What would you have done in a flirty situation?
By Nnaemeka
@mydanods (6513)
Nigeria
March 6, 2018 10:42am CST
Do you find that people tend to flirt with you even when you tell them that you are not interested? A friend of mine recently told me about her encounter with a man. She had told him at the bar where they met that she had a relationship and she was satisfied. She just wanted to have some good time at the bar. But eventually, the man put his hands on her thigh. He was literally flirting with her. What disturbed her was that she laughed over it and when the man put his hands on her butt, she slapped him but later laughed over it. She said she seemed to be enjoying the attention but now she feels guilty as if she had encouraged him.
What would you have done if you found that you were flirty? Listening to her story made me realize that sometimes I had been flirty myself. What if I find a girl who is also flirty and didn’t want to listen to my story that I was in a serious relationship? It brings guilty feelings as if you are cheating on someone else.
Is there a way to prevent a flirty situation? What would you have done?
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7 responses
@librarygeek1980 (3137)
• United States
6 Mar 18
Lol, kinda hard for me to weigh in on this one, considering I'm a flirty person myself, so.....
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@librarygeek1980 (3137)
• United States
6 Mar 18
@mydanods I'm one that loves everyone, I'm more of a free spirit.
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@mydanods (6513)
• Nigeria
7 Mar 18
@librarygeek1980 Have you had relationships during any of the time you flirted? Serious relationships?
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@snowy22315 (182175)
• United States
6 Mar 18
Puting your hands on somebody is defintely crossing a line. If you laugh about it or act like it's cute it is just going to encourage the person.
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@arthurchappell (44998)
• Preston, England
6 Mar 18
the flirting is one thing but copping a feel was really inappropriate of him
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