Do you knock before entering inside?

@Raj7779 (3657)
Canada
March 24, 2018 3:25pm CST
Knock, knock, who's there? It's me, raj.. What do you want? Let me in, let me in! :P I typically have my room door closed when I am in the room. I don't like being disturbed and being the very private me, I don't fancy people looking at me when I am doing stuffs. I don't lock it however - not unless I really want to keep people out. From time to time, people will just open my door and walk into my room to come talk to me. I find that quite irritating half the time. I rank this higher than phone calls on my list of annoying things. It's like, if you compare emails and calls, emails are preferable since you can choose to respond to them at your own time. Phone calls are more difficult. You either pick the call up or continue to let it ring non-stop. Opening my door, walking right in, and demanding my attention is the worst of the lot. I am not even given a chance to say no (though I have shooed people off in the past when I really wanted to concentrate). But the worst part is that they don't knock. I simply hate it. They don't knock! I feel it is basic courtesy to knock. If I don't need you to knock, I would have left my door wide open. Knocking alerts you to my attention. At least I am mentally prepared that there is someone at the door wanting my attention. A simple knock that takes a mere second, yet one that can mean a whole world of difference... what's so difficult? So what do you think? Do you knock before entering someone's room? Or do you simply barge in as if you have the right? Do you hate it when people do not knock before entering your room? Or are you a visitor magnet who welcomes every human, elf or troll (lol, I just can't resist!!)? Do share your thoughts. ;-)
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@mohit459 (12565)
• Haldwani, India
25 Mar 18
Ya for sure... It's an adicate
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@Raj7779 (3657)
• Canada
25 Mar 18
I do have a DND sign - one I stole from a hotel room (lol) but guess what - people are so violent with my door that they ripped the sign (not intentionally of course) while twisting the knob.
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@mohit459 (12565)
• Haldwani, India
25 Mar 18
@marlina (154131)
• Canada
24 Mar 18
It is only polite to knock at a closed door.
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@Raj7779 (3657)
• Canada
25 Mar 18
even if you are not doing anything *tsk* *tsk* in the room, I still think it is polite for people to knock when wanting to come into a closed room. :P
@MALUSE (69373)
• Germany
24 Mar 18
I can understand you. I also prefer emails to calls. Your knocking problem can easily be solved if you close the door when you're inside. I don't get why you don't do it and prefer being annoyed.
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@Raj7779 (3657)
• Canada
25 Mar 18
it's all about respect. ;-)
@Courtlynn (67085)
• United States
25 Mar 18
My bedroom door is always open, unless my bf is here as he won't sleep with it open. So no knocking issue for me.
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@Courtlynn (67085)
• United States
25 Mar 18
@Raj7779 Well, it should be common sense to knock... so shouldn't have to be taught.
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@Raj7779 (3657)
• Canada
25 Mar 18
@Courtlynn yes but mostly peoples are senseless
@Raj7779 (3657)
• Canada
25 Mar 18
We probably should launch some courses teaching people how to knock. Maybe this is our ticket to our first million!
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@anikoonline (3250)
• Hungary
25 Mar 18
When I was very busy at the office, I even knocked on my own door. It was very funny.
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@Raj7779 (3657)
• Canada
25 Mar 18
But why you knock on your own door?
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• Hungary
25 Mar 18
@Raj7779 Because I was so busy with my thoughts about my job that my mind skipped the information that it was my own door.
@belindac (30)
25 Mar 18
Yes. An open door is alright, but a closed door definitely means knock.
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@Raj7779 (3657)
• Canada
25 Mar 18
Spot on. I just hate it when people just invade my private space without warning.
@Shavkat (139827)
• Philippines
25 Mar 18
It is best thing that we need to consider with respect to other's privacy.
@id_peace (14005)
• Singapore
25 Mar 18
yes i will definitely knock the door just in case