BEWARE!
@mlgen1037 (29886)
Manila, Philippines
March 28, 2018 1:41am CST
Hello! I am really not in the mood to write today. I just want to get this off my chest.
You guys have been nice to me, and I am grateful for that. I have been quiet about my life. And even if I divulge my “so-called” perfect life, there would be people who would think it is a lie and I am the perfect pretender. That is why better that I keep mum about it. I do not like to show-off cause I do not want attention.
Now, I was badly offended. Offended to the point that I felt my whole life is a lie - my background, my hobbies, my intellectuality, my occupation and let alone my marital status. That all of these are a pretense. Do I need to show proofs just for me to look like I am credible enough and I am not pretending someone else I am not? Just plain lame. And maybe my being a nice and sweet personality would also be seen as a lie or deception.
So here it is. It was a mistake that I lied. I lied about a PART of me. But that PART turned into a WHOLE, that I was made to feel that I myself was a person of disguise or simply a Liar. It was as if My whole being was fake. I do not need to justify myself. I accept I was wrong but to slap me on the face with those two sentences was really way out of line.
But that is fine. I know I was wrong. And this is the thing. It was superficiality that really compelled me to do what I did. People will be nice to you when you look pretty and not because of your intellectuality. I gave it a try. But what happened? Disaster. And with that single lie, I am labelled a disguise.
So now, Tell me if you havent lied or pretended to be someone or something your whole life? I wont mind if you dont. I appreciate if you will. Thank you!
BEWARE: I am your greatest lie. And I am a snob. But we can be friends still. The choice is yours! 
Image: from Google. Credit to the original owner.
Image: from Google. Credit to the original owner.48 people like this
52 responses
@DianneN (247186)
• United States
29 Mar 18
I honestly have no idea what you are referring to, but I've always taken you at face value, meaning honest, friendly, and open. Me, what you see is what you get. No lies.
Don't let anyone bother you. I've had "people" here telling each other that i make up my life. They are such idiots, that I blocked them. I may have a couple of more to go.
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@DianneN (247186)
• United States
29 Mar 18
@mlgen1037 And thank you for your kind words. People can be cruel and jealous. I have no time for people like that in my life and neither should you. Especially virtual people!
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@mlgen1037 (29886)
• Manila, Philippines
29 Mar 18
@DianneN youre most welcome, Dianne. We do not need them as they take away our happiness because maybe they arent happy with their lives. 
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@mlgen1037 (29886)
• Manila, Philippines
29 Mar 18
That is why I really admire you. You do not care about what others will say or if they will believe you. When you are being honest, for others it is just a lie or a make believe fantasy of your “so-called perfect” life. People will never get satisfied. So yeah better to remove those who are just not worth the time. Thank you for the kind words, Dianne. I appreciate it.
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@mlgen1037 (29886)
• Manila, Philippines
30 Mar 18
Thank you, my friend. That is what I am doing now. Not minding those who have nothing better to do but hurt other people and having a blast with people who are nice to me. That makes me happier. 
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@mlgen1037 (29886)
• Manila, Philippines
30 Mar 18
Thank you, my friend. That is what I am doing now. Not minding those who have nothing better to do but hurt other people and having a blast with people who are nice to me. That makes me happier.
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@mlgen1037 (29886)
• Manila, Philippines
30 Mar 18
@kepweng I am sorry to hear that. There are people here that are mean to you too?
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@Shavkat (140119)
• Philippines
29 Mar 18
@mlgen1037 I think it is fine to lie. We are not perfect. As long as we acknowledge it and be true to ourselves.
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@mlgen1037 (29886)
• Manila, Philippines
28 Mar 18
Yes, that is true. In this case, yes I lied, my bad. But what was said to me was really offending as if I am the worst ever. 
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@mlgen1037 (29886)
• Manila, Philippines
29 Mar 18
@Shavkat Maybe those people are near to perfection. But it is okay, I did wrong and apologized for it andI am moving on from it. People can just really be so judgmental.
