How do you want to be loved?

@Jessabuma (31700)
Baguio, Philippines
March 23, 2018 1:33pm CST
How do you want to be loved fellow members? My answer is, I want my man to love me the way I love him, to understand me the way I understand him, to be always there whenever I need him and to realize that I am the most important person in his life. How about you dear friends?
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@1hopefulman (45120)
• Canada
23 Mar 18
Pretty much like you but I would want them to love God more than me as then I know that they will always love me.
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@Jessabuma (31700)
• Baguio, Philippines
23 Mar 18
You are right sir, we should always prioritize our love for God . Because God is love.
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@1hopefulman (45120)
• Canada
23 Mar 18
@Jessabuma I think that when someone really loves God, then they will treat their mate the right way and they would never want to hurt them in any way. What do you think?
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29 Mar 18
same here.He should love God more than me.
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29 Mar 18
I want to respected and understood. If someone respects and tries to understand you even when you are at the point where you are at your worst that is unconditional love.
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@1hopefulman (45120)
• Canada
30 Mar 18
Yes, that makes sense!
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21 Apr 18
@1hopefulman thanks :)
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@Jessabuma (31700)
• Baguio, Philippines
30 Mar 18
Very well said.
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@epiffanie (11326)
• Australia
26 Mar 18
When I was young, I always wanted to be loved and cared for.. But now that I am senior, I don't really care much if others love me or not.. I have this SELF-love that is complete and that inspire me to love others without demanding anything in return...
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@epiffanie (11326)
• Australia
26 Mar 18
@Jessabuma You know what? if you have Self-love, you become lovable that people would want to love you even if you don’t expect them to.. because love attracts love... It’s part of the natural law of attraction..
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@Jessabuma (31700)
• Baguio, Philippines
26 Mar 18
You have point ma'am . But I still want to be love back
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@Jessabuma (31700)
• Baguio, Philippines
26 Mar 18
@epiffanie very well said ma'am
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@Raj7779 (3657)
• Canada
23 Mar 18
I dont want anyone to love me.I love myself as no one can ever love me.I don't except anything from anyone.
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@Raj7779 (3657)
• Canada
23 Mar 18
@Jessabuma yes I have family but still I don't except much from them
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@Jessabuma (31700)
• Baguio, Philippines
23 Mar 18
@Raj7779 ohh ok dear friend
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@Jessabuma (31700)
• Baguio, Philippines
23 Mar 18
Don't you have family?b
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@Shortail (845)
• Philippines
23 Mar 18
Well nothing, Is up to the girl, I don't expect too much, the more you expect, the more you feel disappointed. .
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@Shortail (845)
• Philippines
23 Mar 18
@Jessabuma and how's your man right now?
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@Jessabuma (31700)
• Baguio, Philippines
23 Mar 18
@Shortail hahaha!!! I am still single. But when I found the perfect one, I will apply that.
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@Jessabuma (31700)
• Baguio, Philippines
23 Mar 18
You have a point dear friend.
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@rheicel (7065)
• Philippines
26 Mar 18
So you're asking in return? It's actually realistic some might say they love unconditionally.
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@rheicel (7065)
• Philippines
29 Mar 18
@Jessabuma Have you been in a relationship?
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@Jessabuma (31700)
• Baguio, Philippines
29 Mar 18
That's really the way what I want to be loved
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@Jessabuma (31700)
• Baguio, Philippines
29 Mar 18
@rheicel yes that was before. I am single since a few months ago
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@suni51 (3429)
• India
29 May 18
Depends on man you marry! Some people show it but some love you but don't show it. I am the one who loves my wife but never keep repeating that I do. And PDA is not my idea at all.
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@suni51 (3429)
• India
29 May 18
@Jessabuma But I know Filipinos love to show their love
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@Jessabuma (31700)
• Baguio, Philippines
29 May 18
Oh I see. Yes some men are not showy
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@Jessabuma (31700)
• Baguio, Philippines
29 May 18
@suni51 yes I agree with you.
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• Bucharest, Romania
29 Mar 18
You married or in a relationship?
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• Bucharest, Romania
29 Mar 18
@Jessabuma Considering that your post is about love I think it is safe to say that you look LOVEly.
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@Jessabuma (31700)
• Baguio, Philippines
29 Mar 18
@Cristi_Ichim thank you.
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@Jessabuma (31700)
• Baguio, Philippines
29 Mar 18
I am single. But if ever I found my man, I want him to love me that way.
