I don't know.
It made me think though who would ever say, oh, I like people that commit crime? Another criminal? I've know people who penny pinch and think to myself that is why they are rich? I'm not sure if that is true? What do you think, I don't know.1 person likes this
@Kandae11 (55172)
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25 Oct 17
Some people who commit certain crimes convince themselves that they are not committing a crime. I suppose that type of criminal would feel more affinity with others of the same ilk. I am not saying the rich should give away what they have. What I am saying is life is short , and if one has more money than one can use in a life time, enjoy it and don't hoard - when you die it will be left right here for someone else to enjoy.
@antonbunot (11093)
• Calgary, Alberta
24 Oct 17
Thank Heavens, there is only one who hates me in my last post . . . hahaha . . By the way, I think I have the so-called sense of humor and I believe I am easy-going . . but I don't shy away from going against people who got "one-way" thinking . . . . like the one who flared up in my last post. . . 
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@antonbunot (11093)
• Calgary, Alberta
25 Oct 17
@Kandae11 That is right! And what to do to one who goes nasty responding . . I say ADIOS!
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@Marilynda1225 (83150)
• United States
24 Oct 17
I agree with your list of likable characteristics and I'm drawn to people who have a sense of humor and look on the bright side.
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@JamesHxstatic (29413)
• Eugene, Oregon
24 Oct 17
Your list covers it well. Being able to laugh at yourself makes life easier.
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@DianneN (247184)
• United States
24 Oct 17
Great list! I don't like oddballs, phonies, slobs, gossips, whiners, liars, cheats, dullards, or bores. I like vivacious, witty, kind, compassionate, trustworthy, socially conscious, and intelligent people with personality. I can go on and on with both lists. lol
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@fishtiger58 (29820)
• Momence, Illinois
25 Oct 17
I love people who can laugh even thought things may be going wrong in their life. We as humans can't possibly like every one who crosses our path, that's for sure.
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@fishtiger58 (29820)
• Momence, Illinois
26 Oct 17
@Kandae11 we are all imperfect humans, we must have tolerance, or at the very least stay far far away from those who irritate us.
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@Daljinder (23236)
• Bangalore, India
24 Oct 17
You can ask people around here how likeable or unlikeable I am. 
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@Daljinder (23236)
• Bangalore, India
25 Oct 17
@Kandae11 What can you do? Force them to like you? 
smh! No, you can't 
It doesn't bother me. But if they are not open to clear the air then it's like banging your head against a wall. That does bother me! Not for me but for that person. It is not a way to live. You have to be open, receptive and appreciative of different opinions.
smh! No, you can't It doesn't bother me. But if they are not open to clear the air then it's like banging your head against a wall. That does bother me! Not for me but for that person. It is not a way to live. You have to be open, receptive and appreciative of different opinions.1 person likes this
@Kandae11 (55172)
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25 Oct 17
@Daljinder That's the way it should be, but that is not the way it is. People's opinions will always clash , that is why in order to keep the peace - some topics are avoided.
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@dpk262006 (58678)
• Delhi, India
25 Oct 17
I would like to go with your list, yet we may not find all the likable traits in a single person.
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@dpk262006 (58678)
• Delhi, India
26 Oct 17
@Kandae11 Which two of the five, you would like to choose.
@1hopefulman (45120)
• Canada
26 Oct 17
I like your list and I can't think of anything to add.
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