Do You Easily Forgive? / myLot

Philippines

March 21, 2018 1:14am CST

They say forgive and forget. Easier said than done. But forgiving does not come easy especially to those people who are terribly hurt and felt betrayed. Though the Bible speaks of forgiveness all the time and loving your enemies, humans will always be humans. There may be some who are quick to forgive but cannot easily forget the harm done on them. W cannot blame them because each of us have a story to tell. I believe that forgiving takes a long and agonizing process but in the end, once you had forgiven someone, you would feel better and lighter because in one way or another you have ceased hurting yourself as well.

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Shavkat

@Shavkat (140249)

• Philippines

21 Mar 18

I can forgive easily but I can't forget easily.

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cherigucchi

@cherigucchi (14876)

• Philippines

21 Mar 18

That is also my case most of the times.

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Amaka

@ammyluv (611)

• Abuja, Nigeria

21 Mar 18

Yeah, I do! It wasn't easy for the first part of my life, but I became a new creature then I knew it's important to forgive.

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cherigucchi

@cherigucchi (14876)

• Philippines

21 Mar 18

That is good to know.

Sreekala

@Sreekala (34312)

• India

21 Mar 18

I may take time to forgive but I never forget, that is my nature. If the hurt is deep then forgiving may delayed.

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Linda Mansfield (Snowdrop)

@sprite1950 (30452)

• Corsham, England

21 Mar 18

If it's something minor I will forgive and forget but if someone has done something to really hurt me I might forgive but it will remain in my memory,

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AngelaMarie

@Bhebelen14 (5194)

• Philippines

21 Mar 18

Before it hard for me to forgive and to forget but I learned that by forgiving your letting yourself to be free from heartache and stress.

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Judy Story

@jstory07 (141830)

• Roseburg, Oregon

21 Mar 18

I will forgive a couple of times but if the person keeps doing the same thing over and over again. They do not deserve to be forgiven.

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cherigucchi

@cherigucchi (14876)

• Philippines

21 Mar 18

I agree with you on that. If the same people commit the same mistake, they are the mistake!

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Munhozmib

@munhozmib (3836)

• Sao Paulo, Brazil

21 Mar 18

Greetings, Forgiving is all about not holding any sort of hatred inside. Although difficult, it's quite possible. It depends only on us. If we work hard enough within our own emotions, we can let go of these feelings. They have little to offer to us, by the way. Forgetting is a different thing. I don't think we should ever forget. I don't think we should keep remembering, though. If you have had any traumatic experience, if something someone has done hurt you, you probably will remember it for a while. But it shouldn't be a proposital memory. It should be something stick to your own self, so you can prepare yourself better in the future. Regards!