mLot guidelines: I have a question about honest discussions
@1creekgirl (41427)
United States
October 28, 2017 5:14pm CST
A member wrote a post saying that the photo he used was his grandmother. Another member had just used the same photo and wrote that she was a famous actress in India. I asked the other guy if his grandmother was an Indian actress and he admitted that his post was a lie and would I keep his secret.
Huh?
I reported it, but it's still there. My question is, "Is it against myLot guidelines to lie about a story?"
I would have no problem if he had just said, "Isn't she lovely? Reminds me of my grandmother."
I can't abide a liar. But is it against the rules here?
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@owlwings (43910)
• Cambridge, England
29 Oct 17
There is nothing in the Guidelines which says that a person must be truthful but the Terms do prohibit content which "promotes information that you know is false or misleading".
I remember the guy that @pgntwo mentioned. He became less and less believable as time went on and I think that I eventually searched for and found where he was getting the images (which were copyright, of course). I don't know exactly on what count(s) he was kicked out but I certainly messaged Alex about his use of coyright photos and pointed out his deception. I think that most people, including Admin, would take a very dim view of anyone persistently trying to deceive people! Not the kind of person we want here!
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@owlwings (43910)
• Cambridge, England
29 Oct 17
@pgntwo Somehow being a bored flight attendant seems vastly more sexy than being a bored second-hand bookseller. Chance would have been a fine thing but those employment profiling questionnaires never suggested that. Forestry was one of the professions they kept coming up with but the nearest I got to it was selling the final product!
I wonder when and why the home country (Britain in particular) became known as "Blighty"?
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@marguicha (223010)
• Chile
29 Oct 17
Unfortunatly, we cannot say why we report something
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@marguicha (223010)
• Chile
29 Oct 17
@1creekgirl I suppose we could if we wrote a mail to GoAsk Alice. ut it should be easier.
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@hereandthere (45645)
• Philippines
29 Oct 17
@marguicha @1creekgirl in the old mylot, yes, there was a box that shows up so you can state the reason, or give a link to the original article. since we no longer have it in this new mylot, you can send a pm to admin/goaskalice and give the link to the post you find questionable and state your reason
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@1creekgirl (41427)
• United States
29 Oct 17
Yes, we should be able to explain why we reported someone.
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@pgntwo (22408)
• Derry, Northern Ireland
28 Oct 17
I am sure I could spin several different stories around the same picture, should I be so inclined...
Not sure if the Guidelines forbid it - we had a guy here who spun amazing stories around the pics he got elsewhere... Usually implying how he had all these lovely young girls who just adored his company... As if!
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@pgntwo (22408)
• Derry, Northern Ireland
29 Oct 17
@1creekgirl I think you are right.
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@1creekgirl (41427)
• United States
29 Oct 17
I remember him, never believed him, think he got kicked out.
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@owlwings (43910)
• Cambridge, England
30 Oct 17
@1creekgirl I posted and THEN blocked him! He can't see my response or delete it!
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@1creekgirl (41427)
• United States
28 Oct 17
It was almost funny because the other post was close to his. And he had the nerve to want me to keep his secret.
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@1creekgirl (41427)
• United States
29 Oct 17
I think it should be against the guidelines.
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@m_audrey6788 (58472)
• Germany
28 Oct 17
Oh I think, I respond to that discussion of the liar and I responded that her grandmother looks like an actress
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@m_audrey6788 (58472)
• Germany
28 Oct 17
@1creekgirl I`m not so sure about false stories here too much because I know that you must post what`s in your mind
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@1creekgirl (41427)
• United States
28 Oct 17
@m_audrey6788 Everyone writes little flights of fancy, but this was an outright lie.
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@sumofalltears (3988)
• United States
29 Oct 17
I do not know about lying in a post, but I do believe that pictures are covered by copywright rules so you should give proper credit.
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@1creekgirl (41427)
• United States
28 Oct 17
All he had to do was say it was fiction.
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@m_audrey6788 (58472)
• Germany
29 Oct 17
@sjvg1976 I think some are not aware on how because I also did forget to indicate it in my discussion box as I was thinking that when you already indicated it at the lower box where you were asked about the photos ownership will automatically appear but it didn`t appear so I corrected my post on my newly posts
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@m_audrey6788 (58472)
• Germany
29 Oct 17
Copying an image is not against the rules as long as you don`t forget to mention where you got the images you post
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@sjvg1976 (41281)
• Delhi, India
29 Oct 17
@m_audrey6788 but people normally don't mention the source from where they take the pics.
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@kobesbuddy (78882)
• East Tawas, Michigan
29 Oct 17
It should be against the rules! Lying is a terrible habit, we shouldn't have to deal with on My Lot!
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@1creekgirl (41427)
• United States
29 Oct 17
There's just a difference when we write a short work of fiction and everyone knows that's what it is and deliberately telling a lie in order to profit.
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@kobesbuddy (78882)
• East Tawas, Michigan
29 Oct 17
@1creekgirl A lie is uncalled for, it's deceitful.
Fiction is make believe and it's something most of us enjoy reading!
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@1creekgirl (41427)
• United States
29 Oct 17
It was just so dishonest and he asked me to keep it a secret! Like anyone couldn't read his comments!
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@Bluedoll (16773)
• Canada
29 Oct 17
@1creekgirl I wonder if it was humor or simply not caring on their part. I mean not caring from the standpoint of not being serious. I remember a long time ago when I was answering questions on yahoo some people would do the same thing. It was all sillyness.
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@1creekgirl (41427)
• United States
29 Oct 17
I think you're right about that. There's another member who would post, but then never interacted with any of the comments or responses. I think he's doing better now.
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@1creekgirl (41427)
• United States
29 Oct 17
I think people will be wise to him. Ot maybe he'll do better.
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@1creekgirl (41427)
• United States
30 Oct 17
@TheHorse I believe they can when it's in their best interest. But depends on what they're trying to change.
@TheHorse (218842)
• Walnut Creek, California
29 Oct 17
@1creekgirl Do people really change?
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@fishtiger58 (29820)
• Momence, Illinois
29 Oct 17
I haven't seen a rule about lying, I wouldn't do it but I suppose some do
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@1creekgirl (41427)
• United States
29 Oct 17
@JolietJake Sometimes you just have to call it like it is.
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@fishtiger58 (29820)
• Momence, Illinois
29 Oct 17
@JolietJake Yup you are a pretty charming guy lol,
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@1creekgirl (41427)
• United States
29 Oct 17
He wanted to be able to write a post about his beautiful grandmother, I guess.
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@YrNemo (20255)
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30 Oct 17
@1creekgirl You could be right... Hope he has learned the lesson.
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@hazydaiscrazy (215)
• Delhi, India
29 Oct 17
I don’t think so but its fine if you report it.
I just got curious about that grandma actress. Who was she?
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@1creekgirl (41427)
• United States
29 Oct 17
I don't remember her name (and wouldn't have known who she was), but another member wrote a post about her at almost the same time.
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@mydiarylot (11)
• India
29 Oct 17
hahahahaa me too.. coz of famous Indian actress! Okh yeah wanna know who is she :D