Always Blaming Everyone Else
By KrauseHome
@KrauseHome (36448)
United States
January 20, 2018 7:15pm CST
How many people do you know like this? No matter what happens in their life they always have to have someone or something to blame it on. If they have an ailment it is never their fault, their car breaks down, it is the mechanic who wants to charge $500 fault, they get denied for something, let's blame it on a Politician etc.
Even when someone down right knows there were warning signs out there many times before hand or even now, these people just do not want to listen, or think for themselves. Everyone else is the problem. Never them. And if you try to make them think for themselves that is almost impossible as well.
What happened to wanting to better your life, and do something Great with your life? So if you are having troubles getting a job, create one. Or find some things you enjoy, and learn how to turn it into a Craft. Go out and donate some of your time if you can and help those who need it. Be willing to do what it takes to make you a better you instead of waiting for the next handout all the time.
I am tired of this mentality and see it on Facebook all the time. If you really are unhappy all the time quit complaining, and find something good to help change it or make it better. Only you can be in control of who you are, and what you really want to become.
~~TINA~~
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17 responses
@andriaperry (116936)
• Anniston, Alabama
21 Jan 18
I know those type of people and I unfriend them, they are downers. I have stopped following a few here doing the exact same thing.
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@jstory07 (139742)
• Roseburg, Oregon
23 Jan 18
They are downers and they never quit being that way.
@much2say (55655)
• Los Angeles, California
21 Jan 18
I guess these people find it easier to point the finger at someone/something rather than take responsibility for themselves and to take action to do something about it. I think of one particular friend who complains and whines about everything and makes announcements of it on FB 
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@shaggin (72141)
• United States
21 Jan 18
I see that a lot on Facebook too and after awhile it gets to me and I unfollow them. I don't like seeing constant negativity. My mother is like this and my sister so I avoid being around them much. My son does it all the time too and it drives me insane. I hope he learns to take responsibilty for things by the time he is an adult.
@FourWalls (68084)
• United States
21 Jan 18
Unfortunately, the "blame game" has become the primary mentality of our society. We have 536 people running around DC (Congress and the president) doing nothing but that. We have a social mentality that blames crime on everything except the person who actually commits the crime.
We really need to get back to teaching personal responsibility. This isn't that comic strip The Family Circus, where everything was the fault of the little ghosts "Not Me" and "Ida Know."
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@JudyEv (340216)
• Rockingham, Australia
21 Jan 18
Some do not want to take any responsibility for anything at all. I get fed up with people who complain all the time.
@nitirrbb7 (4317)
• India
21 Jan 18
I know someone close who has this kind of attitude and is always complaining and moaning about what went wrong. You said it right quit complaining and find something good to help to make things better instead
@khagendra1994 (1226)
• Kathmandu, Nepal
21 Jan 18
That's not good idea to blame other in every case.
@Courtlynn (67085)
• United States
21 Jan 18
Know plenty. But its part of life now so just try to ignore it.
@misunderstood_zombie (8142)
• United States
21 Jan 18
Sometimes life is hard, but constant complaining isn't going to help, though I think venting every now and then is a good thing.
