Single or married? Whats better and how.

This is not a question about what is better. It is a question about what is better for each of us.

It's not that one can't handle it. It is more whether they want to or not. It's a choice not preference.

It's up to the person if he or she can contain the relationship for longer time then he or she should marry otherwise not. One has to be committed and has to be faithful in the relationship.

Your right, and I agree, On this you won't disagree, when your single have fun, til you meet your only one.

for me.. as i have never experience yet to be married.. of course it's ok to be single.. no hassle, no headache, no to someone i will think off all the time, no commitment.. and i can decide on my own without asking for permission of my husband to be... that's as for now that i'm not yet ready to be attach forever.. but i know in the future i still want to be with someone, someone whom i really want to be with til my lifetime ends... of course it's a different feelings.. but still for now, i am not that brave to face that so for now i choose to be single..

Hello. This is rather subjective. Each person has his or her choice. But for me, I go for being married, simply because I love the person I am married to. Yeah, it gets boring sometimes but as they say love is a decision. So if the both cannot withstand each other anymore and feel like they are a burden to each other, better to let go.

We cant say its better to be single than be married nor being married is better than being single. I think it depends on your preferences and readiness on commiting yourself to a steady and lifelong relationship.if you're not yet ready for a serious commitment, then its better to be single but if you have found the one whom you can say the RIGHT one for you and whom you can commit your life, then being married is better....

Some people are meant to be married and others are not.

I'm not sure what you mean by "charm". Next December I will have been married for 40 years. I am as shocked as anybody that I got that old. I said I'd stick by my love 40 years ago and he said the same so here we are, after a whole lot of hard times mixed in with better. We're still loyal to each other. We still have a good time together cause we're still friends. Plenty of charm in it for me.

Relationships have to be build up especially in marriage. That's what we Indian think.

I wanted to get married so I could have children and give them a better life than I had. It did not turn out right and had a miscarriage and the wrong person I married so I raised animals instead of children. What is said that in Judaism it is important to have children but I was not lucky to have them. So, I raised animals and I love my animals but would have loved to have children along with my animals. My marriage was so bad that I decided I did not want to ever get married again.

Single... according to my opinion

Welcome to mylot ! I respect your thought . At any given time, my choice would be the exciting, the scary, the spectacular, the unpredictable roller coaster ride we call i.e marriage.With all its constraints, with all its limitations, in all its splendor, I will never fear to say, " I do".

This is a very big truth which many people dont look at as they find it quite painful. Its sometimes quite boring to be someone and this is applicable especially on those guys who prefer to socialise less.

You don't get married "because it's fun to spend time together;" you get married because your life is too complicated to handle all-by-yourself. And yes, sometimes it is fun for you & your spouse to 'spend time together'; but that's not "the reason you get married." The Bible puts it this way: the man 'tried all the others' and realized that the woman was "a part of him." (Granted, she was the only other human he'd ever met) And they remained together (and "the wedding at the beginning of the marriage" is just a way of publicly declaring that you are no longer 'just an individual, but now also devoted to your spouse').

I am married for past 8 years now and am still not bored, intact I feel this life is too short with her

Personaly my life after wedding is much better than it was when I was single. For I go for Marriage. Fun part is I always wanted to be single. I used to hate men. Never wanted to get married and today LOL I am choosing wedding.

When you feel that you are mature enough, it is much better to be married to a person who loves you and whom you love. When you are young, it is better to be in a living reltionship, but not single... (Just my opinion)

If you are really meant for each other, then get married.

It is own decision.