IS LOVE ENOUGH TO CONTINUE THE RELATIONSHIP?

Philippines
March 19, 2018 10:34pm CST
I have a friend and she's currently in a relationship with this guy for almost 3 years now. She was being battered but she said that she doesn't want to leave him. What are your opinions?
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Arthur Chappell
@arthurchappell (44998)
• Preston, England
20 Mar 18
@silvara if he is hurting her she should get out of there - sadly it is her choice to stay but he clearly has no love for her - hope she breaks free soon
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Nnaemeka
@mydanods (6513)
• Nigeria
20 Mar 18
I do hope she breaks free from him. Love knows when to say no.
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Silvara
@silvara (13)
• Philippines
20 Mar 18
Sadly, she loves this person so much that she's willing to be battered by him.
Danna B.
@db20747 (43440)
• Washington, District Of Columbia
20 Mar 18
Terrible situation!? Some people are desperate no matter what the situation is. Hope she doesn't have to hit rock bottom before she gets out of this relationship!
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Shavkat
@Shavkat (140131)
• Philippines
20 Mar 18
I think she needs to end the relationship.It is not a healthy relationship. Love is not enough in this kind of situation.
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Silvara
@silvara (13)
• Philippines
20 Mar 18
I think you guys are all correct. I am feeling that she is just wanting to get an acceptance from someone or maybe she's afraid of being alone. It could be the two.
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Shavkat
@Shavkat (140131)
• Philippines
20 Mar 18
@silvara I think she needs you and the other friends in times like this.
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Silvara
@silvara (13)
• Philippines
20 Mar 18
@Shavkat that is why I am here for her in times of need. She actually have some bruises on her arms at this moment.
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Mavic123456
@Mavic123456 (21893)
• Thailand
20 Mar 18
Is leaving not an option?
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Mavic123456
@Mavic123456 (21893)
• Thailand
21 Mar 18
@silvara if she can't do something about herself I guess no one can really help her. then it is love above self preservation and safety.
Silvara
@silvara (13)
• Philippines
20 Mar 18
I guess she's too in love with him.. Love is blind as what they say.
Mohit Arora
@mohit459 (12565)
• Haldwani, India
20 Mar 18
Why the ..... She is staying in!.. Better to leave such person right now!.. If I would be then I have left him too early.
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Mohit Arora
@mohit459 (12565)
• Haldwani, India
20 Mar 18
@silvara she must know her value even she has self respect too.. So why she is just with him.. And the person who loves you doesn't beat you... He cares for you nor just leave or give you pain
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Mohit Arora
@mohit459 (12565)
• Haldwani, India
20 Mar 18
@silvara ohh... I'm sorry to hear that. She must not be with her now..I think..next her personal choice
Silvara
@silvara (13)
• Philippines
20 Mar 18
I told her that too. I guess she's afraid to be alone. :(
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Louise Crisologo
@mlgen1037 (29886)
• Manila, Philippines
20 Mar 18
Love would be enough if both parties are completely committed in the relationship. But if only one is committed, that is a disaster. Remember, love is a two way street, it will never work out if only one is fixing the relationship. You also need your brain if one is into that relationship.
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S George
@shshiju (10342)
• Cochin, India
20 Mar 18
She is so honest in her relationship . But hurting is not good. If her guy continues it she should take a wise decision.
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Silvara
@silvara (13)
• Philippines
20 Mar 18
She's definitely doesn't deserve the battery or any maltreatment from anyone else.
Icydoll
@Icydoll (36717)
• India
20 Mar 18
Hi welcome to Mylot... I think your friend have to move on..he is not worthy to receive your friend's love.
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