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@mlgen1037 (29886)
• Manila, Philippines
29 Mar 18
Will remember that always, Judy. Thank you
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@ridingbet (66854)
• Philippines
28 Mar 18
really? is it in this site that somebody offended you? hmmm, that is gross. for how can somebody comment on your 'good life' if he or she does not know your entire life?
is he or she a fellow kababayan? the Sherlock Holmes in me is arising now.
seriously, i hope you don't mind them. even here, bullying and bashing is at its subtlest form.
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@Letranknight2015 (52079)
• Philippines
29 Mar 18
@mlgen1037 Maybe I should know were this post came and how they have said it. hard to believe trolls exist even to this day over here.
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@ridingbet (66854)
• Philippines
29 Mar 18
@mlgen1037 i hope you have put your emotions in the bag and then throw it away.
i guess the user who did this to you has a callous personality, or an I, ME, MINE type. or maybe it is ENVY to the maximum level. never mind this user. he/she is not the one paying for your discussions.
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@mlgen1037 (29886)
• Manila, Philippines
28 Mar 18
Yes, here. And I am really offended because of the words told to me. Just like that and was dumbfounded like I was the worst person ever. 
Since I have said what I felt, I feel much better. Thank you, Ingrid. You are all helpful and comforting.
Since I have said what I felt, I feel much better. Thank you, Ingrid. You are all helpful and comforting. 4 people like this
@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
28 Mar 18
I feel the same way too.
Other people won't believe me until I show myself who I am.
Then after that confession, everyone here accepted me and still consider part of their daily interaction.
Don't worry about people who judge you because we know they won't make us pretty with their judgement.
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@mlgen1037 (29886)
• Manila, Philippines
28 Mar 18
Wow! That is why I like it here in mylot. That amidst those people who are just plain superficial, there are still those who will accept you as you are and will want to be their friend. I am not alone anymore. Thank you, Bhem. 
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@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
28 Mar 18
@mlgen1037
People are very understanding and friendly. So, trust me. You feel safe here as I did.
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@mlgen1037 (29886)
• Manila, Philippines
28 Mar 18
@JustBhem I am happy to hear those words. Very reassuring. It makes my heart giddy.
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@lovinangelsinstead21 (36850)
• Pamplona, Spain
30 Mar 18
No, I have always been just me always and as straightforward as I can be.
I can´t pretend a thing as it shows in my face how I feel and its always been that way.
I don´t what else to say except that I don´t mind if someone pretends sometimes.
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@lovinangelsinstead21 (36850)
• Pamplona, Spain
31 Mar 18
@mlgen1037
Don´t be so hard on yourself.
Life itself is hard and difficult enough without anything else to have to bear.
Leave those burdens on one side all you can and carry on with life the way you are.
I am having some difficult times too and its really hard sometimes but I get up again dust myself down and start all over again as many times as it needs over and over.
Take care.
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@mlgen1037 (29886)
• Manila, Philippines
31 Mar 18
@lovinangelsinstead21 Thank you, my friend. Those are very comforting. I will move forward and wont let my burdens get in the way. Take care too.
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@mlgen1037 (29886)
• Manila, Philippines
31 Mar 18
I wish people could be as open-minded as you. You will also see another side of a person when they react to such situation. Maybe I trusted too much thinking that the person would understand. But it is okay. I learned my lessons and I realized something in the process. Thank you, @lovingangelsinstead21.
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@sprite1950 (30452)
• Corsham, England
29 Mar 18
Do you mean you lied here and someone picked up on it? I wouldn't worry about it. I think we can all exaggerate a little at times and it makes no difference to me. I still like our interaction.
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@sprite1950 (30452)
• Corsham, England
29 Mar 18
@mlgen1037 Oh I see lol! Well we all tell the odd lie so I wouldn't worry too much. I've had the same experience and I found that after a time the person forgave me. I'm sure this person will in time.
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@mlgen1037 (29886)
• Manila, Philippines
29 Mar 18
I didnt lie here. hahaha. Everything on my profile is true. What I meant is that I had an experience with someone and that someone knew I lied about something and said something that I was offended of. I said my apologies but that person did not seem to listen to my explanation and was completely shunned out.
