“What's an important lesson you have learned recently or in the past?”
By Shavkat
@Shavkat (139942)
Philippines
December 22, 2017 6:50pm CST
Being connected to people, we learned something from being with them. Sometimes we forget to know them first before building a good relationship. There are times that we thought that these people are considered ‘back fighter.’ ‘Can we blame ourselves for building a friendship with them?’ I think it happens for a reason. It is how we know ourselves better and learns from knowing their real persona. Thus, we still need to be sensitive enough to trust people before building a good relationship with them.
“Are there any friends of yours betrayed you?”
“Do you trust a person that easily?”
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11 responses
@prashu228 (37524)
• India
23 Dec 17
I stopped believing after seeing the true colors of some friends, it's better to be far from such people.
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@Shavkat (139942)
• Philippines
23 Dec 17
I am not sure where I got the mind reading skill. Perhaps I had acquired this skill when dealing with people who are 'back fighters.' Once I had processed knowing them, I will try my best to stay away from or cut the communication with them.
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@ridingbet (66854)
• Philippines
23 Dec 17
i am a trusting person. but if that trust is betrayed, i will consider that person a non-entity, even severing my ties with him or her.
a typical Scorpio, i am trustworthy, brutally honest, caring, loving even to friends, but you don't have to bite me, because i sting deadly with a venom. 
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@Shavkat (139942)
• Philippines
24 Dec 17
@ridingbet I do agree with that. This is what I am trying to let these people know for the first meeting with them.
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@ridingbet (66854)
• Philippines
24 Dec 17
@Shavkat i don't fool anybody so i expect that nobody should fool me too
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@kobesbuddy (78882)
• East Tawas, Michigan
23 Dec 17
I don't have many friends that I bond with. I'm not a very trusting person, more of an Introvert.
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@Shavkat (139942)
• Philippines
23 Dec 17
At present, I stayed away with some friends whom I think it is not worth to be a part of my life. I am an introvert person but I tend to be flexible mingling with people for the sake of working with these people. Thus, I still make a distance from them in terms of knowing my personal life.
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@kobesbuddy (78882)
• East Tawas, Michigan
23 Dec 17
@Shavkat I like to mingle with people, but don't allow others to get too close.
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@Shavkat (139942)
• Philippines
23 Dec 17
@kobesbuddy I also set boundaries with those people who can be trusted. It is better to in safe mode.
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@meowch (2220)
• United States
23 Dec 17
I had an epiphany about a month ago. I realized that if a risk is greater than the reward then it's better to just let it go. I pursued something in my past which at the time I thought it was best for me. However it turned out to be nothing. Some people in my opinion will go to great lengths to achieve their desires but in the end wouldn't care much who will get hurt. I've known for a fact it's better to stay safe than risking anything.
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@mysimplelot (1347)
• Calcutta, India
23 Dec 17
I do not trust everybody. And you have to be cautious with whom you make friends. Most of the time we do mistakes.
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@m_audrey6788 (58472)
• Germany
23 Dec 17
In an offline world 
I trusted a few friends but never thought that they are the ones who talked bad about me with others but I`m thankful knowing their true face 
Now, I`m more friendly but I don`t expect them to accept me as theirs I just enjoy being with them in good times and just stay quiet when they are not in a good mood
I trusted a few friends but never thought that they are the ones who talked bad about me with others but I`m thankful knowing their true face Now, I`m more friendly but I don`t expect them to accept me as theirs I just enjoy being with them in good times and just stay quiet when they are not in a good mood 1 person likes this
@m_audrey6788 (58472)
• Germany
23 Dec 17
@Shavkat You got it 
but of course those kind of people are so creative and make up stories 
Oh well! 
I know myself better than them and can`t ruin the happy me 
but of course those kind of people are so creative and make up stories Oh well! I know myself better than them and can`t ruin the happy me 1 person likes this
@Shavkat (139942)
• Philippines
23 Dec 17
@m_audrey6788 I do agree with that. These people are good actors and can deceive us easily. Thus, we still need to be cautious.
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@TiarasOceanView (70022)
• United States
23 Dec 17
Trust has to be earned to me Shavkat.
I do no longer trust so easily.
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@jobelbojel (35646)
• Philippines
23 Dec 17
There are so many lessons in life. I don't easily trust people.
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@rubybashirkunju (42)
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25 Feb 18
The lesson I learned from my past experiences is that never trust anyone blindly. You might fall into trouble.
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