Can love happen twice?
By Debashri Das
@deba12 (2946)
India
March 5, 2018 11:31pm CST
In my lovelife, I have had only one boyfriend. After breakup with him, I am not mentally prepared to go for any other person.
Many people say, that love may happen twice. But, I think if someone has touched your soul, how can you allow any other person to take his place in your life. I may be wrong or you may consider me traditional. But, that's what I think.
But, nowadays, I am getting closed to one of my friends. He too is taking interest in me. But whenever I meet him, I feel guilty due to my emotions for him. I haven't exposed my emotions to him yet. Should I reconsider my thoughts about love?
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17 responses
@prashu228 (37524)
• India
6 Mar 18
yes it can happen and it depends upon the person too
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@deba12 (2946)
• India
6 Mar 18
May be you're right. But, still I am having a guilt feeling to having feelings for that boy.
@anikoonline (3250)
• Hungary
6 Mar 18
You should consider. If you love someone and you got separated, you need time to heal. Then you heart will be opened to another love.
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@sashann (210)
• Philippines
6 Mar 18
@deba12 cry, cry and cry accept it, acceptance is the hardest way :( then accept the love of your family friends and specially the love from yourself, , try to have fun until you are really having fun, yes you can look back from the past many what if'stry to answer it by yourself make yourself miserable as long as you want, but dont forget to put the limitations , always remember before him you were happy , maybe he just made your life happier he put some colors in your life but you have to go to acceptance stage, that he is not with you anymore, still there is the person who loves you before him, and it is not just you who had the broken heart , there is always someone who had it all before you, get inspired by them, until you can say that you are ready to be loved by someone because you are ready to love someone,
@sjvg1976 (41281)
• Delhi, India
7 Mar 18
Yes it may happen twice but depends on the person how easy he forgets his ex . Don't worry you will forget him with the time. I know it's hard to do that but it's not impossible you will do at the end. It's better to tell about your past to your new bf instead of having disputes afterwards.
@Liberti (264)
• Mead, Washington
7 Mar 18
It has and does happen twice for many people especially if they are younger and have lost a love one way or another. For older folks it also happens at times but not always as often. The longer you are with someone the harder it would be to want to ever be with another. But yes it can and does often happen more than once.
@mohit459 (12565)
• Haldwani, India
6 Mar 18
It's a book also I think..
And seriously I'm shocked to see the title as I was also thinking to write on the same ...
Anyways you have ...great..
According to me I think yes..it can
@stapllotik (1933)
• India
6 Mar 18
Don't be hard on yourself. There is nothing wrong in it. But the person at the other end should not take your advantage, knowing your relationship status.
@Jennyloves (124)
• Buffalo, New York
6 Mar 18
My boyfriend had passed away at age 26. Was so in love. Waited 2 yrs than found a wonderful guy I have been dating for 2 years so yes it can happen again. Best of luck to u.
@deba12 (2946)
• India
6 Mar 18
Good to hear that. I too want to get out of this crux as soon as possible.
@Betxie1221 (469)
• Philippines
6 Mar 18
for me yes you can feel love as many as u can but according to F. Scott Fitzgerald - "There are all kinds of love in this world, but never the same love twice.”
there is i think what they called "ONE GREAT LOVE"
@Betxie1221 (469)
• Philippines
6 Mar 18
just don't force yourself to move on.. it will happen.. in time.. besides time heal all wounds so enjoy the healing process, like u endure the pain.. cry and cry and cry until u cry no more.. after that if u will fully moved on, you will be a better u then. and the next love will make u wiser,,
@mlgen1037 (29886)
• Manila, Philippines
7 Mar 18
If you are not committed, you can reconsider this friend of yours. Just make sure his intentions are true. 
@rheicel (7065)
• Philippines
7 Mar 18
It depends. If you will make it happen, it's going to happen twice. So it's your own choice the decision is yours.
