In Limbo

@maezee (41988)
United States
January 23, 2018 8:31am CST
I hate this feeling of being "in limbo" with this prospective job I had mentioned earlier. I took a second drug test, filled out an application for backgrounds and got fingerprinted. I have however not heard from the HR lady since last Wednesday. Today is Tuesday! I emailed her a few days ago and also called and left a message mainly asking if she had any update, if I needed to go do the drug screening again. No response from either of those.means, so maybe she is on vacation or out of office or something. But the clock is ticking if they really wanted to have a start date of Feb 12th or Feb 26th. This feeling of being in "limbo" is not a feeling I enjoy. It makes me paranoid that they are in the process of rescinding their conditional job offer. I dont know why they would and havent given them any reason to do so. But the idle hands here makes me overthink. How can I chill out? Anyone else feeling in limbo? Happy Tuesday all!
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@just4him (317238)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
23 Jan 18
I hope you hear soon. I hate being in limbo too.
@maezee (41988)
• United States
23 Jan 18
Thanks! Appreciate that. Hope youre having a good week.
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@just4him (317238)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
24 Jan 18
@maezee I am now that I could get back to the pool and the cold/flu is history. I hope you are too.
• Gate City, Virginia
23 Jan 18
While feeling "in limbo" I do anything productive I *can* do...physical activity is good...and actually that's a fair description of my whole socioeconomic life for the past ten years! (Marking time, keeping busy, not collecting fair payment yet. If I stopped thinking "yet" I'd probably die of despondency.)
@maezee (41988)
• United States
23 Jan 18
Definitely good advice. Thank you.
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@NJChicaa (120142)
• United States
23 Jan 18
I would be going nuts too
@maezee (41988)
• United States
23 Jan 18
Thanks. I really am. I am also paranoid of anything - anything at all going wrong.
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@JohnRoberts (109846)
• Los Angeles, California
23 Jan 18
Waiting is always the worst part. Your life is on hold.
@maezee (41988)
• United States
23 Jan 18
I agree! It dribes me crazy. I hope as I age I get more patient!
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@thelme55 (77164)
• Germany
23 Jan 18
I feel you. I would be restless too if I were you.
@maezee (41988)
• United States
23 Jan 18
Thanks! Glad to know I am not alone.
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@dgobucks226 (35744)
31 Jan 18
It is such a process one needs to go through today to get hired for a job. I believe they have not decided on a person yet. I have been in that situation before and it does make you anxious.
@BelleStarr (61101)
• United States
23 Jan 18
That would make me crazy too but I guess no news is good news!!
• Philippines
24 Jan 18
It's probably better if you get yourself busy with other things that will keep you busy. It prevents you from thinking about this problem you are facing. Worrying too much won't get you anyway. How can you chill out when you think about it much? Take care @maezee
@Madshadi (8840)
• Brussels, Belgium
24 Jan 18
I try not to think about it and occupy myself with other things
@LeaPea2417 (37381)
• Toccoa, Georgia
24 Jan 18
I hope you hear from them soon.
@DianneN (247184)
• United States
24 Jan 18
I'd be a nervous wreck, too, but these things take time with all that red tape. I listen to classical music and read when I want to chill out or cook.
@Kandae11 (55164)
25 Jan 18
There is still time , I think it will be okay.