Change Of Plan - And other stuff.

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@Kandae11 (55016)
January 25, 2018 9:44am CST
Starting from tomorrow I'll be doing things a bit differently at mylot. When I log in I will first check the discussions of my active followers - then move on to notifications and recent discussions. Usually, I would deal with the notifications first then move onto recent discussions .There I invariably get caught up, and miss those discussions by followers which were posted while I was sleeping. What do you pay attention to first when you log into mylot.? On another topic, do you think women should imbibe in alcoholic beverages when they go to parties? The most I would have is a very small glass of wine. What do you drink when you go out socially?
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@maezee (41988)
• United States
25 Jan 18
Thats usually what I do as well. I like to see the followers posts and then move onto other things. I dont see why women shouldnt drink at parties as long as someone - male or female - is a designated driver!
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@Kandae11 (55016)
25 Jan 18
It also depends on how much they drink.
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@marlina (154131)
• Canada
25 Jan 18
I don't like like men or women who drink too much.
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@Kandae11 (55016)
25 Jan 18
Moderation or not at all.
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@shaggin (72131)
• United States
25 Jan 18
I don’t like how I act when drunk so I rarely drink enough to get drunk. I don’t like how I feel from a hangover so it’s just not worth it to me. I have light kidney damage so drinking is bad for me. I understand why your doing recent posts of those you follow first however I do the notifications first before reading the most recent posts of those I follow.
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@shaggin (72131)
• United States
25 Jan 18
@Kandae11 I realize the next day how ridiculous I acted while drunk and then I worry about it for months or longer.
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@Kandae11 (55016)
25 Jan 18
@shaggin Months! - then you definitely shouldn't drink.
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• United States
25 Jan 18
I usually try to get finished with my notifications then go to posts written by my followers. Afterwards recent but not always depends on my mood. Drinking is up to the individual. Just as long as they’re responsible. I don’t drink though. At all.
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• United States
26 Jan 18
@Kandae11 I like to clear as much as I can but sometimes I take a break and visit new discussions or ones by my followers
• Preston, England
25 Jan 18
I generally work through my notifications from the most recent down
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• Preston, England
25 Jan 18
@Kandae11 good luck, I look forward to the results of your experiment
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@Kandae11 (55016)
25 Jan 18
That was my way - tomorrow I'll do it differently and see how it goes.
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@Madshadi (8840)
• Brussels, Belgium
25 Jan 18
I always first deal with the notifications, then post new discussions.
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@Madshadi (8840)
• Brussels, Belgium
26 Jan 18
@Kandae11 it’s the most convenient way in my opinion
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@Kandae11 (55016)
26 Jan 18
From the responses here it seems most members do it the way, I used to.
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@quantum2020 (12041)
• Ciudad De Mexico, Mexico
25 Jan 18
That is a good changing strategy for doing things on Mylot. I think that women should not drink more than two glasses of liquor at parties, especially if they have to drive a car
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@BelleStarr (61102)
• United States
25 Jan 18
I usually deal with the notifications, then do a post and then check whats new.
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@Kandae11 (55016)
25 Jan 18
So far - only one other member does it the way I plan to in my change of plan.
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@jaboUK (64354)
• United Kingdom
26 Jan 18
Why are you changing your modus operandi? I usually check my latest post and reply to any comments, then check out the posts of the people that responded. Then I move to notifications and recent posts. Of course that's not set in stone - I get easily distracted by interesting comments on other people's posts. I'm teetotal but don't object to other women having a drink or two. Nothing wrong with that providing they don't drink to excess.
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@Kandae11 (55016)
26 Jan 18
I find I have been missing discussions posted during the night by some of my active followers - so I'll check their profiles to see what was posted first thing when I log in.
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• Eugene, Oregon
25 Jan 18
I usually start with notifications, do a post if I have a subject, then check out posts by people I follow. It is best for people of both sexes to drink moderately at parties.
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@Kandae11 (55016)
25 Jan 18
Moderation is key. My new plan will be putting notifications second in sequence - I will see how it works.
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@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
25 Jan 18
First is my Notification, then answer them one by one. After that, proceed with submitting a discussion. Then, go to my active followers.
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@Kandae11 (55016)
25 Jan 18
I usually check the recent discussions before submitting a post - just in case someone has written on the same subject - and I won't want to double up.
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@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
26 Jan 18
@Kandae11 So far I did not think about it. Like, I believe we have different thoughts.
• Trinidad And Tobago
26 Jan 18
I do the comments in my blog first and then reply in other people's blogs. I hardly look at notifications. I still haven't figured out a strategy. I think women should make the choice if they want to drink. I don't drink at all.
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@Kandae11 (55016)
26 Jan 18
I think they should limit their intake - at home and even moreso at parties.
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• Trinidad And Tobago
27 Jan 18
@mohit459 (12565)
• Haldwani, India
25 Jan 18
First chckout my notification then discussion ... And then discussion of my followers
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@Kandae11 (55016)
25 Jan 18
That's a good sequence.
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@Kandae11 (55016)
26 Jan 18
@mohit459 It was not the best, but it was good.
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@mohit459 (12565)
• Haldwani, India
25 Jan 18
@Kandae11 thanks.. Hoping your day was wonderful
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@Icydoll (36717)
• India
26 Jan 18
I check the notifications first..then move to recent discussions to all.
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@Kandae11 (55016)
26 Jan 18
That is the sequence I am changing from.
@allknowing (136445)
• India
26 Jan 18
I first see my notifications and attend to them followed by top rated, and recent activity. I then post a discussion.
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@Kandae11 (55016)
26 Jan 18
Similar to the sequence I used.
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@sjvg1976 (41281)
• Delhi, India
26 Jan 18
I usually go to the top discussions first when I log in to mylot. Then go to the notifications and then see the recent activity/ discussions. Any one should not drink much whether he is a man or woman.
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@Kandae11 (55016)
26 Jan 18
Some may say - they should not drink at all - but moderation is always key .
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@jstory07 (139717)
• Roseburg, Oregon
26 Jan 18
I go through all of my notifications first.
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@Kandae11 (55016)
26 Jan 18
That was my previous system.
@hostessman (11871)
• Tucson, Arizona
26 Jan 18
every body to there own likeing
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@Kandae11 (55016)
26 Jan 18
Definitely, what works for one may not work for another.
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@Morleyhunt (21744)
• Canada
26 Jan 18
Sounds a lot like the plan I follow. I don't go to many parties....when I do, I limit my drinks (other than water).
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@Kandae11 (55016)
26 Jan 18
When I worked with the government ,the cocktail parties were many - now unless it is a birthday party , I hardly ever go partying.
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@andriaperry (116936)
• Anniston, Alabama
26 Jan 18
I have one drink and that is it.
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@Kandae11 (55016)
26 Jan 18
Moderation is key.