“Did you ever feel like it is hard to make money?”

@Shavkat (139934)
Philippines
March 17, 2018 11:09am CST
Nowadays, young people tend to be abusive in terms of asking money from their parents. As I always described them as mutants in the modern world. I felt bad for their parents who are working so hard to provide their basic needs. However, these young ones just simply don't care. When I was at their age, I had helped my parents to lessen their burden. During my high school days, I tried to make my own money by doing a tutorial to kids. At that time, I realized that it is hard to make money and it wasn’t easy. “Have you ever helped your parents to lessen their expenses?” “Did you have a part-time job while studying?” Image Credit: pixabay.com
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@JudyEv (340116)
• Rockingham, Australia
18 Mar 18
Some children certainly have no idea about restraining their demands on their parents.
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@Shavkat (139934)
• Philippines
18 Mar 18
That's what some parents' problem. In some cases, these children tend to obliged their parents without limitations.
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@mydanods (6513)
• Nigeria
18 Mar 18
Some parents encourage that behavior by making their children little gods. They accede to all the wishes of their children that the children come to see their parents as their grocery store.
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@rakski (123153)
• Philippines
18 Mar 18
agree with you @JudyEv
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@mydanods (6513)
• Nigeria
17 Mar 18
I had a data entry work for my professor while studying. I actually stumbled upon the work because then it was 1998 and computers were a rarity in Nigeria. The professor was among the first persons to own a computer. I had learned about computers from my uncle in Lagos who runs a computer parts warehouse. So, when I stumbled upon this professor using his computer to type student's research work, I told him I could work on computers and that was how I got my first job typing and doing data entry for him. That was lots of fun and it taught me that money is not easy to get.
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@Shavkat (139934)
• Philippines
18 Mar 18
I think you did a great job having an extra cash and associated with the computer. During my college years, I had extra money by doing homework or research of my classmates. They are the lazy students. At some point, they are quite well-off individuals.
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@Shavkat (139934)
• Philippines
19 Mar 18
@mydanods I didn't follow, my friend. I am quite slow today.
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@mydanods (6513)
• Nigeria
18 Mar 18
@Shavkat The first will be last and the last first.
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@louievill (28851)
• Philippines
17 Mar 18
I helped my father in his shop in old downtown Manila at age 16. I do not find earning money hard in fact I even consider making any amount fun, the only problem is spending is easier and comes often at times.
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@Shavkat (139934)
• Philippines
18 Mar 18
I do agree it is easy to spend the money. I had tried a lot of part-time jobs and earn a certain amount of money. At some point, it is for personal expenditures.
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@hereandthere (45645)
• Philippines
17 Mar 18
we we'rent allowed while studying, but when we started working, yes, we helped
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@Shavkat (139934)
• Philippines
18 Mar 18
It is a free will, my friend. My siblings and I were not obliged to do it.
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@mohit459 (12565)
• Haldwani, India
17 Mar 18
I don't have any.. But seriously I feel awkward to ask money from parents so expect pocket money I don't ask them any extra sum
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@Shavkat (139934)
• Philippines
18 Mar 18
Same here. I don't ask extra allowance. We tried to be good children to them during our school days.
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@Shavkat (139934)
• Philippines
18 Mar 18
@mohit459 I also have the same feeling. During the old school days, we are three in total studying in the university. I think this is the most challenging thing that my parents need to deal with.
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@mohit459 (12565)
• Haldwani, India
18 Mar 18
@Shavkat ya I feel awkward to ask money from them.. I don't wanna that I'm burden on them in any aspect
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@mlgen1037 (29886)
• Manila, Philippines
17 Mar 18
I was quite a bit of rebellious during my school days. Yes I did a part-time job by tutoring kids so that I have my own money and I would not need to ask allowance from my parents. But they still give me money, which I save.
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@Shavkat (139934)
• Philippines
18 Mar 18
I do think that we have rebellious act during the old days. I have some of these acts but I still prioritized my studies. Some of my batchmates were really irresponsible individuals. I feel bad for them.