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@rakski (125761)
• Philippines
9 May 18
I am a hopeless romantic. I want the same but of course in reality both of you have to compromise for the betterment of the situation. I say he/she should have faith and fear of God also.
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@Jessabuma (31700)
• Baguio, Philippines
9 May 18
Yes I agree with you..
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@Jessabuma (31700)
• Baguio, Philippines
30 May 18
@pieeyed thanks
@DianneN (247186)
• United States
8 May 18
I share the same as you with my husband. Humor, hugs, and handholding are part of the package, too.
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@DianneN (247186)
• United States
8 May 18
@Jessabuma Thank you and I wish the best for you!!!!
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@Jessabuma (31700)
• Baguio, Philippines
8 May 18
Ohh that's nice to know.. Wishing you both a lifetime happiness.. Stay blessed
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@Jessabuma (31700)
• Baguio, Philippines
8 May 18
@DianneN thank you also
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@mohit459 (12565)
• Haldwani, India
24 Mar 18
Love...... So have you get your soulmate?.
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@mohit459 (12565)
• Haldwani, India
29 Mar 18
@Jessabuma soon you will get your Mr. Right
@Jessabuma (31700)
• Baguio, Philippines
29 Mar 18
No, I am still single. Hoping to find that Mr. Right someday
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@Jessabuma (31700)
• Baguio, Philippines
29 Mar 18
@mohit459 I hope so. Hehehe!!! I am not rushing about this matter, I am still young.
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@Ganma7 (3664)
4 Apr 18
Love, committment and respect are a great combo
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@Ganma7 (3664)
4 Apr 18
@Jessabuma Thank you so much
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@Jessabuma (31700)
• Baguio, Philippines
4 Apr 18
@Ganma7 you're welcome dear friend
@Jessabuma (31700)
• Baguio, Philippines
4 Apr 18
Very well said dear friend
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@Shivram59 (36351)
• India
26 Mar 18
@Jessabuma I'm unmarried.I would likexpect my wife to ask me what I want her to do with me.I would also ask her what she expects me to do with her.
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@Shivram59 (36351)
• India
26 Mar 18
@Jessabuma You are most welcome.
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@Jessabuma (31700)
• Baguio, Philippines
26 Mar 18
I am also unmarried, I am just sharing my thoughts on how exactly I want to be loved and I thank you for sharing your opinion as well
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@mlgen1037 (29886)
• Manila, Philippines
24 Mar 18
I want to be loved honestly as possible even if I am the greatest lie he could ever have.
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@Jessabuma (31700)
• Baguio, Philippines
24 Mar 18
Wow ! You have such good opinion dear friend.
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@mlgen1037 (29886)
• Manila, Philippines
24 Mar 18
@Jessabuma thank you, dear.
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@mlgen1037 (29886)
• Manila, Philippines
30 May 18
@pieeyed Of course, Raj. Who would not want that?
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@caopaopao (12395)
• China
21 Apr 18
I totally agree with you.
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@Jessabuma (31700)
• Baguio, Philippines
21 Apr 18
Thank you so much
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@Anshu246 (1076)
• Patna, India
23 Mar 18
I want my girl to care for me, never let me feel alone..always be there with me in every situation, love me like no one else....forgives me for my little mistakes, understand me my feelings and i can write more on it..
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@Anshu246 (1076)
• Patna, India
24 Mar 18
@Jessabuma I am not married yet..haha
@Jessabuma (31700)
• Baguio, Philippines
23 Mar 18
That's a nice answer, I am sure your girlfriend/wife is very lucky for having you.
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@aureliah (24316)
• Kenya
23 Mar 18
Mmm I can’t really comment about love. Maybe self love
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@Jessabuma (31700)
• Baguio, Philippines
23 Mar 18
That's your opinion. We have different opinions about love.
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@aureliah (24316)
• Kenya
27 Mar 18
@Jessabuma yes everyone has their own opinions
@porwest (92411)
• United States
21 May 18
I just want people to like or love me for who I am. That's really it for me.
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@Jessabuma (31700)
• Baguio, Philippines
21 May 18
I like the same way as yours.. thanks
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@august18 (3907)
• Tunisia
21 Apr 18
I want to be loved for who I am.
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@Jessabuma (31700)
• Baguio, Philippines
21 Apr 18
That's nice
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21 May 18
I understand the person whom I love. I want, that person should also understand me. Mutual understanding is important for keeping relationship alive.
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@Jessabuma (31700)
• Baguio, Philippines
21 May 18
Yes, very well stated. Thanks for sharing..
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