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@mlgen1037 (29886)
• Manila, Philippines
29 Mar 18
@sprite1950 hopefully. But it is okay if that person wont. I dont mind now that I have put it out of my chest.
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@Bluedoll (16773)
• Canada
28 Mar 18
@mlgen1037 I know it helps to get it out sometimes. People here have helped me too. Its nice to know we are not alone.
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@mlgen1037 (29886)
• Manila, Philippines
28 Mar 18
Thank you, Blue Doll. I appreciate the kind words and the support you guys gave me. I am really happy and I feel much better.
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@mlgen1037 (29886)
• Manila, Philippines
28 Mar 18
@Bluedoll I agree and I am thankful that you guys are here. I really appreciate it.
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@Letranknight2015 (52079)
• Philippines
29 Mar 18
You can't expect people to be true here, only a few people does. Not sure today if there are still people that pretends. I hope I don't have to encounter those people that likes to troll around infuriating other users. Sorry you had to go through something here. I sure like to know who's this person so I could block it right away.
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@shaggin (72234)
• United States
31 Mar 18
@Letranknight2015 I do expect people to be true here and in real life. I expect others to be as honest as I am and that is usually what hurts the most is finding out people I believed and trusted lied to me.
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@rakski (126052)
• Philippines
1 Apr 18
@Letranknight2015 I think if not all, most of the people here are true. At least the people I interact with. Because you can read it in their posts somehow.
I agree with @shaggin.
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@mlgen1037 (29886)
• Manila, Philippines
29 Mar 18
People these days. They think they are perfect but can really be judgmental when others commit mistakes. But do not worry. It wouldnt be fair if I say who that person is. That person might be okay with you. Thank you, Lk. I aporeciate the concern.
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@just4him (317241)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
29 Mar 18
I'm not sure what this is all about. I haven't read anything from you that looks like a lie, or could be construed as a lie. As for me. I am who I am. I've always been honest. I don't pretend to be someone I'm not. I've never lied. I know people will say I must have as a child because all children lie. However, as much as I have wracked my brain to find the one instance where I lied, I haven't found it. I'm simply not a liar and never was in any shape or form.
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@just4him (317241)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
30 Mar 18
@mlgen1037 I hope they weren't too painful either, and I seriously doubt anyone who admits their faults, as you have, could be the worst person ever. That title is reserved for those who commit the crimes we've seen in the past several years with ISIS, terrorists, and people who willingly without conscience go out to harm other people.
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@mlgen1037 (29886)
• Manila, Philippines
30 Mar 18
Thank you, Valerie. I appreciate kind words and concern. It is really rare to meet people who are truly honest. And I admire people who are. I have lied a lot of times and I have suffered the consequences but as much as possible I am honest as I can be. But I hope I was not told painful words as if I am the worst person ever.
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@mlgen1037 (29886)
• Manila, Philippines
30 Mar 18
@just4him That is really reassuring, Valerie. Thank you. Whats wrong with other people is that when a mistake was done to them, they think the person's whole being is bad and would not even give chances to that person. Now I feel better, because there are people who are really just bad to the bones and do not have remorse for what they did.
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@Hannihar (130213)
• Israel
30 Mar 18
@mlgen1037
Louise, I still do not know why you feel that you are lie and are a snob? I am sure I have maybe told a fib or two in my life. I try to be an honest straight forward person and people either like me or do not.
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@Hannihar (130213)
• Israel
30 Mar 18
@mlgen1037
Louise, I am sorry for reminding you and I am sure that was very hard. You should not be condemned or judged for making a mistake and someone should not make you feel terrible about it.
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@mlgen1037 (29886)
• Manila, Philippines
30 Mar 18
Hanni, I was really going to let it go. I made a mistake then accept what I did and move on. But I really I was offended when I told something after I apologized for lying. Then I snubbed that person. I do not want to be judged because of one mistake that I did. That is why I posted this.
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@mlgen1037 (29886)
• Manila, Philippines
30 Mar 18
@Hannihar It is okay, Hanni. When I tried to make a conversation with that person, I was actually dumbfounded with the answer. So I guess, I am trying so much to make things better but then people can just really be close-minded.