@AKRao24 (27424)
• India
17 Mar 18
Yes, I used to have many petty jobs as a student...unfortunately not to help my parents but to save them to spend on me! I never felt that earning money is a hard thing as I believed in only one thing work hard, sincerely and honestly....money will automatically come to you! Thanks dear @Shavkat !
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@AKRao24 (27424)
• India
18 Mar 18
@Shavkat, I was also getting scholarship during my under graduation and also during my post graduation ! Thanks!
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@Shavkat (139934)
• Philippines
18 Mar 18
@AKRao24 I hope you can have it, my friend. As of now, I had obtained my master's degree a few years back. I am still planning to have my doctorate degree. However, I can't decide which is which for now.
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@Shavkat (139934)
• Philippines
18 Mar 18
My part-time job's earnings are also for extra cash for things needed while studying. I am a scholar when I was in high school. My parents don't need to worry about the school's tuition fee at that time. I do agree that money will come along the way smoothly.
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@Ithink (9980)
• United States
18 Mar 18
To make spending money while I was growing up I would babysit, mow grass just do what ever odd jobs. Also collected cans and such and turned them in. It builds character and appreciation for how much things cost when it is your money.
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@Ithink (9980)
• United States
19 Mar 18
@Shavkat Do you have recycling there?
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@Shavkat (139934)
• Philippines
19 Mar 18
@Ithink Yes, we have here.
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@Shavkat (139934)
• Philippines
18 Mar 18
You had done a lot of adventure there, my friend. I had tried to collect used plastic items and sell them. Moreover, I also tried to earn in selling empty bottles.
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@sjvg1976 (41281)
• Delhi, India
17 Mar 18
Even I used to give tuitions when I was in high school and in seniour secondary. After that when I completed my engineering I got a job since then I have never asked money from my parents.
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@Shavkat (139934)
• Philippines
18 Mar 18
During my high school days, I don't need to worry about the tuition fee. I am on a full scholarship during that time. It was nice that you haven't asked money after you had graduated. As for me, I also didn't ask money from them after the same situation.
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@Freelanzer (10743)
• Canada
18 Mar 18
I did have a part time job while in university and yes I always helped my mom financially
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@Shavkat (139934)
• Philippines
18 Mar 18
I think you are a good daughter. My siblings and I had helped our parents financially. When I was also in college, I did some part-time job, too
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@db20747 (43440)
• Washington, District Of Columbia
18 Mar 18
Money certainly does not grow on trees!! I had a part time job and baby sat to buy me lots of things!!!
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@Shavkat (139934)
• Philippines
18 Mar 18
I do agree on that. I also remembered my granny's wisdom of thought about Juan who are too lazy and waiting for the fruit to fall from a tree. Image Credit: juanotsotamad.files.wordpress.com
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@Shavkat (139934)
• Philippines
18 Mar 18
@db20747 I hope so. But I do think everything is possible.
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@db20747 (43440)
• Washington, District Of Columbia
18 Mar 18
@Shavkat that's a good and wise lesson!!! Wish life could be that easy!!!!!
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@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
17 Mar 18
Well, I only have my grandma who financed my college. When I finished college, I learn to work.
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@Shavkat (139934)
• Philippines
18 Mar 18
I think your grandma had loved you so much. Is she still alive? Unfortunately, my relatives are not like this. Moreover, my responsible parents tried all their best to provide everything. My siblings and I had worked as a training ground to be an independent.
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@Shavkat (139934)
• Philippines
19 Mar 18
@JustBhem I think it is still your first-degree granny. I have a granny like it but she's a terror old maid. She doesn't like us.
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@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
19 Mar 18
@Shavkat I think so. Yes, she was terror too but it changes when I started living with her. Unlike before with my Father and Aunt. She was so strict.
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@deba12 (2946)
• India
17 Mar 18
After completing my grads, I started to earn money to lessen my family's burden. Many a time, i thought I should take a break at least for a few months. But, the needs grow, and I couldn't take any break.
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@Shavkat (139934)
• Philippines
18 Mar 18
As we step into the real world, things seem quite complicated. Our life started to become busier and busier. I can join you with that sentiment. I still keep going and no breaks as much as possible. However, I need to have a setback and balance things up.
