Should boys and girls be allowed to use the same toilets in school?

United Kingdom
March 16, 2018 6:25am CST
So I have an 8 year old daughter. It’s recently come to my attention that her year and upwards in her school, have boys and girls use the same toilets. My first reaction was shock because i am pretty sure I never had to when I was a kid. As well as that, there’s the fact that you just don’t know what goes on in the toilets. Boys/girls could be peeking under cubicles, or leaving doors open and god forbid showing there “bits”. So am I crazy in thinking that this isn’t right? I’ve spoken to a few other mums and, like myself they had no idea that this was a thing? I don’t know whether I’m being an overprotective parent or whether I should speak to the head teacher about it. Any advice is welcome. I am new to this also, so be nice :)
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@deba12 (2946)
• India
16 Mar 18
I personally don't support unisex toilets as I think it could question the security of girls.
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@Prdhan (587)
16 Mar 18
Never seen such.Truly tragic events.
• Cuddalore, India
16 Mar 18
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@Sreekala (34312)
• India
16 Mar 18
In my knowledge each and every schools in our country has separate toilets for boys and girls. How it comes unisex toilets in this particular school. Have an urgent meeting with the Principal and request them to take necessary action immediately.
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• United Kingdom
16 Mar 18
Will do, thank you :)
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@MALUSE (69373)
• Germany
16 Mar 18
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@MALUSE (69373)
• Germany
16 Mar 18
You must have meetings of parents and teachers once or twice a year. You could start a discussion there. I was a teacher for 40 years (in Germany). I've never seen unisex toilets for the pupils.
• United Kingdom
16 Mar 18
@MALUSE That’s exactly what I mean. If you, a teacher of 40 years have never seen unisex toilets in schools, then why is it suddenly an ok thing in my daughters school? So yes, I think I will have to set up a meeting with a teacher. Thank you
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• Philippines
17 Mar 18
for me it's a NO NO...
@ammyluv (611)
• Abuja, Nigeria
16 Mar 18
Totally wrong. You should speak to the head teacher
@LadyDuck (470819)
• Switzerland
16 Mar 18
We had separated bathrooms and I think it's better than sharing. You should have a meeting with the other moms and discuss this matter.
@nela13 (58493)
• Portugal
16 Mar 18
I have always had separeted bathrooms and it is still that way in my children's school and I think it is the correct way.
@mohit459 (12565)
• Haldwani, India
16 Mar 18
In kids it doesn't matter much.... But she at this age the school must have separate toilet
@iamsuren (98)
16 Mar 18
welcome to mylot... make friends...make money...have fun. you should complain to the authority. unisex toilet sound's uncomfortable...