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@mlgen1037 (29886)
• Manila, Philippines
28 Mar 18
thank you, Lovely. I appreciate it.
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@thedevilinme (4152)
• Northampton, England
28 Mar 18
Pull yourself together man! In England we would slap you with a wet fish .lol
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@thedevilinme (4152)
• Northampton, England
7 Apr 18
@mlgen1037 as cute as you are its fish time
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@mlgen1037 (29886)
• Manila, Philippines
29 Mar 18
Hahaha why would you do that to a cute little lady? Just kidding.
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@Ithink (9980)
• United States
1 Apr 18
Well with me I am what I am, I don't go out to impress anyone. I am pretty secure in my life even if things keep going wrong right now! lol One thing I have realized is you cant make everyone happy. As long as you know who you are and are basically happy, that you are honest with your significant other those are the important things.
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@Ithink (9980)
• United States
2 Apr 18
@mlgen1037 Your welcome, my thoughts are also if everything went great all the time, we wouldn't really appreciate things.
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@mlgen1037 (29886)
• Manila, Philippines
1 Apr 18
Happy to hear that, my friend. It is good to have an imperfect perfect life (that is what I call it hehe). It can be really crazy at times but gives you reasons to smile and laugh.
Thank you, dear, for these kind words. I really appreciate it.
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@mlgen1037 (29886)
• Manila, Philippines
2 Apr 18
@Ithink It wouldnt be fun either. Thank you, my friend.
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@hereandthere (45645)
• Philippines
28 Mar 18
i'm surprised and saddened by this. what happened?
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@mlgen1037 (29886)
• Manila, Philippines
28 Mar 18
Hello. It is a long story, I was really flustered at the words I read was really offending.
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@mlgen1037 (29886)
• Manila, Philippines
1 Apr 18
@rakski Is that person still here?
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@epiffanie (11326)
• Australia
30 Mar 18
You know what? I know people who lie about who they really are and what they do and where they've been, etc.. I don't care what lies they told about themselves!! ... But if they lie about me, all hell will break loose ...lol..
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@epiffanie (11326)
• Australia
31 Mar 18
@mlgen1037 People who can't accept apologies for a harmless lie, maybe are the biggest liars..
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@mlgen1037 (29886)
• Manila, Philippines
30 Mar 18
Hahaha you got me smiling with your response, Bess. Thats the thing. People do lie about themselves but when someone lies to them, they act so childishly. And when you aplogize, they do not give you a cent of their time.I appreciate your response and the laughter.
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@mlgen1037 (29886)
• Manila, Philippines
31 Mar 18
@epiffanie Most probably. And I guess from there, we see the “real” them.
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@FayeHazel (40243)
• United States
29 Mar 18
I'm sorry to hear about your situation. I know we don't know each other well but you seem very caring and well spoken, to me. You know the truth of the situation and if someone else wants to believe different, well - that is their business and their loss if they choose to not believe the actual truth.
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@FayeHazel (40243)
• United States
29 Mar 18
@mlgen1037 You're so welcome. It's a very hard thing to do, but sometimes you just can't change someone's opinion and one must leave them be.
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@mlgen1037 (29886)
• Manila, Philippines
29 Mar 18
Thank you, Faye. I appreciate the kind words and the concern. After I have posted this discussion, I felt more relieved. You are right, it is only me and them who know the truth. It is okay if there are people who dont believe me or are saying something, I just let them be. I am here to have fun, learn and gain more friends while earning on the side.
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@mlgen1037 (29886)
• Manila, Philippines
29 Mar 18
@FayeHazel yes. As they say,we cannot please everyday. Thank you, Faye.
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@mlgen1037 (29886)
• Manila, Philippines
31 Mar 18
hahaha that got me smiling. I wont anymore. Thank you, Darcy.
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@Courage7 (19633)
• United States
29 Mar 18
@mlgen1037 Welcome have a wonderful day and lifeAnd thanks too.
And thanks too.3 people like this
@mlgen1037 (29886)
• Manila, Philippines
29 Mar 18
Thank you, my friend. I appreciate the friendship. Thats a rare trait to have. Being honest. Likewise, my friend.
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