Now why you say you miss me?

@sjvg1976 (41281)
Delhi, India
January 16, 2018 7:10am CST
I was always an emotional sort of a person who always values relationships to be higher than anything. Still I never had many friends and those who I think to be my best friend never gave me a felling that they too think so about me. I remember I had a colleague which became a good friend later on. We used to devote good time together in office as well as outside on weekends. But then I was transferred to a new unit of the same organisation. We promised that we will remain in touch with each other but the time passed and he almost forgot me. I remember his birthday falls two days later than mine. I wished him but he didn't. I was upset as he forgot mine. And he admitted that he forgot but he said he still misses me but I am not convinced and didn't reply. I know he was just giving an excuse . I feel it's because of the time we forgot each other but suddenly why is he missing me is a point. Anyways now at least I don't miss him but he was a good guy and now he is not my friend anymore. Do you had friends whom you lost with the time?
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@LadyDuck (471438)
• Switzerland
16 Jan 18
I had not lost friends, but I am no more in touch, because I moved to another country.
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@sjvg1976 (41281)
• Delhi, India
16 Jan 18
Hmm...That's a problem. Distance doesn't matter if you are close friends.
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@LadyDuck (471438)
• Switzerland
16 Jan 18
@sjvg1976 You are right, we are in touch, but we meet once in a blue moon.
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@sjvg1976 (41281)
• Delhi, India
16 Jan 18
@LadyDuck meeting is not possible when you live in different countries but we can talk to each other often over phone or internet.
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@Kandae11 (55035)
16 Jan 18
To be honest I have had few very close friends - the closest have been my sisters.
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@sjvg1976 (41281)
• Delhi, India
16 Jan 18
So you are like me
@suni51 (3429)
• India
16 Jan 18
No, I never said I miss you buddy, And I am sure you value your mangoes more than your real friends.. I don't mind if you forget my birthday every year although I still remember yours. I say forget all about wishing on birthdays, after all they do nothing good but bring you closer to dooms day. I know you will say the same after reading my post
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@sjvg1976 (41281)
• Delhi, India
16 Jan 18
Btw when is your birthday I will surely wish you if you tell me
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@just4him (317089)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
16 Jan 18
I'm sorry your friendship broke over that. I have friends with whom I don't communicate often, but they are still friends and I enjoy catching up when we meet up.
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@sjvg1976 (41281)
• Delhi, India
16 Jan 18
That's good. May you don't mind small issues in friendship.
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@just4him (317089)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
16 Jan 18
@sjvg1976 No, because that's what they are, small issues.
@aureliah (24316)
• Kenya
16 Jan 18
Interesting. This always happens with me especiall when the friends get jobs abroad
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@sjvg1976 (41281)
• Delhi, India
16 Jan 18
Hmm..May with the distance we forget them.
@edevis18 (349)
• Maracaibo, Venezuela
16 Jan 18
It's good to keep the friends. I am always in contact with them, many of my friends are from the children, that's why we are almost brothers. Hardly stop talking to them despite the distance as many other countries are.
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@sjvg1976 (41281)
• Delhi, India
16 Jan 18
That's good for you. We should remain in touch with our friends.
@JudyEv (340216)
• Rockingham, Australia
16 Jan 18
It can be hard sometimes to stay in touch with friends. Mostly I've lost touch if we have moved away from each other.
@nangayo (2290)
• Nairobi, Kenya
17 Jan 18
It happens. Some friend are too busy that within sometime you lose touch it has happened to me before.
• United States
17 Jan 18
@sjvg1976 It mostly always happens that once people move apart, they lose touch. This has always been the way for me.
@Icydoll (36717)
• India
17 Jan 18
@sjvg1976 yeah I have Friends but I'm touch with them regularly over phone.but I miss meeting them in real :(