mLot guidelines: I have a question about honest discussions

@1creekgirl (41382)
United States
October 28, 2017 5:14pm CST
A member wrote a post saying that the photo he used was his grandmother. Another member had just used the same photo and wrote that she was a famous actress in India. I asked the other guy if his grandmother was an Indian actress and he admitted that his post was a lie and would I keep his secret. Huh? I reported it, but it's still there. My question is, "Is it against myLot guidelines to lie about a story?" I would have no problem if he had just said, "Isn't she lovely? Reminds me of my grandmother." I can't abide a liar. But is it against the rules here?
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@jaboUK (64354)
• United Kingdom
29 Oct 17
That's not only dishonest, it's stupid.
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@1creekgirl (41382)
• United States
29 Oct 17
That's what JJ said!
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@TheHorse (218414)
• Walnut Creek, California
29 Oct 17
I agree.
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@owlwings (43910)
• Cambridge, England
29 Oct 17
There is nothing in the Guidelines which says that a person must be truthful but the Terms do prohibit content which "promotes information that you know is false or misleading". I remember the guy that @pgntwo mentioned. He became less and less believable as time went on and I think that I eventually searched for and found where he was getting the images (which were copyright, of course). I don't know exactly on what count(s) he was kicked out but I certainly messaged Alex about his use of coyright photos and pointed out his deception. I think that most people, including Admin, would take a very dim view of anyone persistently trying to deceive people! Not the kind of person we want here!
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@owlwings (43910)
• Cambridge, England
29 Oct 17
@pgntwo Somehow being a bored flight attendant seems vastly more sexy than being a bored second-hand bookseller. Chance would have been a fine thing but those employment profiling questionnaires never suggested that. Forestry was one of the professions they kept coming up with but the nearest I got to it was selling the final product! I wonder when and why the home country (Britain in particular) became known as "Blighty"?
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@sjvg1976 (41281)
• Delhi, India
29 Oct 17
Even I think the same. There is nothing in the guidelines that one has to write truth although copying images or content here is against the rules.
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@pgntwo (22408)
• Derry, Northern Ireland
29 Oct 17
It takes all sorts, @owlwings - for all I know, you might be a bored flight steward, sitting in the lobby of a hotel somewhere exotic, awaiting the crew bus to the local airport for your 14-hour tour of duty back to Blighty...
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@marguicha (222720)
• Chile
29 Oct 17
Unfortunatly, we cannot say why we report something
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@marguicha (222720)
• Chile
29 Oct 17
@1creekgirl I suppose we could if we wrote a mail to GoAsk Alice. ut it should be easier.
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• Philippines
29 Oct 17
@marguicha @1creekgirl in the old mylot, yes, there was a box that shows up so you can state the reason, or give a link to the original article. since we no longer have it in this new mylot, you can send a pm to admin/goaskalice and give the link to the post you find questionable and state your reason
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@1creekgirl (41382)
• United States
29 Oct 17
Yes, we should be able to explain why we reported someone.
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@pgntwo (22408)
• Derry, Northern Ireland
28 Oct 17
I am sure I could spin several different stories around the same picture, should I be so inclined... Not sure if the Guidelines forbid it - we had a guy here who spun amazing stories around the pics he got elsewhere... Usually implying how he had all these lovely young girls who just adored his company... As if!
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@pgntwo (22408)
• Derry, Northern Ireland
29 Oct 17
@1creekgirl I think you are right.
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@1creekgirl (41382)
• United States
29 Oct 17
I remember him, never believed him, think he got kicked out.
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@JudyEv (339355)
• Rockingham, Australia
29 Oct 17
I can't answer the question but if I found out a member was lying in this way I wouldn't be reading any more of his stuff - ever.
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@owlwings (43910)
• Cambridge, England
30 Oct 17
@1creekgirl I posted and THEN blocked him! He can't see my response or delete it!
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@1creekgirl (41382)
• United States
29 Oct 17
Same here. I've blocked him.
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@TheHorse (218414)
• Walnut Creek, California
29 Oct 17
You mean you believe I actually teach Psychology in California? Buwaahaahaa!
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@Kandae11 (54986)
28 Oct 17
This is the internet - he should have known that he could get caught - especially when this site has so many members from his country.
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@1creekgirl (41382)
• United States
28 Oct 17
It was almost funny because the other post was close to his. And he had the nerve to want me to keep his secret.
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@patgalca (18358)
• Orangeville, Ontario
29 Oct 17
That's on the lower end of identity theft. That's how it gets started though. He shouldn't have put off a picture of someone else as his grandmother. Is it against guidelines? Probably not.
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@1creekgirl (41382)
• United States
29 Oct 17
I think it should be against the guidelines.
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@m_audrey6788 (58472)
• Germany
28 Oct 17
Oh I think, I respond to that discussion of the liar and I responded that her grandmother looks like an actress
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@1creekgirl (41382)
• United States
28 Oct 17
Yes, he got a lot of comments.
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• Germany
28 Oct 17
@1creekgirl I`m not so sure about false stories here too much because I know that you must post what`s in your mind
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@1creekgirl (41382)
• United States
28 Oct 17
@m_audrey6788 Everyone writes little flights of fancy, but this was an outright lie.
