It is okay to lie?
By Babes Says
@BabeSays (8575)
Mauritius
January 22, 2018 5:33am CST
So my hubby cares a lot about me. Even if I sneeze or cough once he gets worried that I might be sick. If I hurt myself he is worries.
Well, you get the point. In short he worries a lot about me.
Whenever I tell him I have headache or hurt myself while doing something he starts worrying.
I don't like seeing him stress because of me. I'm fine and not a kid. I know he loves me very much and that's why he doesn't want anything to happen to me but I dislike seeing him stress.
It has been couple of days I feel the left part of my head hurts. It's like an INTENSE PAIN but last only for a few seconds. From 5 sec and sometimes until 10 secs. It is so intense that I can't do anything not even move. It's like I freeze for a few seconds then I'm normal again.
I want to visit a doctor but I am afraid of telling him. I can't go hospital alone because it's a bit far.
It is okay that I'm lying and keep on telling him I'm fine? Because sometimes he notice I don't reply back for a couple of secs and I lie saying I was thinking.
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9 responses
@PainsOnSlate (21852)
• Canada
22 Jan 18
All the little thing i keep to myself, when it comes to my health, that's when I need to tell my husband ....
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@Bhaskarjhborah (735)
• India
22 Jan 18
@BabeSays Yeah, but now his worriedness will be little compared to when he will know after your health condition gets some more bad. And hiding a health problem always causes increasing of diseases.
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@Bhaskarjhborah (735)
• India
22 Jan 18
I think you should tell the truth. And it will be okay.
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@Bhaskarjhborah (735)
• India
22 Jan 18
@BabeSays I posted reply to another place, hope you don't mind.
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@Dorag956 (268)
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23 Jan 18
@BabeSays you need to remeber that its your health and you need to be honest. In a relationship trust and honesty is important. You guys have to be able to talk about these things. So I would say tell him how you feel sick then tell him how you feel when hes always worried about you.
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@adnileb (5276)
• Philippines
10 Feb 18
Lying is good depending on the situation.
But when it comes to your health, you shouldn't be lying. You should tell him your situation and if you feel like you want to go to the doctor, tell him. Do not delay this kind of situation because it might get worse.
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@Icydoll (36717)
• India
22 Jan 18
@Babesays I think you have to tell him about your health condition.we shouldn't lie in health issues.it effects you only.as your saying it is far to visit doctor.take help of your husband..as long as we lie to keep others happy it is not bad.the lie that hurt others is not good.so react as per the situation :)
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@CuriousFellow (588)
• Mauritius
22 Jan 18
Not good to lie when it comes about health.
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