I Was Wrong About Mylot. :(
By Babes Says
@BabeSays (8575)
Mauritius
January 25, 2018 3:21pm CST
Ever since I joined Mylot as I said I met so many people. A few members here complain that there are rude members here as well.
I refused to believe them since everyone was so nice to me until I noticed a few people I will not mention their names though.
They have been rude and some offended me. I forgive them thou. Maybe it's their nature.
What I want to say is that if you cannot say something nice then at least don't be rude.
If the topic sounds silly or stupid to you then you have a choice to ignore it. No need to offend the person saying it's a stupid or silly post.
Lastly if someone asked you a personal question you do not wish to share then you can politely tell the person you do not wish to share this information no need to be rude.
We all have feelings you might be having a bad day or your mood is off or whatever is the reason of your rudeness remember that there are people who had worse day than you but is still being nice to others.
Please do not hurt others feeling if someone has hurt you. The least you can do is make someone smile and be nice to them.
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59 responses
@LovingMyBabies (85288)
• Valdosta, Georgia
25 Jan 18
Yeah it's sad that some people feel the need to not be nice. I just pray for them. =)
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@LovingMyBabies (85288)
• Valdosta, Georgia
26 Jan 18
@vandana7 It's not them that needs changing, it's my patience and love that needs changing in actuality. So while I'm praying for them-God is changing me and my heart. =)
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@kobesbuddy (78871)
• East Tawas, Michigan
25 Jan 18
You are quite new here, on My Lot. For anyone to be rude and mean to you, is uncalled for! You are a very nice young lady:) That rude behavior happens on all websites, even this one.
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@kobesbuddy (78871)
• East Tawas, Michigan
25 Jan 18
@BabeSays If someone doesn't like my discussions, they need to go read other ones.
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@BabeSays (8575)
• Mauritius
25 Jan 18
@kobesbuddy Exactly my point. If you do not like a discussion then skip it and go somewhere else. I think those rude people are here only to make money so they keep commenting on every posy without thinking that they might hurt other's feelings.
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@thelme55 (77164)
• Germany
25 Jan 18
@Texasboy956 welcome to Mylot. I hope you are enjoying here.
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@Texasboy956 (36)
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25 Jan 18
Same here im a very nice person. And im also new to my lot 
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@BabeSays (8575)
• Mauritius
26 Jan 18
@Hannihar You are most welcome. Females cats gets jealous I think. Because Tommy mother doesn't like when I play with him. She gets jealous. I think that may be the reason. But maybe you should get a male cat about same age. Maybe she will get along with him. I am sure she must be happy with you.
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@Texasboy956 (36)
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25 Jan 18
Hi im new to my lot and i agree to what your saying. Some people are just rude but thats there personality and some of us have to deal with them. But just like theres good people theres bad people.
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@Texasboy956 (36)
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25 Jan 18
True is always better to ignore than to listen to those that are just waste of time in our life.
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@BabeSays (8575)
• Mauritius
25 Jan 18
@Texasboy956 They are wasting their own time dear. They could have dome something that would pleased them instead. Poor them.
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@KrauseHome (36447)
• United States
26 Jan 18
So agreed. Chances are unless the person lives close to you, that the 2 of you will never meet, but hey if you don't agree with someone, many times it might be Best to not post anything and just move on. The same people that are rude here are probably rude everywhere, and that is Sad. Learning to allow differences in opinion is always a Good thing.
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@louievill (28851)
• Philippines
26 Jan 18
Very true, the site should never be used as a venue to vent out our anger, frustrations and issues that we are having at wherever we are, its suppose to be pleasant and enjoyable here and differences should be discussed in a sane manner lol.
I'm a kind and nice person but I won't hesitate to fight tooth and nail or wit for wit if I sense somebody is trying to do that to me, I will make them feel that they should had picked on someone else.
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@vandana7 (100603)
• India
26 Jan 18
You said it...if somebody is being deliberately obtuse by god...it gets on nerves. lol
I had this fellow countryman justifying why women should not be allowed into the temples. He said they have menstruation, and in temple the offerings also fall on floor. So the offerings and menses blood mingle and is unhygienic, so that is why women should not be allowed in. Tell me if this calls for rudeness or not. lol Believe me, me and DJ tried to convince him, that women do not leak that way...we have ways to prevent that. But he just would not listen. Of course, we reported him, and he was thrown out. When samples like that arrive here, and survive, then sort of rudeness is mandatory I think.
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@vandana7 (100603)
• India
26 Jan 18
That is one aspect. But I have had to be rude for other reasons. One guy was pestering me to adopt him. I explained to him why he was not acceptable since he had differences both with parents and in laws, so he had little experience and ability to manage elderly. He came up with a post saying "no more caring" as if he was a caring person, and many comments that were snide remarks towards me. He only knew me here, and on first visit to my place, he decided he cares for me more than he cared for his mother!!! Weird...try as I might, to convince him logically ...in PMs, he was not backing off, looking for a fight. I gave him a dose. Sorry, but sometimes people can be pests forcing others to be rude. In any event, another friend pointed out that the age gap was legally insufficient for me to adopt him. That sent this guy running away from the site. lol
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@responsiveme (22926)
• India
26 Jan 18
Right, sorry you have had a bad experience.butonce you are here for more time you will find people who you get along with you
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@mohit459 (12565)
• Haldwani, India
25 Jan 18
Don't be too emotional...
And don't need to mood off for such..
I too don't like one member here he thinks him of so smart what should I say .... Let it be and their acts are not gonna have any effect on our life..so...
Just forget whatever it happens...
And who cares for such..
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@CuriousFellow (588)
• Mauritius
25 Jan 18
Sad to hear. U just have to ignore them. Anyway be happy even their rude comment is going to make you earn money hahaha
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@GardenGerty (160949)
• United States
26 Jan 18
Is it possible that some of the rudeness comes from them having a different language and not expressing well in English? We are not supposed to be rude on here, but civil, even when we have differences. Ignore the rude ones, hang out with the cool people.
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@irishidid (8687)
• United States
25 Jan 18
I purposely ignore some subjects because I disagree with the poster about them, especially when it comes to politics. If I can't say something nice, better to not say anything at all.
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@BabeSays (8575)
• Mauritius
26 Jan 18
Agree. If I cannot say something nice I better keep it quite.
@acelawrites (19272)
• Philippines
25 Jan 18
I like your attitude towards those who had been rude to you. Just avoid them.
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@Keirawrenn7 (21)
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26 Jan 18
There shouldn't be any reason for people to be rude. But sadly that's the way of the world now
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