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@Kandae11 (55131)
February 11, 2018 11:11am CST
When I first joined mylot well over a year ago, I felt it was absolutely necessary that I should leave a comment on every response received - after all - that member did take the time to respond -and responses do add up. However I have realized that it would be wiser not to comment on some responses received. Especially those which seem geared to tempt one to lose their cool - and maybe fly off the handle. Some are best ignored and a few , best deleted. Thankfully I have been forced to delete only four responses since I have been here - and the last of that four as recently as last week. I decided to ignore the recent response by one particular member who seems on a mission to ruffle my feathers. I have commented on his responses to my discussions , I have deleted one response and I have ignored one - but if he continues in this vein - what will my next step be?. I have never blocked anyone before, but that button might come in handy quite soon. Do you usually comment back on every response received on your discussions? Has a response ever made you lose your cool?
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@JohnRoberts (109846)
• Los Angeles, California
11 Feb 18
I always leave a like on comments. Most times there is nothing new or interesting to add.
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@Kandae11 (55131)
11 Feb 18
I know.
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@andriaperry (117133)
• Anniston, Alabama
11 Feb 18
Yes and I just deleted the comment. Like I said I have only blocked one for calling me names because I believe in God.
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@Kandae11 (55131)
11 Feb 18
No one likes to have to use the delete button, but ill behavior will be found everywhere and we use the means to deal with it.
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@m_audrey6788 (58472)
• Germany
11 Feb 18
I always respond to all who made comments on my discussions but I will only keep on interacting with those who are with a friendly and helpful respondents
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@Kandae11 (55131)
11 Feb 18
Same here.
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@topffer (42156)
• France
11 Feb 18
Usually I comment back, although I can omit to do it if the response is a "thank you" response made to earn a cent. The only comments or responses I have ever deleted were spam posts out of topic to promote something. If the comment is insulting/abusive, I just report it without commenting back, and I let an admin decide if it should be deleted or not.
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@topffer (42156)
• France
11 Feb 18
@Kandae11 I know that.
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@Kandae11 (55131)
11 Feb 18
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@Kandae11 (55131)
11 Feb 18
Well, the delete button is right there - and after spending four years in the diplomatic service, I am happy to see that I continue to exhibit control and was forced to use it only four times in over a year. You see, diplomacy doesn't always work.
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@amadeo (111938)
• United States
11 Feb 18
most of the time I do.Never lose my coo.Maybe annoy but that is it
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@amadeo (111938)
• United States
13 Feb 18
@Kandae11 yes we have to be here.Or they will jump all over you
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@Kandae11 (55131)
11 Feb 18
Best to keep cool.
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@TheHorse (220085)
• Walnut Creek, California
11 Feb 18
I try to respond to all comments. But I am perpetually behind. No, I haven't gotten a comment that made me lose my cool.
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@TheHorse (220085)
• Walnut Creek, California
11 Feb 18
@Kandae11 I call upon my middle-aged "don't give a sh*t" under such circumstances.
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@Kandae11 (55131)
11 Feb 18
@TheHorse It is no skin off my bones either - but I will not retain insulting responses on any of my discussions.
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@Kandae11 (55131)
11 Feb 18
That's great.
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@AKRao24 (27424)
• India
11 Feb 18
Fortunately I have not met any person who is like that as you have mentioned in the discussion...so more or less I always respond back to the responses I get dear @Kandae11 !
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@AKRao24 (27424)
• India
11 Feb 18
Very nice dear @Kandae11 ! I like the quoting by your grandmother...that is worth remembering! Thanks for sharing!
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@Kandae11 (55131)
11 Feb 18
That's very nice - and I hope it stays that way. My grandmother always said - Why bother go looking for trouble? - it will find you wherever you are.
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@1hopefulman (45120)
• Canada
13 Feb 18
I like to respond back to every response I receive, even if it just a few words with an emoji such as a
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@1hopefulman (45120)
• Canada
13 Feb 18
@Kandae11 We do the best we can as we have time. I enjoy many of your posts.
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@Kandae11 (55131)
13 Feb 18
I like doing that too, but it isn't always possible.
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@Kandae11 (55131)
13 Feb 18
@1hopefulman thank you.- that makes me happy.
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@averygirl72 (37845)
• Philippines
12 Feb 18
I always comment back on the responses to my discussions. Even if the response is annoying I try to be cool
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@averygirl72 (37845)
• Philippines
12 Feb 18
@Kandae11 It's like a personal attack?
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@Kandae11 (55131)
12 Feb 18
I have no problem - except when it is aimed at me in a bad way.
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@Kandae11 (55131)
12 Feb 18
@averygirl72 I would say personal yes.
