A Culture Of ‘Instant Gratification’ And ‘No Past’. The Consequences?

Trinidad And Tobago
March 2, 2018 4:15am CST
The American prayers (now the Universal prayer) ‘Lord, please give me Patience…and I want it NOW’! A strange phenomenon has over taken the world. The ‘instant gratification’. ‘no past’ and ‘disposable culture’ has oven taken us. We want things and we want it now. Parents are no longer teaching their children ‘delayed gratification’. If your baby cries, you instantly put something in their mouths. If your children want (or don’t want) a new toy, you jostle traffic, join long lines, battle parents and make sure your kids have that Christmas toy so desperately advertised. You need to show your child how much you LOVE them. As per technology, your child must have the biggest, fastest and latest electronics gadget to help them think and navigate the day. What is their identity outside of this? In the ancient times of ‘past’ ‘present’ and ‘future’, we had clear cut perception of events happening in sequence. Today camera technology (Wi-Fi, internet, satellite) broadcast events around the world AS IT IS HAPPENING. As a consequence, the is no ‘past’ anymore. We are now streaming in the NOW. We live in the now. There is no time to ponder on past mistakes …we make a decision based on the present and we make it FAST AND FURIOUS. And what about our abuse of resources and our non-biodegradable waste? Disposable this and disposable that. The days of re-use and re-cycle is gone. Why? Products are not MADE durable for reuse. Take water plastic bottles. I use to use a plastic bottle to fill tap water and carry to work. I was told the bottle was not made for that purpose…that the plastic begins to degrade immediately after one use and is harmful to the human body to reuse. You have to discard it. So even if I want to conserve, it was not MADE for that purpose. The ’disposable culture’ is here! The consequences? Who knows? Ever wonder what happens to our internet waste? Is there such a thing as ‘collective consciousness waste’? What if we are now polluting our ‘SPACE-TIME CONSCIOUSNESS’ itself? Disposable kids (maybe we should start cloning our kids), disposable waste, disposable time …are their consequences? I feel somewhere down the line there is going to be a RECKONING DAY…and we are not going to fare too well! What do you think? Credited: Picture taken from the internet, public domain.
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• Valdosta, Georgia
2 Mar 18
I think you're judging the world as a whole I suppose but not all parents give their kids whatever they want-when they want it. Not everyone wants things NOW, some people do have patience. Some people still have good in their hearts and just want to bless others. My relationship with Jesus has definitely taught me patience since things happen in His time and not mine.
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• Trinidad And Tobago
3 Mar 18
On the individual level, off course we find many instances of good parenting. And thank God for it. What this article observes is a PERCENTAGE and a TREND of how the world (people) are behaving and balancing with modern technology. I think 'judging' is a bit harsh. I prefer 'observing'. If something is showing as 55% or more it is a trend. As a teacher, in my country, loosely, 15 students have 1 parent (high crime rate) and are trouble makers (or problematic) , 8 students suffer mental problem, 5 students violent ( carry weapons or fights), and the rest 12 have model and caring parents. These last 12 students were unable to study to their fullest capacity because of the 'disruptions' caused by the others. And that statistics were true of other classes. School is now hell. So yes, while there are parents who care for their children (and they have my admiration) they are finding it hard to 'win' against their 'environment'. Children are facing 'peer pressure' and 'technology challenges'...and I am not sure the changes are good.
@indexer (4852)
• Leicester, England
2 Mar 18
I agree with much of what you say. However, the tide is turning in terms of plastic waste - in Europe at least. The pictures we have seen of the damage that plastic does to the oceans and their inhabitants have persuaded many people to change their ways - some shops are providing free water taps at which people can refill their bottles, for example. I remember, on my only trip to the United States more than 10 years ago, buying a bottle of water and thinking that it tasted exactly like tap water - unlike the mineral water I was used to in the UK. I discovered later that what I had had in the US was indeed tap water! Somebody is making vast profits out of the credulity of people who need to be re-educated!
