what does it mean pay it forward.

@amadeo (111938)
United States
March 28, 2018 11:07am CST
Hello everyone. Most of us know the expression of pay it forward. I never thought of this and wonder what is the full meaning of this. This is an expression describing the beneficiary of good deed. The concept is old but we are doing this. Pay it forward doing something nice for people. Simple things.Hold the door open the person behind you. How can you pay it forward. I am sure most of us here know this. What have you done pay it forward ? Photo is mine.Sis in law and bro in law
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@1hopefulman (45120)
• Canada
28 Mar 18
I remember seeing a movie with that name some years back. I try to do kind things when I see a need. When kids come to my door selling chocolates, I alway buy one and then give them the chocolate as I have to watch my diet.
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@amadeo (111938)
• United States
28 Mar 18
@1hopefulman that is very good there.
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@db20747 (43440)
• Washington, District Of Columbia
1 Apr 18
My goodness, I need to knock on your door!!!
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@1hopefulman (45120)
• Canada
1 Apr 18
@db20747 I don't open the door to Australian arboreal marsupials.
@DianneN (247186)
• United States
28 Mar 18
Lovely photo! As recently as today, my hubs and I helped a woman pick up the contents of her bags and handbag when she dropped them all looking for her sunglasses. We also told her that her sunglasses were on her head!
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@amadeo (111938)
• United States
28 Mar 18
@DianneN that happen to me plenty of time believe me.
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@DianneN (247186)
• United States
29 Mar 18
@amadeo Me, too!!!
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@shaggin (72140)
• United States
28 Mar 18
I think the idea of paying it forward is a bit different as people share what they have done to promote awareness I guess. To me I don’t write about it when I do something nice for someone else as I feel like it’s asking for a pat on the back.
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@shaggin (72140)
• United States
29 Mar 18
@andriaperry that's what I think the idea behind it is that it will catch on and spread kindness is why people tell about what they do. I just feel like I want to do things without needing to tell others. It would be pretty boring if I told how I left a quarter in the Aldi's cart as a pay it forward
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@amadeo (111938)
• United States
28 Mar 18
@shaggin I understand what your saying there.
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@andriaperry (116936)
• Anniston, Alabama
28 Mar 18
What is wrong with patting yourself on the back sometimes? Plus I think when you let others know you do good its contagious.
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@crossbones27 (49470)
• Mojave, California
28 Mar 18
It means everyone sends me 5 bucks in the mail, better make it 10 just in case. This is called paying in forward. I make bad jokes.
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• Mojave, California
28 Mar 18
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@amadeo (111938)
• United States
28 Mar 18
@crossbones27 It would not be you if you do not make bad jokes.We still love you.This is pay it forward
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@andriaperry (116936)
• Anniston, Alabama
28 Mar 18
LOL, I second that!
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@LeaPea2417 (37355)
• Toccoa, Georgia
28 Mar 18
Yes, it means doing a nice thing for someone when you don't have to do it, you just want to do it to brighten someone's day.
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@amadeo (111938)
• United States
28 Mar 18
@LeaPea2417 thank you
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@andriaperry (116936)
• Anniston, Alabama
28 Mar 18
Paying forward, means to me, being good to others, old and young, now so when I get old people will be good to me. I give my time when I can so one day someone will make time for me. I give rides to town free so one day I can get a free ride into town. At times I am selfish but I try to give to others that are in need, food and clothes. I try my best not to hold grudges, and to just let bad things go that people do to me, Let God handle those and the dirty deed. Each day I am nice to someone I can feel God blessing me. It makes the soul feel free.
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@amadeo (111938)
• United States
28 Mar 18
@andriaperry very nice andrea.
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@wiLLmaH (8802)
• Singapore, Singapore
28 Mar 18
My husband done that, he paid someone's food. Some just can't believe that there are still kind people in this world.
@wiLLmaH (8802)
• Singapore, Singapore
29 Mar 18
@amadeo i can't remember which organisation from US that my husband requested for the "pay it forward" card.
@amadeo (111938)
• United States
28 Mar 18
@wiLLmaH yes we have a lot of t his here doing this..Even at Christmas time
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@LadyDuck (471456)
• Switzerland
28 Mar 18
I think that the meaning is to respond to someone kindness, by being kind to someone else. I do my best to be kind.