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@LadyDuck (472001)
• Switzerland
11 Feb 18
Most of the time I comment back, but I avoid if the comment sounds to be written to start a fight. I have deleted some comments too.
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@LadyDuck (472001)
• Switzerland
12 Feb 18
@Kandae11 Sometimes it's better to ignore some comments and go on.
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@Kandae11 (55131)
11 Feb 18
I am glad that you mention that - I do not reply to responses which I think might generate more negative responses and likely cause a fight.
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@DianneN (247186)
• United States
11 Feb 18
Yes, I have not only blocked a couple of weirdos, but reported them as well. I usually leave a like or a simple thank you. Some I have stopped following, because they copy my ideas, words, expressions, etc. I know they still read my discussions, but I don't give a hoot anymore.
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@DianneN (247186)
• United States
12 Feb 18
@Kandae11 It irks me, but knowing that a fat, odd, loser is copying makes a group of us laugh. They are my eyes.
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@Kandae11 (55131)
12 Feb 18
Well, they say copying is the greatest form of flattery - but I bet you are more annoyed than flattered.
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@JudyEv (341752)
• Rockingham, Australia
11 Feb 18
I comment back on every response and rarely need to delete. I have once or twice but that particular person didn't last long here. I mostly refuse to get dragged into controversy and try to put something like 'thanks for your comment' if I get stuck. But if someone is continually baiting me, I'd block them.
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@JudyEv (341752)
• Rockingham, Australia
12 Feb 18
@Kandae11 Me too. I don't need to be hassled online.
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@Kandae11 (55131)
12 Feb 18
Mylot is my place to relax - I am a peaceful person.
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@Hannihar (130213)
• Israel
12 Feb 18
I have to think carefully before decide or not decide to answer something. If I see something is explained wrong then I have to get in there and explain it the right way. I do ignore some because I personally do not like the person and their attitude.
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@Kandae11 (55131)
12 Feb 18
Some people can truly disappoint.
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@Hannihar (130213)
• Israel
13 Feb 18
@Kandae11 So so true Kandase. When things are tough you find out who cares and who does not.
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@Bullshark (3477)
• Netherlands
12 Feb 18
Sometimes I get stuck for words, struggling to find anything to say. And when that happens, I leave it unanswered and just like it instead...
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@Kandae11 (55131)
12 Feb 18
When that happens it is best to just leave a like.
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@Bullshark (3477)
• Netherlands
12 Feb 18
@Kandae11 Yeah, that's the least I can do to show my apprecation to my fellow myLotters... :)
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@Prdhan (587)
12 Feb 18
This may be the case.
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@Angela150 (928)
• London, England
11 Feb 18
They could be trying to get attention and get poplular.
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@Kandae11 (55131)
11 Feb 18
I really don't know.
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@mom210 (9115)
• United States
12 Feb 18
yes, I do think I have commented on all of them. Sorry to hear some made you upset.
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@mom210 (9115)
• United States
12 Feb 18
@Kandae11 sometimes that is the best medicine.
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@Kandae11 (55131)
12 Feb 18
I am no longer upset, once I got it off my chest.
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@NJChicaa (120059)
• United States
11 Feb 18
I respond to most comments. I almost never delete them. That causes you to lose $$
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@Kandae11 (55131)
11 Feb 18
For me it is a matter of principle - the loss of dollars is negligible. Thankfully, I have only had to do it four times.
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@Kandae11 (55131)
11 Feb 18
@sharon6345 It is so much simpler to be nice.
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@amandajay (23264)
• New Zealand
12 Feb 18
Yes,,, I do. But when I couldn’t log for sometime, the notifications get deleted automatically and I won’t be able to find them and respond.
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@mydanods (6513)
• Nigeria
12 Feb 18
@Kandae11 The first time you log in, the site opens to the notifications. Cool!
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@Kandae11 (55131)
12 Feb 18
Yes, that will occur when you are not there for awhile.
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@gaianoor (1117)
• Tirana, Albania
11 Feb 18
i can call myself still new to this but, sometimes i find myself asking should i answer on some responses. Sometimes is better not to.
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@Kandae11 (55131)
11 Feb 18
Best to be safe than sorry.
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@saritflor (3914)
• Hungary
12 Feb 18
I know what you mean, if I see that someone is trying to piss me off in most times I will just ignore it but I also know how to play the "game". We have to keep on our energy
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@Kandae11 (55131)
12 Feb 18
I can handle myself very well I think, but I hate to be distracted from real issues.
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@saritflor (3914)
• Hungary
12 Feb 18
@Kandae11 Sometimes I will fall myself in that as well, it needs some working to not to do that and just ignore. I also hate to feel like I'm wasting my time
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