My boyfriend doesn’t like my baby daddy
By Kenya Ware
@Gvdess (54)
March 9, 2018 10:29pm CST
When I & my baby daddy were in high school I ended up pregnant but we didn’t know until it was to late. I took a huge blow to my stomach which caused a miscarriage . Soon after we broke up . But to this day remained bestfriend . My current boyfriend doesn’t like how close we are . I’m not understanding how to go about explain things to him w/o offending him even further . Especially when I already have to deal with my boyfriends baby momma down my throat daily because she wants him back & he doesn’t want her so she caused excessive drama in our house .
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@Swayamsiddha (4354)
• New Delhi, India
10 Mar 18
Hope things get alright soon. By the way I would like to tell you someting. Please dont use short forms like w/o in this site. The rule I have got to know from others is that your conversation might get deleted for using shortforms for words or phrases.
@Swayamsiddha (4354)
• New Delhi, India
10 Mar 18
@Gvdess Its my pleasure . Welcome to mylot my friend. What is your profession? Where else do you write?
@Gvdess (54)
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10 Mar 18
@Swayamsiddha right now I work at a warehouse but I’m going to start going back to school to be an RN. Hopefully things work out as planned. And I mostly write on watpad or just in my personal books. I try to draw more then I write because I like to let my drawing tell the stories my words couldn’t always write .
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@mlgen1037 (29886)
• Manila, Philippines
10 Mar 18
Hi. I guess he has his own reasons why he does not like your baby daddy. Boyfriends really do not like having their gfs talking to their ex. In regards to your bf's baby mommy, he had to tell her that you she should know her boundaries. 
@mlgen1037 (29886)
• Manila, Philippines
10 Mar 18
@Gvdess Some people just cant see the dirt in their faces, dont they? The one who can tell her to back off is your boyfriend.
@Gvdess (54)
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10 Mar 18
She does not know her boundaries . She actually believes she runs our household as well as hers & that she can say as well as do as she pleases no matter what . & I’m not supposed to say or do anything . My baby daddy knows his boundaries . He respects my boyfriend to the utmost & tries not to cause drama or havoc
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@Jotomy (6322)
• India
10 Mar 18
that is why parents should teach their children how to be on their own, should have self respect etc., ethics of the life. Ethics are the one which keeps away from the troubles and struggles a little. We the girls should keep some boundaries for ourselves. Not to go with the boys be on our own unless we get married, our life is in our hands for some extent, we can make it good (maximum we must try for it)
@toniganzon (72517)
• Philippines
10 Mar 18
I understand how your boyfriend feels and I know he has his reasons for his insecurity. He needs to feel and be assured that nothing can come between the two of you.
@Gvdess (54)
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10 Mar 18
I try to reassure him all the time . The problem is he believe that because his baby momma wants him back so does my baby daddy . My baby daddy is my bestfriend , however, he’s currently in a relationship of his own . & me & his current boyfriend don’t get along either for the same issue . My baby daddy’s boyfriend believes something is still going on between us as well when there’s not . We don’t know how reassure either one of them that nothing is to nor will happen ever again . We do love each other but now on a friendly level . & we would’ve though that that was reassurance enough bc most exes nowadays can’t stand one another but we can to an extent
@Letranknight2015 (52079)
• Philippines
10 Mar 18
He should grow and learned that YOU belong to HIM now.
If he really loves you then he would understand that this ex of yours is just your friend now.
But then again, people who had best friends too close could always end up having an accident.
That's a challenge you need to take to convince him.
@Keyia120 (1175)
• United States
10 Mar 18
Girl jealousy is real and sometimes the other may feel he might be replaced by the Ex-boyfriend or something like that. I hope you can explain that nothing is going on between y'all and that you are just friends. Sometimes people need time to process the information so finding out late was no ones fault it just happened. Has your current man been hurt before?
