am i wrong??

I am a grandmother and I would never act that way.

Most grandmothers are like that. You have to be patient with her.

I hope she is not having a bad day. I think you can try to ask how the bathroom be cleaned up.

It sounds like she's very controlling and particular about how things are done in the household. Perhaps it's time to start considering other living arrangements. She doesn't sound like a pleasant person to share a home with.

We need to be patient with the elderly. My grandmother and mother used to nag me all the time even when I have done things right. I will just brush it off. In fact, pretty immune to it now.

You are not wrong.This is a common problem.

What is wrong for one person might be right another so it's really hard to say. I think depending on the situation I would do the cleaning well but restrict her access to the bathroom (unless she needs to use it) while cleaning it and I would tell her I didn't want to listen any more to her complaining now that I understand what she wants. Many older people get cranky and they know it. I told a family member once I wanted joyful visits and if they continued to complain about me I would simply stop visiting. I also told them I loved them but needed some peace. They understood and stopped. How's life in the Bronx these days?

maybe you can do it while she's out or sleeping.

You just need to have more patience for your grandma, sometimes elders tend to have a lot of mood swings because of hormonal imbalance, and also try to check also if you are really cleaning ever thing the right way or maybe you just need to improve on that area. Don't stress yourself too much, and try to listen to some of your favorite music it can relax you tho. and put you in a better mood.

Oh there is always problem in the house. You should be patient and ignore what she says in that case! I think that would help a lot!