What to do when unexpected guests come to your home.
By Sanjeev
@sjvg1976 (41281)
Delhi, India
December 2, 2017 11:15pm CST
We were planning to go out with the kids but had to cancel it as some guests are coming to our home.
It's upsetting as we had made a plan long back and now have to postpone it. Situation is such that I can't avoid the guests also.
What would you do in such situation?
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21 responses
@vandana7 (100282)
• India
3 Dec 17
I think we Indians need to learn some manners. Now, with cell phones and everything, the least people can do is, call up, find out if the person has other plans, and then ask if it would be ok to visit. It is not necessary that a person staying home does not have anything to do.
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@Courtlynn (67085)
• United States
3 Dec 17
I wouldn't cancel unless it's an emergency visit, which it doesn't sound like it is
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@Courtlynn (67085)
• United States
3 Dec 17
@sjvg1976 that's their problem not yours. They should've called and made plans first. I would never cancel plans with my family because others want to be rude and inconsiderate
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@allknowing (136446)
• India
3 Dec 17
It never happens atleast with us. As we always inform each other well in advance.
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@allknowing (136446)
• India
3 Dec 17
@sjvg1976 There could be situations when due t some urgency we may suddenly turn up. You are not talking of such instances I presume. With some it is a habit and I am sure you are referring to such cases.
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@sjvg1976 (41281)
• Delhi, India
3 Dec 17
@allknowing no it was not an urgency. As my sis in law had to come so had to cancel my plan.
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@ridingbet (66854)
• Philippines
3 Dec 17
hahah! i don't think we won't have visitors. it is because we have many dogs that bark at strangers.
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@ridingbet (66854)
• Philippines
4 Dec 17
@sjvg1976 they are scared, because the barks of the dogs are 'ferocious'. but they are trained not to bite once we call out their names.
@kiran8 (15348)
• Mangalore, India
4 Dec 17
This always happens with me and for those who come from far off placed I have no go but to accommodate them. I keep telling my relatives and friends to call me so that I am at home and free to receive them. Some f them.do when they are already close to my home , but most of friends call before coming. I feel that relatives tend to take you for granted and often feel it is ones duty to he hospitable no matter when and how they land up .
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@toniganzon (72281)
• Philippines
3 Dec 17
If the visit is from an important person who also values our importance then it’s best to cancel the trip.
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@shivamani10 (11035)
• Hyderabad, India
3 Dec 17
Immediately, I switch off my T.V and receive my guest. This is what most of the people lacking nowadays. They keep it on and will be seeing the T.V after receiving the guest after a formal chat.This should never be there.I will ask my guest also whether he is interested in the programme on the t.V or not.If he is not I switch it off. If he ask for T.V I will definitely switch it on.
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@andriaperry (116936)
• Anniston, Alabama
4 Dec 17
If I have plans I do not answer the phone and just go, let the machine get the message.
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@ilocosboy (45156)
• Philippines
3 Dec 17
I don't know about the tradition in your place but you should have told it your guest that you are going for a vacation.
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@peachpurple (13962)
• Malaysia
3 Dec 17
I hate that, but you can't shoo them away, right?
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@rubyriaz007 (4188)
• India
3 Dec 17
I think if it is a weekend and any of our guests have plans to visit us ,they should give us a call and ask if we have any plans for weekend as they are planning to visit us. If we have plans we can tell them that and they can avoid their visit.
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@misunderstood_zombie (8142)
• United States
3 Dec 17
I would politely tell them no, but I understand that sometimes this isn't an option.
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