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@amadeo (111938)
• United States
28 Mar 18
@LadyDuck I know that you do.
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@JudyEv (340223)
• Rockingham, Australia
28 Mar 18
We try to help people where we can. Paying it forward makes people feel good about themselves which is always a positive thing
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@amadeo (111938)
• United States
28 Mar 18
@JudyEv yes it is very much so
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@spiderdust (14760)
• San Jose, California
28 Mar 18
The idea came from a book or movie, didn't it? I think it means that if I find myself to be the recipient of a good deed or blessing, then I also do a random act of kindness for someone else... or at least that's how I've known it to be practiced.
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@amadeo (111938)
• United States
28 Mar 18
@spiderdust that is correct there.
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@FayeHazel (40243)
• United States
28 Mar 18
It's a great expression and concept. Sometimes I put extra coins into the parking meter - hope someone else will get some use of it. Or some little thing I can help with
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@amadeo (111938)
• United States
28 Mar 18
@FayeHazel oh!I do this also.Not the parking is by credit card now.
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@amadeo (111938)
• United States
29 Mar 18
@FayeHazel same here.
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@FayeHazel (40243)
• United States
29 Mar 18
@amadeo In my town - we still have those coin operated meters in some places. But a lot have those "pay station" devices which I don't like
@Kandae11 (55034)
28 Mar 18
Kindness comes naturally to me - though sometimes we must be just a little bit unkind to someone if that person is to be helped.
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@amadeo (111938)
• United States
28 Mar 18
@Kandae11 yes your right about t his.
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• Northampton, England
28 Mar 18
I enjoyed the KC movie and wrote a similar film script
@amadeo (111938)
• United States
28 Mar 18
@thedevilinme.KC movie.Something missing here?
• Northampton, England
29 Mar 18
@amadeo Kevin Costner
@mlgen1037 (29886)
• Manila, Philippines
28 Mar 18
Paying it forward for me is forwarding kindness to the people around us because every good deed goes a long way. Well, I remember helping a cute little boy to get down because he is having a hard time getting down from the wall. I was on my way to my student's house and this boy does not know what to do. So I offered my hand and told him that I will assist him. And though he did not thank me, I saw the smile on his face and yes he was shy.
@amadeo (111938)
• United States
28 Mar 18
@migen that is a cute story there.I loved it
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@mlgen1037 (29886)
• Manila, Philippines
29 Mar 18
@amadeo thank you, Alfredo.
@eileenleyva (27560)
• Philippines
19 Apr 18
Pay it forward means when you are in difficult situation and somebody comes to your aid, you don't have to feel indebted to the one who helped you, instead, it becomes your duty to help three others in dire situations. It is the ripple effect concept popularized by a tragic movie decades back. As for my self, I was indebted to my own mother who financially supported me while my own daughters were growing up. By way of paying it forward, I feed strangers, or assist the elderly, come to aid of a friend or family, and never ask for a payback. I like this post very much.
@amadeo (111938)
• United States
19 Apr 18
@eiIeenleyva very nice and glad to hear t his.Thank you
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@BelleStarr (61102)
• United States
30 Mar 18
I just sent a check to one of my granddaughters to help her with food and other expenses, people helped me when I was young and had little children, now I am helping others.
@amadeo (111938)
• United States
30 Mar 18
@BelleStarr this is very nice of you there.
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@akalinus (43209)
• United States
28 Mar 18
When someone helps you and you can't pay them back, they expect you to pay it forward. Say someone pays part of your grocery money so you don't have to put things back. You can help someone else to pay it forward. Maybe you could buy an old lady a cup of coffee or help someone with a flat tire. It means passing kindness along. It does not have to be in the same way you received it.
@amadeo (111938)
• United States
28 Mar 18
@akalinus thank you.
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@akalinus (43209)
• United States
28 Mar 18
@amadeo When someone asks, what do I owe you, I just say to pay it forward. You never know when someone needs help or a kind hand.
@just4him (317089)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
29 Mar 18
I like doing nice things for people and being able to pay it forward when someone has been nice to me is a very good feeling.
@db20747 (43440)
• Washington, District Of Columbia
1 Apr 18
I thought it meant let the next guy, pick up the tab!!!
@august18 (3907)
• Tunisia
1 Apr 18
I think there's a movie called "Pay it forward". That's all I know.