Following and Followers here on mylot issues.
By Djhoanna li
@Friendlypink (3805)
December 21, 2017 8:33am CST
good evening everyone,
I am just wondering how you feel about the people that you follow here on mylot and don't follow you back. does that mean that they are not interested on you? or they just don't care?
It is just a bit sad. It feels like they don't want to make friends or something.
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@marlina (154131)
• Canada
21 Dec 17
@Friendlypink Following does not mean that much if they never do anything.
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@Friendlypink (3805)
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21 Dec 17
I agree, the only thing is if they will follow back. but it is still their option. no commitment tho. it doesn't mean that if a person follows you then you will follow back. But I am still hoping for them to follow me back and be friends. It is one of my goals this year.
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@Letranknight2015 (51957)
• Philippines
21 Dec 17
Why does it concern you? maybe they are busy and probably it's their right whether they want to follow you or not? it's not really an obligation perse.
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@Friendlypink (3805)
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21 Dec 17
I understand that but I am really expecting that they will follow back tho, ha ha
I really wanted to have lots of friends here on mylot, it is one of my goals this year tho.
I will just wait then. lol
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@Letranknight2015 (51957)
• Philippines
21 Dec 17
@Friendlypink back then it was friends list before they change it to followers list.
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@PainsOnSlate (21852)
• Canada
21 Dec 17
@Friendlypink Interaction is the only way to get "friends" so many who join just like someone and think that is all they need to do...but if you read and comment, there is a good chance you will see them on one of your posts. The more you comment, the more comments you will get...
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@Friendlypink (3805)
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21 Dec 17
yeah I guess it also count, but i hope tho that they follow me too and be friends with me as well. hey you have a nice day ahead and thanks for stopping by.
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@peachpurple (13962)
• Malaysia
21 Dec 17
I don't take much notice of that. Just interact those regulars
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@Friendlypink (3805)
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22 Dec 17
I will, it is one of my goal.
Hey you take care and enjoy the rest of your day.
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@pitsipeahie (5015)
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21 Dec 17
I don't feel anything because I don't expect people to follow me back just because I followed them.
Your reasons are just your presumptions, it is not known for certain why those you follow doesn't follow you back.
People have their own reasons for choosing to follow someone.
I myself follows only those I like and not because they follow me. Nothing personal, return of follows whatsoever.
That's just how it is for me. Just plainly a matter of who I'd like to follow because I like how they interact in myLot, their thoughts and sense reflected in the way they comment, respond and post discussions.
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@Friendlypink (3805)
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21 Dec 17
I agree with you, maybe I am just trying so hard to have a lot of friends right in an instant. Hey thanks for stopping by and you have a nice day ahead.
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@pitsipeahie (5015)
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21 Dec 17
@Friendlypink Don't think too much about it. Just do your thing here, enjoy and soon you'll have lots of friends.
Have a nice day ahead too!
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@PainsOnSlate (21852)
• Canada
21 Dec 17
All I can tell you is if anyone reads and comments on my stories, I return the favor by doing the same to their stories, I'm not here all day but I do make sure I return every favor someone leaves on my posts. Its called interaction.. You can't make money by writing 4 or 5 stories a day because no one is going to read them, if you comment someones work (unless they are new and don't know how this works,) its called interaction going on with others - and that is how you make money...
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@Daljinder (23236)
• Bangalore, India
21 Dec 17
No, it doesn't mean that they are not interested in you. You follow them so you can see their posts under "Follows" to keep up with them. The one you followed will be able to send you a suggestion posts if he/she wishes to. It is not like friendship request.
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@Raj7779 (3657)
• Canada
27 Mar 18
Its free to follow here but when I follow someone here and they don't follow back then I feel like they are not interested in me I mean in my posts or behaviour
@Scrapper88 (5983)
• United States
21 Dec 17
I usually wait until somebody follows me and then I follow them back.
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@Friendlypink (3805)
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21 Dec 17
i wanted to have a lot of friends here on mylot, maybe that is why I am making the first move. but non of them follow me back but I hope they will someday.
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@NeverGiveUp30 (209)
• Quezon City, Philippines
21 Dec 17
maybe, or they just do not notice
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@Friendlypink (3805)
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21 Dec 17
I guess so, but it is okay. no biggie.
I will just try and follow other users and maybe they follow back and so that I can accomplish one of my goals here on mylot, aside from earning $10 a month I also want to have tons and tons of friends. Hey I will follow you then ha ha.
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@NeverGiveUp30 (209)
• Quezon City, Philippines
21 Dec 17
@Friendlypink hehe. Thank u
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