DREAM WEDDING.
By Kandase
@Kandae11 (54986)
November 3, 2017 1:18pm CST
Was your wedding your dream wedding? I cannot say mine was, simply because most of the planning was done by my husband -to-be - including choosing my dress.
So what was your wedding like ? was it large, small, extravagant? Did everything go according to plan - no hitches?
And for those planning to get married in the near future - what kind of wedding would be your dream wedding?
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24 responses
@TiarasOceanView (70022)
• United States
3 Nov 17
I have had a few weddings and none of them was my dream wedding..I no longer dream.
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@much2say (55514)
• Los Angeles, California
3 Nov 17
Growing up, I thought I would never find someone to marry 
. . . so I never even dreamed of the perfect wedding! Hubby and I were together since we were 18 - got married at 32. We made it cost effective 
. We had a beautiful family ceremony on an island, overlooking the bay, with only immediate family and 2 close friends. A few months after that, we had the obligatory reception for the rest of the family and friends (it was at an already buffet place - again cost effective ) with about 120 people. Like I said, I was honestly not too concerned about having a dream wedding . . . I was just happy to have someone in my life 
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. . . so I never even dreamed of the perfect wedding! Hubby and I were together since we were 18 - got married at 32. We made it cost effective . We had a beautiful family ceremony on an island, overlooking the bay, with only immediate family and 2 close friends. A few months after that, we had the obligatory reception for the rest of the family and friends (it was at an already buffet place - again cost effective ) with about 120 people. Like I said, I was honestly not too concerned about having a dream wedding . . . I was just happy to have someone in my life .2 people like this
@renicemae (4883)
• Philippines
25 Nov 17
@Kandae11 You're absolutely right there friend
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@LeaPea2417 (37350)
• Toccoa, Georgia
4 Nov 17
My husband and I eloped. There are a lot of details as to why we could not have a dream wedding.
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@LeaPea2417 (37350)
• Toccoa, Georgia
4 Nov 17
@Kandae11 It is hard to explain but I had certain relatives that were so bossy, if we did have a big wedding, they would have told us where and how we were to have it. My husband & I would have had no say so as to how we would have wanted it. So, that is why we felt we had no choice but to elope.
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@RasmaSandra (79649)
• Daytona Beach, Florida
3 Nov 17
My first marriage back in the states wasn't something my mom wanted and we got married at the pastors with no special wedding. Here in Latvia me and my husband just mutually agreed to be together so no second wedding either and now I am all on my own. Lovely photo.
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@RasmaSandra (79649)
• Daytona Beach, Florida
3 Nov 17
@Kandae11 it was not a very successful marriage but I still had to go through it. Who knew it would not work out.
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@just4him (317040)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
3 Nov 17
No, mine wasn't a dream wedding. I'm sorry yours was planned for you including your dress, that doesn't sound right, but you're out of that relationship, so that's a good thing. I haven't given my wedding a thought in many years. I don't know if I'll ever get married again, though I would like to.
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@crossbones27 (49386)
• Mojave, California
4 Nov 17
I pissed every lady off last and only wedding I went to. Call me a liberal hippy again because there is no romance in this body. Was amazing how i hated it and was amazing how quick the women workers become upset with me.
I am quiet and said maybe two sentences like never getting married swear they took it so personal. Then might of said, why so mad, you not marrying me. Should be happy not marring me 
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@crossbones27 (49386)
• Mojave, California
4 Nov 17
@Kandae11 I tried hard, thought about it and some reason cannot stop laughing. You are right, but I think I am still thinking. Financial reasons, sad to say, How this world does. Could be why no romance in this body, Hate that its like that.
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@Kandae11 (54986)
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4 Nov 17
Not that you mentioned it before, but from what I gathered from your posts, I just know you are not the marrying kind.
However, one never knows what the future holds, a lady may come along - sweep you off your feet and change you into the marrying kind.
However, one never knows what the future holds, a lady may come along - sweep you off your feet and change you into the marrying kind.1 person likes this
@Kandae11 (54986)
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4 Nov 17
@crossbones27 Someone might love you even if you wore patched pants and not a penny to your name.
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@andriaperry (116936)
• Anniston, Alabama
4 Nov 17
Nope dream wedding. Don`t think I will ever have another.
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@responsiveme (22926)
• India
4 Nov 17
H.mmm...A wedding here is more or less hijacked by the two families. But since I was marrying the person I wanted to, I went along with the flow...And while it was fun certainly not a wild extravaganza
. But since I was marrying the person I wanted to, I went along with the flow...And while it was fun certainly not a wild extravaganza2 people like this
@1hopefulman (45120)
• Canada
4 Nov 17
Both weddings were dream weddings to me. Everything was amazing. The only sad thing was that they did not last forever. Had either stayed faithful, I would still be married as I believe that anything can be worked out if both parties desire it.
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@Happy2BeMe (99380)
• Canada
4 Nov 17
My first marriage I had a nice wedding, it was medium sized with all my family and friends. It was the perfect day. I walked down the aisle with so many hopes and dreams, the only thing was I married the wrong man. Next time it will be with the man I love and it will be a small intimate affair with a party for family and friends.
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@nicole1987 (20)
• Pretoria, South Africa
25 Nov 17
I'm getting married next and it's my fiancé's second wedding so he said I can do as I please......I just want everyone to have fun with me on that day......all that must go right is exchanging of vowels and great music ....food and drinks.....lol
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