Should we get married?

@deba12 (2946)
India
March 5, 2018 10:59pm CST
I am a free spirit and I love my freedom. But, after a certain age, every parents worry about their daughters if they're not ready to marry. But, I think we should marry only when we're ready for the commitment. Besides, if we don't get the man of our choice, is there any justification to get married. We all marry for security. But, getting a husband doesn't always bring peace to the mind. In my opinion, we should do only those things that make us happy without hurting others. What's your view?
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youless
@youless (112496)
• Guangzhou, China
6 Mar 18
Always get married with the right one even if it may be late. Do not get married because of others's opinions.
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Debashri Das
@deba12 (2946)
• India
6 Mar 18
That's what I think. However, after a certain age, society and your parents pushes you to get married.
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youless
@youless (112496)
• Guangzhou, China
7 Mar 18
@Betxie1221 I think mostly it is based on your feelings.
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Beth Jumawid
@Betxie1221 (469)
• Philippines
6 Mar 18
hello @youless i just wanna ask.. if it's ok that i join this convo of the two of u.. anyways, i just wanna ask if how will u know that she/he is the right one for u then? thanks
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Swayamsiddha Dash
@Swayamsiddha (4354)
• New Delhi, India
6 Mar 18
Absolutely right. Parents many times fail to understand the problem of their kids, their requirements , their dilemas and this leads to further more trouble in their family.
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Debashri Das
@deba12 (2946)
• India
6 Mar 18
So, in that situation, what should one do?
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Dominique
@dodo19 (47317)
• Beaconsfield, Quebec
6 Mar 18
Marriage isn't for everyone. Not everyone finds the right person. My aunt and uncle have been together since before I was born and they're still together, even though they've never married. They definitely do seem perfectly happy. So, I think you should marry, if you've found the right person and if you feel it's right, if it's something that you want to do. So, that's how I feel.
Debashri Das
@deba12 (2946)
• India
6 Mar 18
I think one should get married only when he or she is mentally prepared for it. If you think you're up for it, go on.
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prashu
@prashu228 (37524)
• India
6 Mar 18
Thats the problem in our society , but there are many who just fought with the situation and spoke to the parents
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What'sUp_Cel
@rheicel (7065)
• Philippines
7 Mar 18
It's good to know about your insights in marriage usually in your country likes the idea of arrange marriage.
YUTINGQIN
@sunnynacelle (19)
• Chongqing, China
7 Mar 18
Where'd you wanna go How much you wanna risk
Jo Ann
@akalinus (43209)
• United States
7 Mar 18
If you are asking if you should get married, you probably shouldn't. Don't marry until you know that it is the right time and the right person.
Mohit Arora
@mohit459 (12565)
• Haldwani, India
6 Mar 18
Yep. You right.. if there is no love and care then no sense of being with such
Diana
@dya80dya (36656)
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6 Mar 18
If you find the right person yes. If not I don't see the purpose. If we aren't prepared we should avoid it. I just ignore parents who tell that I should married by now. We can't marry only because they want this.
Courage7
@Courage7 (19633)
• United States
6 Mar 18
No I have been married more than once. It is bad to get married. At least for me.
MD.TAJUL ISLAM PRADHAN
@Prdhan (587)
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6 Mar 18
As your wish.
Beth Jumawid
@Betxie1221 (469)
• Philippines
6 Mar 18
as for me, my reason for me to marry someone in the future, is that i'm sure that he's the one i entrust myself to be with until my life ends, i see myself growing old with and i think that i can't life without him... that's my reasons. as for your questions of hurting other's, i think in our decisions in life there are people who are not happy or who can't be happy to what we choose. so we really can't please everybody you just have to choose for them to be happy and u left hurting or u are the one who is happy and soon prove to them how happy you are and if they really are your true friends or family they will have no choice but give you their blessings and just be happy, besides it's not their life after all.. it yours...