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• United States
29 Oct 17
I do not know about lying in a post, but I do believe that pictures are covered by copywright rules so you should give proper credit.
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@1creekgirl (41382)
• United States
29 Oct 17
That's true.
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@mysdianait (66009)
• Italy
29 Oct 17
My foto is me me taken on a very sunny day
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@mysdianait (66009)
• Italy
29 Oct 17
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@1creekgirl (41382)
• United States
29 Oct 17
That's hilarious!
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@Hatley (163776)
• Garden Grove, California
28 Oct 17
ye it is i eing is always wrong darn whats with people canboit ayone just tell the truth?
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@1creekgirl (41382)
• United States
28 Oct 17
All he had to do was say it was fiction.
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@sjvg1976 (41281)
• Delhi, India
29 Oct 17
On any site copying an image is against the rules. I don't know why the image on that post was not deleted.
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• Germany
29 Oct 17
@sjvg1976 I think some are not aware on how because I also did forget to indicate it in my discussion box as I was thinking that when you already indicated it at the lower box where you were asked about the photos ownership will automatically appear but it didn`t appear so I corrected my post on my newly posts
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• Germany
29 Oct 17
Copying an image is not against the rules as long as you don`t forget to mention where you got the images you post
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@sjvg1976 (41281)
• Delhi, India
29 Oct 17
@m_audrey6788 but people normally don't mention the source from where they take the pics.
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@just4him (317040)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
29 Oct 17
No, I don't think so because the post wasn't plagiarized. He just lied about the picture. That would irritate me as well.
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@kobesbuddy (78882)
• East Tawas, Michigan
29 Oct 17
It should be against the rules! Lying is a terrible habit, we shouldn't have to deal with on My Lot!
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@1creekgirl (41382)
• United States
29 Oct 17
There's just a difference when we write a short work of fiction and everyone knows that's what it is and deliberately telling a lie in order to profit.
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@1creekgirl (41382)
• United States
29 Oct 17
@kobesbuddy I agree
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@kobesbuddy (78882)
• East Tawas, Michigan
29 Oct 17
@1creekgirl A lie is uncalled for, it's deceitful. Fiction is make believe and it's something most of us enjoy reading!
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@Bluedoll (16773)
• Canada
28 Oct 17
I'm not sure about the rules aspect but for sure it is something that can get out of hand. It doesn't seem fair if the story is asking for help or empathy from the reader. Fiction or non-fiction changes everything.
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@1creekgirl (41382)
• United States
29 Oct 17
It was just so dishonest and he asked me to keep it a secret! Like anyone couldn't read his comments!
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@Bluedoll (16773)
• Canada
29 Oct 17
@1creekgirl I wonder if it was humor or simply not caring on their part. I mean not caring from the standpoint of not being serious. I remember a long time ago when I was answering questions on yahoo some people would do the same thing. It was all sillyness.
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@Juliaacv (51022)
• Canada
29 Oct 17
I do not think that it violates the guidelines to lie, but it will not take long before people are wise to this and stop interacting with that person. I would think that they are dooming themselves by doing that.
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@1creekgirl (41382)
• United States
29 Oct 17
I think you're right about that. There's another member who would post, but then never interacted with any of the comments or responses. I think he's doing better now.
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@TheHorse (218414)
• Walnut Creek, California
29 Oct 17
That's a good question. I'd think a chronic liar would fade into obscurity anyway.
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@1creekgirl (41382)
• United States
29 Oct 17
I think people will be wise to him. Ot maybe he'll do better.
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@1creekgirl (41382)
• United States
30 Oct 17
@TheHorse I believe they can when it's in their best interest. But depends on what they're trying to change.
@TheHorse (218414)
• Walnut Creek, California
29 Oct 17
@1creekgirl Do people really change?
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@fishtiger58 (29820)
• Momence, Illinois
29 Oct 17
I haven't seen a rule about lying, I wouldn't do it but I suppose some do
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@1creekgirl (41382)
• United States
29 Oct 17
@JolietJake Sometimes you just have to call it like it is.
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@fishtiger58 (29820)
• Momence, Illinois
29 Oct 17
@JolietJake Yup you are a pretty charming guy lol,
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@fishtiger58 (29820)
• Momence, Illinois
29 Oct 17
@1creekgirl Sad but true
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@YrNemo (20255)
29 Oct 17
Hilarious (re: that member used a famous Indian actress' photo and said she was his grandma)! Why should he do that silly thing I wonder!
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@1creekgirl (41382)
• United States
29 Oct 17
He wanted to be able to write a post about his beautiful grandmother, I guess.
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@YrNemo (20255)
30 Oct 17
@1creekgirl You could be right... Hope he has learned the lesson.
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• Delhi, India
29 Oct 17
I don’t think so but its fine if you report it. I just got curious about that grandma actress. Who was she?
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@1creekgirl (41382)
• United States
29 Oct 17
I don't remember her name (and wouldn't have known who she was), but another member wrote a post about her at almost the same time.
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• India
29 Oct 17
hahahahaa me too.. coz of famous Indian actress! Okh yeah wanna know who is she :D