I have lost my purpose in life

@kakah87 (394)
Semarang, Indonesia
February 13, 2018 3:42am CST
what I have ever had is gone, now there is only hope that maybe will never come true. Where should I go while my feet can not stand. The dark past is always haunting me so I'm always afraid to make decisions in my life. I need light to illuminate my soul that is in darkness because I have lost my purpose in life.
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@SIMPLYD (90721)
• Philippines
13 Feb 18
Why do you say that? Don't you have family that will inspire you to have purpose in life. My father lost his lower left leg, 84-year-old but he still wants to live more years so he is following his diet for a diabetic. We want him to live longer so he can still see some of his small grandchildren become successful professionals.
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@kakah87 (394)
• Semarang, Indonesia
13 Feb 18
Thanks for share your father's story... I have family and my mother is the reason that I have to live a life.
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@SIMPLYD (90721)
• Philippines
15 Feb 18
@kakah87 keep praying for stronger faith so you won't feel that way.
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@kakah87 (394)
• Semarang, Indonesia
15 Feb 18
@SIMPLYD yes,, I'll keep praying, thank you friend
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@owstalaga (4707)
• Philippines
15 Feb 18
Well what are the things you like to do? What makes you happy? You can do more of those things for the meantime. Not sure what happened in the past but maybe you should start meditating too?
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@kakah87 (394)
• Semarang, Indonesia
17 Feb 18
I tried to meditating, now I feel better than before.. thank you
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@owstalaga (4707)
• Philippines
18 Feb 18
@kakah87 Oh great, that's nice to know.
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@1hopefulman (45120)
• Canada
13 Feb 18
Before you lost it, what was your purpose in life?
@1hopefulman (45120)
• Canada
14 Feb 18
@kakah87 Is there any special area in which you want to be a success?
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@kakah87 (394)
• Semarang, Indonesia
14 Feb 18
I want to be a success man.
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@kakah87 (394)
• Semarang, Indonesia
14 Feb 18
@1hopefulman I want to be a blogger and make money on that, then I can use the money to have my own store at my house.
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@db20747 (43440)
• Washington, District Of Columbia
15 Feb 18
Don't let the past hold u back. There's always a way to achieve what u want.
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@db20747 (43440)
• Washington, District Of Columbia
15 Feb 18
@kakah87 we have to start working on the future!
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@kakah87 (394)
• Semarang, Indonesia
15 Feb 18
How I can do that? If you are me, what will you do? I tried so hard to forgive my past life but still didn't work. It make me feel that I'm a failure.
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@oahuwriter (26777)
• United States
13 Feb 18
You know what everyone has a purpose on Earth. How about prayers and thankfulness for you're healthy, alive and here at mylot.com. Take care. I believe that you're life is worthwhile and you'll find your way. Take care and don't give up for all you know you could win the lottery one day!
@kakah87 (394)
• Semarang, Indonesia
13 Feb 18
thank you for your suggestion and support... I tried to find my way seems like it didn't work yet, I know I have to be patient.. more and more
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@Prdhan (587)
13 Feb 18
Be careful!A goalless life and unmanaged boat are equal.
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@kakah87 (394)
• Semarang, Indonesia
14 Feb 18
you're right about that friend, that's why I have to make a new goal. thank you
@Meramar (2695)
13 Feb 18
You haven't lost everything. You have your life, which means the possibility to find a new purpose to live for. You have your family and Friends. Lost material things can be reached again. To start again or from nothing can be a great possibility to change life. You know you neead light, there you have a first purpose. There are plenty of possibilites outside to look for. You have got the fortune that you are conscious about knowing that you need a purpose in life. Many people are blind as they do not recognize it. So your first step is done. You may feel lucky that you can decide on your own which may be your next purpose in life. There are many possibilities outside. So don't give up.
@Meramar (2695)
13 Feb 18
@kakah87 That's normal that our motivation suffers sometimes. But even so, we have the option to try another step into another direction until we find the right one. I hope you'll find the right motivation for life.
@kakah87 (394)
• Semarang, Indonesia
13 Feb 18
You're about that, thank you for your advice. I know what I should do are try to relax, be grateful and see from the other side. but sometimes I remember that I've tried to one step forward then I was hit two step backward, it makes me feel sad and weakness.
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@kakah87 (394)
• Semarang, Indonesia
14 Feb 18
@Meramar I hope so... It's mean I have to start again and again, survive in this situation.
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