Does this make me a bad person?

I have no idea, Since I am using a different social media account they didnt know that exists. I just dont want to force my self for their approval.

@hereandthere Maybe they know, I haven't interacted with them for a long time. I heard they are making lots of money as Uber Operators.

@CaptAlbertWhisker i mean do your parents and siblings know you're now in canada? did your uncle tell them?

I know blood is thicker than water but sometimes blood can be toxic and we dont need toxic people in our lives.

@LadyDuck You know what is weird, My parents are so strict to their kids but spoils their grand children too much.

@CaptAlbertWhisker You are so right, blood can be toxic. We cannot choose our family members, we get what we get. I do not feel obliged to see and talk with those I dislike.

My parents are doing well financially and they are happy spoiling their bratty grand kids so they dont need me.

@CaptAlbertWhisker I understand. When you are permanent there, you can invite them to visit you c/o of you for the travel expenses. I am sure they will be so happy.

@SIMPLYD Nah I will just let them spoil their grand children, enjoy their uber business and forget I exist. While I do what I want without having Bible verses being spammed on me.

I just got here in Canada, I will never leave until I am permanent. My parents are doing well. They are Uber operators and they own Mango plants. They are too busy spoiling their rotten grand children.

@CaptAlbertWhisker

@CaptAlbertWhisker that was cruel if that is even true.

I wont leave Canada. Spent all my life savings to be here. Also they are happy with their life. They are Uber operators with 15 drivers. I am sure they are financially fine.

@Letranknight2015 I think I can start a fresh start and start my own family once I am stable. Food is very expensive here.

@CaptAlbertWhisker That's why I was surprised when you suddenly went there because I remember you were raising farm/ poultry in some province..I hope you are happy with your life even though you're away from them. Right now it's kinda sad for me in my opinion but then again I'm not in your situation.

Yeah they are happier without me, They wont be reminded of their disappointments.

Have you talked to them since you wrote this post?

@CaptAlbertWhisker

@1hopefulman I still havent talked to them. I have no intention to do so

@CaptAlbertWhisker What a grievance list! Anyway, such horrible folks you've got. That is very sad. Are your siblings horrible, too?

My parents did this to me: 1.Verbally abused me all my childhood 2.Beat me with a broomstick if my grades if my grades is not A+ 3. Killed my pets because they are hygiene freaks 4.Told me their life is better if I was not born 5.When I became an honor student, It is nothing for them, they are never proud of me. 6.I am diagnosed with ADHD and aspergers but didnt believe the doctors because they dont believe the concept. 7.Nagging at me became their past time. 8.They are hardcore Christians and I am too liberal to get along with them 9.They are racist, So I will troll them by dating a black or white woman from a very liberal background. It is not like they need my financial help, they are freaking rich.

@CaptAlbertWhisker They don't look Christians to me from the way you describe, more like hypocrites hiding under conservative religion.I think money isn't really going to help if they chose to neglect to be ignorant and purposely neglect their children. Not to mention cover it up more by spoiling grand children. Kinda similar to my Grandma lol good thing my mom's different.

I am lonely but at least I am free. Also I wont have to worry about having my pets murdered. Remember my parents hates animals.

@CaptAlbertWhisker Oh man. Well maybe then it's good that you are physically away from them. But if you are feeling lonely, maybe it'd be good to at least say hi to them - just to let them know where you are and that you're ok?

@CaptAlbertWhisker I think lonely is the least of your worries.

@CaptAlbertWhisker When you become a parent you will then understand and will realize why they do such things.. Parents just want the best for their children though sometimes they react too much...

@jcvee2009 Yeah traumatizing me by killing my pets is for my good.

Nope, If I have a kid I will keep it away from my parents

They killed my pets when I was a little kid. They verbally abused me for my ADHD because they dont understand it and I never felt appreciated by them. I dont long for their approval anymore.

@CaptAlbertWhisker Oh yes with people like that around, it is no good. I am glad you are free of them..you are wise. I am also sorry to hear this what they did to you.

@Courage7 My parents spoiled their grand children , which is weird since they are dictators to their kids.

I bet they will still treat me like a kid if I will still live with them. I set them free from their parental duties.

Only time will tell if I will talk to them again.

Maybe he told them but I didnt give a damn about since the bridges are completely burned.

I am considering it but I felt like cutting ties is better because bridges got burned.

I wont say they are bad parents, I just dont get along with them.

Seeing me stresses them out, So it is better to be away. Also I am in Canada now which is miles away. The fact they are conservative means I will clash with them.

I think it is better for me to stay away from them. They are free from the burden of having an imperfect son.