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• Trinidad And Tobago
2 Mar 18
I am glad 'awareness' of plastic damage to the environment is on the uprise. You give me good news. The turning point is the consumerism 'awareness'. If shops are providing or making free water available, then that is a start!. Here in T&T the water is treated with so much chlorine that it burns your stomach. After a few visit to the doctor, the safest bet for me is to drink 'bottled water'. In India, I think the same gimmick is used with local tap water and sealed bottle covers. The local con artist fool tourists into thinking the water they sell is 'healthy' and in the process they make a huge profit. Sad is the day when 'dishonest practices' comes at the expense of your health.! But again, a testament to the immorality of the times and our calm acceptance of crooked work ethics! That's why I am curious as to what damage are we doing to our non-physical environment? Even our thoughts and psyche is polluted.
@LadyDuck (472004)
• Switzerland
2 Mar 18
I think that we face a brilliant future. The new generations are selfish, they do not want to work hard, they want everything and immediately. They seem not to have sentiments.
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• Trinidad And Tobago
3 Mar 18
What kind of 'brilliant' future you see? I think in a 'disposable culture' you cannot be ATTACHED to things. Sadly, with no attachment there can be no sentiment either. We seem to be throwing out our 'emotions' too. What will become of us? Will we be still 'human'? Food for thought.
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@LadyDuck (472004)
• Switzerland
3 Mar 18
@Gita17112016 I forgot the negative, I wanted to type "I think that we DO NOT face a brilliant future". I fully agree with you that this is a "disposable culture".
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• Trinidad And Tobago
3 Mar 18
@LadyDuck Ah, the negative make a huge difference. I do think our future is 'brilliant' where the inventions are concern...I just lament we are just abusing the resources...and losing something precious in the process.
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@mom210 (9115)
• United States
11 Mar 18
I agree people are very impatient these days. I miss the days when we might take the tv or microwave to the local fix it man and he would ....fix them. Now days we simply throw them away and buy a new one.
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• Trinidad And Tobago
13 Mar 18
Exactly! It is now MADE with a built in expiry date. Some companies actually make sure that their products 'spoils' after a period of time ...and that's why expiry date and warranties are now so important!. Even now when my washing machine spoils I simply buy a new one...because it will never repair properly!
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@mom210 (9115)
• United States
20 Mar 18
@Gita17112016 The appliances now work so very badly, I sould take an older appliance over a new one
@DianneN (247186)
• United States
4 Mar 18
I believe each generation, since the industrial revolution, want things "now". It has its good and bad points. Not everyone, including children, are raised with that mentality.
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@DianneN (247186)
• United States
9 Mar 18
@Gita17112016 My two grandchildren live in Manhattan. It may have lots of crowds, but there are plenty of large parks and so much culture. Technology is so important if used wisely.
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• Trinidad And Tobago
7 Mar 18
I think the 'instant gratification' culture is happening in cities where technology is high and it is very crowded.
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• Trinidad And Tobago
13 Mar 18
@DianneN Noted. That is what we need to do...just slow down. But 'instant gratification' is wanting things 'right now'. It's trends like wanting the news cell phone, newest car, getting rich overnight etc. Planted trees and wanting it to bear right away (grafted) etc. The more advance the technology the quicker we want things...
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@FayeHazel (40243)
• United States
2 Mar 18
I agree. I also see this in people my age and younger. Sometimes they need the biggest/best "Mini Mansion" house right away, get in debt over their head and can't get out..... not as much "working to goals" more "I want it now".... I think you're right .... these things aren't great qualities
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@FayeHazel (40243)
• United States
4 Mar 18
@Gita17112016 Oh dear, I can't imagine loaning my stove and fridge only for a short while. But... then... if she's happy.... Owning fully one's own home is a great accomplishment. Congratulations!
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• Trinidad And Tobago
3 Mar 18
Yes, the changing times. I had a mortgage one, to buy a new house and it took me years to pay it off. But I had long term planning and made sacrifices to 'own' my house one day. I have a neighbour, who every Christmas, go to Court and take out a nee stove and fridge on hire purchase for Christmas. Then January month the store come and repossesses it back. She is happy. She got to use a new stove for Christmas. And she does this every year! People are changing their values too!
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@Madshadi (8840)
• Brussels, Belgium
2 Mar 18
I am not really optimistic when I think about the future if mankind
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• Trinidad And Tobago
3 Mar 18
But small steps first, right?
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@Kandae11 (55131)
2 Mar 18
I think in the future people will become harder, with less emotion - more robot like.
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@Kandae11 (55131)
3 Mar 18
@Gita17112016 Most definitely.
• Trinidad And Tobago
3 Mar 18
Strange the way we will have to survive. We already see alienation in city life.
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