@Iamkitty (475)
• Kozhikode, India
19 Mar 18
Its really hard to make money . I am searching unique ways.
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@Shavkat (139934)
• Philippines
19 Mar 18
I hope you can find a good niche, my friend. I do think it is really hard to make money.
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@Shavkat (139934)
• Philippines
19 Mar 18
@Iamkitty I think the highest amount of money that I received here is $16. I am not sure if I can make it higher. I have limited time here.
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@Iamkitty (475)
• Kozhikode, India
19 Mar 18
@Shavkat yes it's really a difficult task . I hope I can earn a little bit from mylot .
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@shshiju (10342)
• Cochin, India
20 Mar 18
The time when we recognize that it is hard to earn money, then we give more value to money .
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@Shavkat (139934)
• Philippines
21 Mar 18
I hope these young ones will know the importance of hard money.
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@Shavkat (139934)
• Philippines
22 Mar 18
@shshiju I totally agree with you.
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@shshiju (10342)
• Cochin, India
21 Mar 18
@Shavkat Yes . when they have source they never get the feel. When they have feel , they start to build their own world.
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@Hannihar (130218)
• Israel
18 Mar 18
I worked for my parents and it was hard to get my money out of my father that I earned.
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@Shavkat (139934)
• Philippines
19 Mar 18
Why is it difficult? Does he keep it for your future use?
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@Shavkat (139934)
• Philippines
19 Mar 18
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@Hannihar (130218)
• Israel
19 Mar 18
@Shavkat That could have been right Shavkat.
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@Meramar (2695)
18 Mar 18
Children are not aware of how much it costs maintaining a family and a home. The dificulties are similar, but with the technologie and all the consumerism the youth nowadays wishs more and more. During my childhood, it was enough to go out with the bicycle. Nowadays, it's the smartphone, iphone, tablet, playstation, wii....and all the accessories.
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@Shavkat (139934)
• Philippines
18 Mar 18
You have a point. I agree that it also follows with the changes. Some children would not be aware of it. Personally, it can also good to educate the child what's the real importance of having the money.
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@Shavkat (139934)
• Philippines
18 Mar 18
@Meramar That's a good idea. I do think it is essential to have such skills.
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@Meramar (2695)
18 Mar 18
@Shavkat Financial education es very important! As sooner we can start learning, as easier it will be for each to handle with.
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@dgobucks226 (35615)
19 Mar 18
I worked in my Dad's business to earn money when I was 15 years old. I continued to work summers there when I was off from college. There are some kids who probably do receive money from parents, but I also notice many high school age kids working in various retail jobs.
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@Shavkat (139934)
• Philippines
20 Mar 18
During my college years, I also tried to help out in my parents' business. The only difference, they don't pay me. It was added up to the tuition fees. I do think that youngsters can still do this.
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@dgobucks226 (35615)
20 Mar 18
@Shavkat I agree
@Iamkitty (475)
• Kozhikode, India
18 Mar 18
I am working in call center as a full time. The salary is not enough for me. So I made an online search and got mylot. But I don't know how we can earn money here .
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@Shavkat (139934)
• Philippines
20 Mar 18
@Iamkitty I think it is still possible. Active interaction is the key to it.
@Iamkitty (475)
• Kozhikode, India
19 Mar 18
@Shavkat yes I agree Mylot salary is not enough ,some saying we can't even cross $5 threshold .
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@arunima25 (87806)
• Bangalore, India
25 Jun 18
Earning money, giving it a value and saving it are some important life skills that need to be learnt at young age. My parents lived these values and I got it from them. I value them and spend them judiciously. I never bugged my parents for money. They fulfilled our requirements and that was it.
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@Shavkat (139934)
• Philippines
25 Jun 18
I do agree that they had done their part for having an education. It is also about time to bring back to them, too. I tried my best not to be dependent on them. My siblings and I were trained to stand up for ourselves.
@Shavkat (139934)
• Philippines
26 Jun 18
@arunima25 (87806)
• Bangalore, India
25 Jun 18
@Shavkat That is one much needed life skill to be independent financially.